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Quote by constance
I don't thnik peopewere really berating u to begin with.
some great advice was given from lots of different people for you to consider and hopefully use some to help you out. Some advice you were ok with and others not. But that's what happens when so many people with different experinces use a forum.
you're not going to like everything offered and others aren't going to like what u have offered.
It makes the world go around. Some peeps here do things I wouldn't shake a stick at but so what? Advice is freely given and can be freely rejected.
I don't agree with everything said but some of the stuff was really good - it's up to you to decide what u want for yourself and your wife.
But next time u want an answer to a question and head it up with the info that u did give - expect replies, expect sum peeps to agree and oters to knock you, others not to give two hoots.
The problem whenwe ask for advice is oftenwe keeplooking until we meet sonmeone with the same ideas as ourselves therefore reinforcing our own judgement and making us feel safe in that judgement. Yes I know you didn't specifically ask for advice but you kinda invited it.
Next time - just say thanks to anyone who responds to you if you don't want to get into anything to deep or just don't post back
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Did he actually ask for advice? As I recall all he wanted to know was how many times a week we all shag!!
macman_uk I think you have shown us all how to behave with dignity when being pre judged by those who have no experience about your situation. In my eyes you are head and shoulders above those that set themselves abouve you.
Whoah!!!!!!!!!! I did say that he didn't ask for advice. And If u have read the thread then I'll think u will find that I did post earlier which Macman said he appreciated.
So if you want to knock me for not seemimgly reading posts then I suggest you do eaxctly the same
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You see... slinkyhips can give a disagreeing viewpoint without calling me names and swearing at me! I am absolutely fine with that. I also notice that she has not been moaned at with it being her first post because she is on the same side as the moaners! A first poster with a viewpoint that doesn't follow the overall trend and the moaning about joining just to make the post is made!
If members choose to go off on a tangent giving me all kinds of grief about cheating and not romancing my wife and doing the wrong things then fine - but accept that I will come back and defend myself against postings that people can't possibly know to be true. if you look back I was pleasant and polite but honest in what I was saying - I don't need to apologise to anybody - I was straight and fair and not the least bit rude in replying to people giving me advice that I didn't ask for in the first place.
You see.... you got me posting again and I didn't want to.
I suggest you all start your own little forum where new people are banned, only swingers are allowed and basically stop being members of a site that on the face of it is solely for swingers but then is now happy to take the money off single guys, married guys and whoever else you can think of.
I am sure I won't be allowed to post much more considering one of the moderators called me a sad bastard.
macman
If members choose to go off on a tangent giving me all kinds of grief about cheating and not romancing my wife and doing the wrong things then fine - but accept that I will come back and defend myself against postings that people can't possibly know to be true. if you look back I was pleasant and polite but honest in what I was saying - I don't need to apologise to anybody - I was straight and fair and not the least bit rude in replying to people giving me advice that I didn't ask for in the first place.
You see.... you got me posting again and I didn't want to.
I suggest you all start your own little forum where new people are banned, only swingers are allowed and basically stop being members of a site that on the face of it is solely for swingers but then is now happy to take the money off single guys, married guys and whoever else you can think of.
I am sure I won't be allowed to post much more considering one of the moderators called me a sad bastard.
macman
Quote by macman_uk
You see... slinkyhips can give a disagreeing viewpoint without calling me names and swearing at me! I am absolutely fine with that. I also notice that she has not been moaned at with it being her first post because she is on the same side as the moaners! A first poster with a viewpoint that doesn't follow the overall trend and the moaning about joining just to make the post is made!
If members choose to go off on a tangent giving me all kinds of grief about cheating and not romancing my wife and doing the wrong things then fine - but accept that I will come back and defend myself against postings that people can't possibly know to be true. if you look back I was pleasant and polite but honest in what I was saying - I don't need to apologise to anybody - I was straight and fair and not the least bit rude in replying to people giving me advice that I didn't ask for in the first place.
You see.... you got me posting again and I didn't want to.
I suggest you all start your own little forum where new people are banned, only swingers are allowed and basically stop being members of a site that on the face of it is solely for swingers but then is now happy to take the money off single guys, married guys and whoever else you can think of.
I am sure I won't be allowed to post much more considering one of the moderators called me a sad bastard.
macman
I'm sorry to add fuel to the fire, but you are certainly causing a storm with this one. If you threaten no to post again, I personally will be fine with that. Maybe we can get on with a happier thread.. In fact I am about to start one called Happy Thread. Stop by and feel free to add your insight/comments.
