I thought I was a lightweight but the more I talk to people the more I realise that... I seem to have been meeting way, way more that the average user :shock: I know this is because "nobody meets on this site"! Which is why I need to ask you regulars, how often do you meet on average? All swinging-related meetings included (socials, club nights, private meetings etc).
As a woman playing alone you will always receive offers of meets, the only thing detering most guys will be their inability to accomodate, or their unwillingness to take time out during the working day. I think, therefore, that the only worthwhile comparisons can be made by ladies in a near similar position, and unfortunately most don't post in the forum.
As a single guy I've had only a handful of meets, from the site, this year, and that's pretty well what I expect....same as previous years. I don't proactively seek to meet people from the site for sex, with an occasional exception, although I often mention to couples that they'd be welcome to come stay with me if they fancied it. I'm not counting social meets, for drinks, lunch and so on, as these can be arranged any time.
well lets see, 8 ladies in 18 months. Rather more meets, and a weeks holiday with one lady. Along drinks and other social meets.
We average a meet with a couple we have not met before around once every 3-4 months, I would point out that we both work from home and don't have kids, can accommodate and we are active members of 3 sites and that's about all we can find who want to meet us.
We go to a swingers club once a week and make a lot of new friends there occasionally finding a compatible couple at the club.
We meet existing friends who are swingers and play every couple of months or so.
We meet existing friends who come round for a social night at least once a week and have played with them 4 times in as many years.
Totally depends on what's going on really - sometimes I have lots of meets and then sometimes I'm practically a nun!
It really depends what else is going on in our lives at the time. We have been known to have had 4 meets in a week, but sometimes we can go a couple of months.
I'd say we average about 2 meets/parties a month. That's not including socials, etc. I think it would be wrong for us to include that as for us, socials are for meeting up with friends and making new ones.
Same as Funlovers here really. Its been known to have a manic week and then its been known to be 6 months or more but i guess in 6 years on here swinging (not inc socials etc) about once every two months at most. Thats why I guess we're not lifestylers just hobbyists lol
I find it impossible to get a reply, let alone a meet. I have met one fantastic lady from this site. Unfortunately it was just too far away...Sods law I guess!!
It would be nice to find someone and have some fun!!
We have averaged less than 1 meet for ever year we have been on this site.
Please bear in mind some of those meets came from other sites!
We want more, but it isn't likely. Yet we are still on cam twice a week and still enjoying ourselves.
I met someone off this site and she is the only person I have fun with. At the moment we meet up once or twice a week for fun, but usually combine it with a pub visit.
About once a month on average. I may try to increase this a little but like many people, it depends on free time, work, other plans etc
From this site.... 4 since we have been members.
In total we average a play meet maybe once every 6 weeks I think.
Our time is restricted due to kids and work, though now we have discovered the club scene we usually arrange to go to one of those when we have time. Things have really picked up since then, as you get to meet people face to face and either play with them at the club or arrange to play with them between club visits.
Tbh we have found arranging meets through the internet hard work! Much easier to meet people in 'real' life and go from there lol.
Just joined so can't say but hoping for about once every 1/2 months anyway. Probably optimistic. Would rather meet people in the flesh, as suggested by another poster, but difficult to go to parties as a single guy it seems.
We can't answer either as we await our first meet, but I guess one every two months would be nice!
How often do you meet?
several possible answers ... the first takes the form of a question - How often can you get here?
secondly it depends upon whether I switch on my little black phone...there are some members who have this number...and thirdly, if I fixed the doorbell so that I knew if someone was trying to find me then the number of meets would almost surely increase, if only slightly.
