How Often Do You Swing?

11 Dec 2004

Meeting other couples has shown us that for many of them, swinging has taken over their entire lives! We know of couples who go to a club every saturday without fail!
We tend to either meet another couple or visit a club around once every six weeks.
What about other members?

11 Dec 2004

We don't go clubbing, but we do like to meet with folk from here. Has been a bit of a dry patch for us lately, tbh. But I did cop off with a neighbour the other night, who then put me to bed, before R drove her home. Aaah.. coulda been, but her hubby was not here and that would have been wrong.

11 Dec 2004

hi sheffield4fun2
swinging is what you make it :swingingchair:
we go to clubs but realy its an excuse to make friends drink and chat to other liberated couples .
we dont class swinging as just sex it is about friemdship and fun .
so even if we went to clubs every week ?
we class it as comfortable safe and very liberated .
its all about fun :cheers:
lots of love jaky

11 Dec 2004

I do it when the opportunity arises, it depends for me on whether I can get babysitters first and foremost and then it depends on the babysitting arrangements fitting in with a party. I have a few daytime things when I can, when the sprogs are at school, but again it just depends on whether I and my friend(s) can make it on that day.

11 Dec 2004

We go to a club once a week ish, but we dont always play .Sometimes we chat, make new friends etc,,,,by the way,,big hello to all the s/h peeps we met at cupids on tues,,.We also have a lodger so going to a club gives us a bit of time to be together in an enviroment other than our bedroom,,,and a lodger rules out "entertaining" people at our house anyway.

11 Dec 2004

I go clubbing quite a lot, but not as much as I'd like to - maybe once every couple of weeks. I don't always play, in fact very often I just watch. I also go dogging quite a lot, well, whenever we can get a babysitter really, but often we only play with each other. Satin goes out on his own too. buut doesn't always want to pull. Therefore, although we do swinging activities quite a lot between us, we are not shagging left right and centre :shock: . Personally, I'd like to swing more, but don't have the time. It doesn't rule my life, it's just a hobby I guess. If it even became not fun I would get another hobby. SImple as that really. But everyone is different. Some people only go to a club once in a while but really fill their boots while they are there. Others go out often and use it as a social night, just like going to the pub really.

11 Dec 2004

we dont have any set times to go out and meet ppl for swinging we just go when we have free time and can afford it rotflmao

.we love going out and meeting other liberated ppl like ourselves and for us swinging is more than just sex and we love meeting ppl and hopefully building up a friendship and sharing a laugh and joke along the have been to a cpl of munches and a few parties so we have met quite a few ppl off sh and we have to say your all a terrific bunch of ppl .happy swinging and happy xmas to u all :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:

11 Dec 2004

We usually go every 4 to 6 weeks.....only because we are in london and all the best places are up north or else we would go more often!

11 Dec 2004

well i have never been to a club yet or even been involved yet. tonight though my wife and i are going for the first time and hopefully not the last

11 Dec 2004

i honestly go when i feel in the mood.. i suppose it is like most things in that people tend to be different, i know people who go every week, i know people who do it every 3 months so it is very much as case of each to their own.......
sean xxxxxxxxxxxx

11 Dec 2004

um, we swing about once every 2 - 3 months i think!! we actually prefer to try and go to the parties rather than arrange meets with just the one lot of people.

11 Dec 2004

Just to hijack a minute,,.Reading thru these replies it got me wondering if most on here are predominantly clubbers or home swingers or party people???.We are clubbers for reasons i explained above and have never done a "home swing" or a party, just a thought!!!!!Anyway ,, thread unhijacked ,soz.

11 Dec 2004

Most of the time we meet in our own home.
It used to be roughly every couple of weeks but at least once a month.
Parties etc are usually every couple of months.
We haven't been to a club, purely because we don't have any near us.
G x

11 Dec 2004

Wewould like tto visit a club every month but distance and cash is against us, and being reasonably new to the scene we are moving very slowly. But roll on the new year when we will be heading to Sheffield again

11 Dec 2004

When we were swinging, we only actually did anything a few times.. we didn't want to start doing it too often. Once every couple of months was fine for us. and we always went out, whether it be to clubs or parties. One night out usually lasted us in our own sex life for a loooong time anyway :twisted:

11 Dec 2004

We play at a club every Sunday and probably play on another night of the week at least once a month as well. We have managed the last 3 Saturdays as well as the Sundays but are probably resting tonight. confused

We never do private meets unless we already know the people and much prefer clubs to parties.
Our social circle is now almost entirely made up of swinging couples and although we do enjoy the social scene in clubs we always remember why we have gone there in the first place. wink

11 Dec 2004

I t varries, according to work committments and othere circumstances, has been three times a week and also once in three months. Not interested in clubs and never took anyone home - yet!! I prefer hotel meets so that both parties are on nutral territory
To me quality is for more important than quantity

12 Dec 2004

Post subject: How Often Do You Swing?
Not nearly often enough

16 Dec 2004

It's all about trying to find the right balance for you. I'm prety new to the scene bu already figure that with other commitments I'd be hard puched to "swing" more than a couple of nights a month. For me it isn't the "whole" of my life - just an enjoyable part.

16 Dec 2004

alas! only get to play once a month,we really enjoy the club scene,meeting other couples,becoming friends(with benefits wink

)were loving every minute of our new adventure.

16 Dec 2004

We probably manage to get to a club once every couple of months, but that doesn't mean that we play. If nobody catches our eye, we go home and shag each other lol! We have done a few meets with single guys probably again once every couple of months. Only met one couple on a "blind date" in a long time.