How often do you swing?

12 Sep 2006

I am in a nosey mood and my curiosity has been raised by a few comments made elsewhere. So I wish to askâ€¦
How often do you /you and your partner take part in swinging activities?
For the purpose of this thread, swinging will be defined as visiting swinging clubs, dogging (provided it involves more than you just sitting in an empty car park wishing someone else would turn up), recreational sex with a person or people other than (or in addition to) your â€˜regularâ€™ partner/fuck-buddy. (and may be something else as well if someone points out something I have over-looked)
Ooops redface

- I lost a couple of options:
- Mainly only after socials/munches
- I am here for purely social reasons for the time being

12 Sep 2006

Probably more than twice a year but less than once a month these days, and happy with that tbh....
Unless you mean visiting swinging clubs JUST to use the sauna wink

:wink: :wink:

12 Sep 2006

We probably average out at just less than once a month although it does tend to go in fits and starts.
Jas
XXX

12 Sep 2006

Now I have managed to make the whole ferkin' lot vanish lol

- why can't I do that with grass stains confused

12 Sep 2006

Quote by PoloLady

Now I have managed to make the whole ferkin' lot vanish - why can't I do that with grass stains

You mean you vanished my vote :shock: :? :? :?
Last time I post on one of your threads you ungrateful wench :P
Jas
XXX

12 Sep 2006

Help!!!

12 Sep 2006

At least once a month....twice a month in the summer if we have no other plans!

12 Sep 2006

Simple answer ...... not often enough sad

12 Sep 2006

Wait, wait, wait!... Missy is on the case to see if she can fix my fluck-up smile

12 Sep 2006

Quote by PoloLady
Wait, wait, wait!... Missy is on the case to see if she can fix my fluck-up

Oh wow!!! :bounce:
Oh worship

@ self!!!! I did it! I fixed a fluck up instead of flucking it up even more :shock: :bounce:

12 Sep 2006

Quote by Missy
Wait, wait, wait!... Missy is on the case to see if she can fix my fluck-up

Oh wow!!! :bounce:
Oh worship

@ self!!!! I did it! I fixed a fluck up instead of flucking it up even more :shock: :bounce:
Bugger mad

Just went to have a proud look at me poll edit ............. where the bluddy ell did all them extra answers come from!!!!! :shock:
Weren't me :uhoh:
bolt

12 Sep 2006

Quote by Missy
Wait, wait, wait!... Missy is on the case to see if she can fix my fluck-up

Oh wow!!! :bounce:
Oh worship

@ self!!!! I did it! I fixed a fluck up instead of flucking it up even more :shock: :bounce:
Well we have a few spares - but it is better to have spares than be caught short wink

Thank you

12 Sep 2006

Ya forgot not yet lol

12 Sep 2006

I've answered, kind of varies really, can swing a couple or so times a month, then not bother again for 3 mths ....... So I've done an average of once a month biggrin

Haven't for ages tho, blummin summer hols evil

But kids now back to school ......... I can feel a Partners trip coming on cool

:happy:

12 Sep 2006

What if you're operating at a certain rate now but yer business plan intends to increase turnover by 75%? That option ain't there.
I'll vote when the poll options have settled down a bit.
Missy kiss

Ooops no I meant passionkiss

(I can't even get that right!)
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12 Sep 2006

Quote by goose35
Ya forgot not yet

Well you may laugh, but that one would get my vote.... :cry:
lol

12 Sep 2006

Quote by minotaur
Ya forgot not yet

Well you may laugh, but that one would get my vote.... :cry:
lol
aaawww :therethere:

12 Sep 2006

Oi!!!! what about the one for not nearly enough ffs :sticky:
FIRE xxx

12 Sep 2006

I have been meeting this couple twice a month on and off for 5 months or so and as a single guy that suites me. biggrin

i'd like a bit more but you seem to struggle for contacts,am not bad at meeting ladies on nights out but you can't beat an organized meet with swingers i think its the buz you get when that in box says 1 or 2 replys "steady on now"
in answer to your thread twice. wink

deputy

12 Sep 2006

Quote by firelizard
Oi!!!! what about the one for not nearly enough ffs :sticky:
FIRE xxx

Now THAT would win by a landslide, or so my bookie tells me.... smile

12 Sep 2006

Quote by minotaur
Ya forgot not yet

Well you may laugh, but that one would get my vote.... :cry:
lol
Mine too thats why i said it. I just needed to laugh :lol:

12 Sep 2006

polo you nosey bugger! you know discretion and the possibility of the perception of unseemly bragging precludes an accurate answer! :P
as often as i'm happy with. erm . . . . that's it?

Quote by Jas-Tim
We probably average out at just less than once a month although it does tend to go in fits and starts.

no pun intended? confused

;)

Quote by Missy
Just went to have a proud look at me poll edit ............. where the bluddy ell did all them extra answers come from!!!!!

still struggling with the buttons missy? :P ;) kiss

Quote by Missy
IHaven't for ages tho, blummin summer hols But kids now back to school ......... I can feel a Partners trip coming on :happy:

oooooooohhhh . . . . can you now? :rascal: not been there fer ages. any ideas when this might be exactly? LMUs over thattaway missy? ;)
neil x x x ;)
p.s. polo? you have an accurate answer on the poll. ;)

12 Sep 2006

I voted for a couple of times a year but it's a bit more than a couple but not as much as once a month dunno

It sure ain't enough I know that much rolleyes

12 Sep 2006

Good thread - I was dying to ask this of people, was wondering how people fit it around everyday lives and duties?. I assume people who have regular contacts may meet more often than those scouring ads. Hey what do I know?
pink x

12 Sep 2006

Good quezzie Polo!
I had to say 2-3 times a year (hey... we're in the majority for a change) but it might not be that much. It's not that we don't swing... it's more a case of being 'opportunist' swingers... what some would call 'selective' I guess dunno

12 Sep 2006

Quote by neilinleeds
polo you nosey bugger! you know discretion and the possibility of the perception of unseemly bragging precludes an accurate answer! :P
as often as i'm happy with.

What he said! ;) lol

If the right people and the right situatiion is there and it works out, great. If not, no big hoohar, it's not the be all and end all of my sex life.
kiss

Gem. x

12 Sep 2006

the wife gets so frisky at the thought that by the time we've parked the kids and cleared
a space we don'get out the door . Tried four times failed delightfully three . Must try harder . lol

13 Sep 2006

Can you put a rarely option in just for us please, as one of us has high standards. They are either too short, too young, too tall or their dress came from the wrong shop. As for me I'll admit I'm just a bloody tart lol

don't tell her but I love her dearly kiss

13 Sep 2006

It just depends really. I may not meet anyone for a month, but then I may play twice the next month. It just depends on my mood, free time etc. I voted for once a month (on average).

13 Sep 2006

Oh dear..... we're looking like real sluts here...... lol

'Nuff said!
CB