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How often do you take a second look?

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Prompted by a conversation about the perving opportunities afforded by the daily commute, I wondered how often you actually did take the chance to do a bit of stealthy checking-out of 'talent' as you go about your daily business?
I have a friend who is an incorrigible perve. He *never* misses an opportunity to give an attractive woman a second glance. Walking round Barcelona with him was hilarious; he actually never stopped looking! I think I actually have to be in the right sort of mood. Yes, if I see a good looking guy or girl, they might turn my head, but for it to be a decent 'perve' (and by that I mean looking, appreciating and subsequently imagining all sorts of filth about that person :rascalsmile I think I have to be in a particularly 'pervy' mood.
So, whaddya reckon: is it second nature to take a second look? Do you often fantasise/harbour filthy thoughts about folk you see out and about? If not, why not?
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If I see a good looking guy I will always have a bit of a moment and check him out. I rarely have any proper filthy thoughts about strangers though... although it has happened on occasion. I usually have to know the person a bit to have any naughty thoughts about them.
I think where strangers are concerned, it's more about just how attractive they are rather than the mood I'm in though to be honest. A really good looking guy will lift me out of any bad / distracted mood and catch my interest.
Mr JWF is very good at doing this discreetly if he sees an attractive female, I know he's doing it but to the untrained eye it's almost impossible to spot. I'm quite obvious about it, but as long as no-one is offended (ie he's not with a girlfriend or wife) I don't care to be frank... and it can be quite funny when the guy in question notices me looking, they always look a bit surprised / confused / worried at such blatant behaviour - especially if I'm with Mr JWF. Who I must stress encourages me to have a look - he's very supportive like that lol
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Mr JWF is very good at doing this discreetly if he sees an attractive female, I know he's doing it but to the untrained eye it's almost impossible to spot. I'm quite obvious about it, but as long as no-one is offended (ie he's not with a girlfriend or wife) I don't care to be frank... and it can be quite funny when the guy in question notices me looking, they always look a bit surprised / confused / worried at such blatant behaviour - especially if I'm with Mr JWF. Who I must stress encourages me to have a look - he's very supportive like that lol

Mr JWF sounds bloody marvellous!
I like a bit of blatant looking. It's always fun. Mind you, a spot of stealthy crotch watching can be equally fun :rascal:
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Mr JWF sounds bloody marvellous!
I like a bit of blatant looking. It's always fun. Mind you, a spot of stealthy crotch watching can be equally fun :rascal:

Yeah, he's pretty good most of the time wink
I like to think that I return the favour though - if he's not spotted a female who I think that he'd find attractive I give him a quick nudge.
I never thought about the stealthy crotch watching quite like that before, but now I do give it consideration I see your point! It can be a lot of fun lol
I'd never actually go proactively perving  but I do think I have a natural instinct that makes me check out someone I find attractive, or something about a someone that stands out. Whether that be a bit of cleavage, a short skirt or a gorgeous smile there generally has to be a 'stand out' factor. 
I casually may have a second look occasionally but never usually would I become aroused at a view worthy of a second look. There needs to be a bit of an X factor for that second look to become a horny observation...  Maybe a slight interaction. Maybe a brief conversation or a knowing look. 
How often does a second look happen while on a commute? not as often as you might think. That's not to say that I'm not thinking naughty thoughts throughout the entire duration, right up until I alight at Victoria ;)
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That's not to say that I'm not thinking naughty thoughts throughout the entire duration, right up until I alight at Victoria ;)

It does help the time pass wink
I like to play the I-wonder-what-they're-like-in-bed game when I'm people watching lol
How often do I take a second look? Oh gosh, nearly all the time. Unless there's something else I must concentrate on, like crossing a busy road or checking my change in the supermarket, but I'm constantly looking at females and find myself very easily drifting off into thoughts/fantasies/scenarios of unmitigated raunch involving them. And it's not necessarily those women who are to some extent striking a pose of some sort, in fact that can be a ...well, not a turn-OFF exactly, but less of a turn-ON than women who seem to be unaware of what impression if any they might be making on people around them, although of course, they could be just as pervy as you but just hiding it well. In fact, I hope I hide it well too!
If pervy points were all scored in the brain, I might have a gold medal!
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That's not to say that I'm not thinking naughty thoughts throughout the entire duration, right up until I alight at Victoria ;)

It does help the time pass wink
I like to play the I-wonder-what-they're-like-in-bed game when I'm people watching lol
I play the I-wonder-if-she's-had-a-filthy-shag-this-morning/last-night game when I'm on the tube.. especially if they have a very bored expression on their face..
I often play the 'I wonder...' game but in a different way. I'm sure others must do this too. Living where I do, there are lots of ruined castles, abbeys etc and when I walk around them I often ask myself things like..'I wonder how many times oral sex was performed in this room..' or..'I wonder what quantity of semen has been ejaculated within these castle/priory walls..' I imagine all sorts of human sexual activities in these places. Recently I was at Raglan castle and wondered how much shagging might have taken place in the great kitchens.
I wonder if there is a post graduate research degree in there somewhere!
There's certain profiles I regularly visit.
The beauty of " Extra's" allow those that have it realise i've visited the profile and vice versa.:thumbup:
I only take a second look once, any more and it becomes a third or fourth look.
I don’t think I just look and start thinking sex and play. I do look and think if I just had a bit more time I would chat a bit. Ah, now that is when I start thinking dirty thoughts. Once I start chatting and she has a brain, a nice smile; that is when I start thinking ‘how far would she go?’
I do recall playing a touch game at Gatwick Airport with 2 ladies. We just looked at each other and pushed fingers between shirt buttons, and one of them sucked on the straw of a soft drink and the played with her glasses. That got rather ‘hot’, and their husbands just kept looking and page 3 and the sports. That day I was day dreaming about being between them.
Travis
only second? Male and breathing means generally twenty seven looks and at least 5 fantasies. And that doesn't take into account those odd occasions when perhaps a glass or two of chateaux crapeaud has been downed an maybe the judgement has taken a pounding.
I still have fantasies about that tennis player that came out as lesbian and looks a bit like a bloke, about 50 something now. Fortunately the name escapes me. Won lots and lots of stuff.
I always take a second look and a third and then normally have to slam my foot on the break just before I hit the car in-front of me..
I am a terrible perve and can't hide the fact, Good job Shi is just as bad as me and lets me know if I have missed anything :lol2:
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I always take a second look and a third and then normally have to slam my foot on the break just before I hit the car in-front of me..
I am a terrible perve and can't hide the fact, Good job Shi is just as bad as me and lets me know if I have missed anything :lol2:

So you can slam it into reverse and have another go?
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Dave_Notts
My eyes are always open...and any movement in my periphery always gets my attention. I think it's important to see what's going on around you...lol
My internal dialogue tends to be "she looks attractive, I wonder whether she is inside as well?" wink Then my thoughts go on to whether she is likely to be openminded/happy/adventurous...etc
There's a great function "Notes"
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Leave yourself a reminder of your favourite profiles lol
I'm presuming only I can read them :lol:
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I'm presuming only I can read them lol

Just checked....
Yep....(well I can't see any anyway :lol2: )
I rarely take a second look in my everyday life, never see anyone interesting in a sexual way ! If i look at a profile its usually only to put notes on saying they are a pain in chat rooms smile . I find since being here so long that most on this site bore me (with just a few exceptions) and most dont interest me enough to look once let alone twice, just a quick glance as i pass by lol
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since being here so long that most on this site bore me (with just a few exceptions) and most dont interest me enough to look once let alone twice, just a quick glance as i pass by lol

Hopes that I'm included in the "exceptions" lol
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since being here so long that most on this site bore me (with just a few exceptions) and most dont interest me enough to look once let alone twice, just a quick glance as i pass by lol

Hopes that I'm included in the "exceptions" lol
Oh yes smile
You were referring to being outside not on site right?
If a woman looks sexy I'll take it in for as long as I can, maybe fantasising what I'd do if I had the chance, I'm never blatant though, I don't want to scare her off but I may pursue her (talk)if she turns me on that much
You were referring to being outside not on site right?
If a woman looks sexy I'll take it in for as long as I can, maybe fantasising what I'd do if I had the chance, I'm never blatant though, I don't want to scare her off but I may pursue her (talk)if she turns me on that much
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You were referring to being outside not on site right?
If a woman looks sexy I'll take it in for as long as I can, maybe fantasising what I'd do if I had the chance, I'm never blatant though, I don't want to scare her off but I may pursue her (talk)if she turns me on that much

Yes, I was referring to the 'real' world.
:welcome: to the site. Hope you have fun.
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