How old were you the first time you had sex

6 Aug 2005

I was 17 to my then 15 year old GF... and we were together for another 2ish years after till she met a 40 year old with loads of dosh, a BMW, and a chain of hair salons.
I used to ride back from Norwich to Acle on my bike after working in the wimpy making burgers, thow stones up at her window and when she came down we'd shag around the back of her house... not very romantic... but I so remember loosing my virginity in my bed at my parents house; the rectory lol, to her and being deeply in love.
The funny thing is... most of these posts have people loosing it from an age so much older than all my mates said they lost there's at... if you believed them they were all going hammer and tongs about 14 lmao.
I lost my bi virginity at 18'ish to a couple in Yarmouth who stll to this day remain my friends (i'm 38 now) although we lost contact for a good few years till I saw an advert on SH from them a few years back :-)
It probably took me till I met, swung, and split with a woman I met on the net about 6-7 years ago to be totally comfortable with my sexuality and who I am and what I like... and about 5-6 years ago to feel comfortable with my BDSM side of things and realise that I enjoy inflicting pain/pleasure/humiliation/excitement... and that was probably more dificult to accept that my bi-sexuality as it went more against every socialy acceptable morality than being bi or gay.

6 Aug 2005

I guess I was a late starter......I was 20 when I lost my virginity and it was a one nighter with a guy who I cannot even remember the name of (whatta tart!!)......it was a total let down and I was very disappointed........
Until 6 weeks later when I met this Aussie guy who I spent an all nighter with and even now I get horny remembering what we did..... thats what I call a memorable shag!! (it was a few years ago!! lol)
Have had other 'firsts' in the last 18 months (still blossoming!!) but am still very aware that you wonderful peeps on here could teach me a trick or two....or three or four (hehehehehehehehe)......or many many more!!!!! LOL
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7 Aug 2005

hmmm i was 17 and i was lucky to have a very good partener. I could give him 10 for each time he "played" with me

7 Aug 2005

The first time I had sex was not planned it was a mistake. Well not gonna go it to detail. But my first proper sex was when I was 14 and I loved it.

7 Aug 2005

I was 13 when i lost mine to my 14 yr old bf. He was my first love and we were in a long term relationship (8 weeks lol). The romantic trist took place on the bottom bunk of his bunk beds. We were very responsible and used condoms sneaked out of his mams bedroom. Then he dumped me :cry: I was puzzled why he dumped me for years, i knew i wasn't a crap shag as i had nothing but compliments from future conquests, he hadn't bragged about it to any of his mates, so why dump me?
Eventually got back in touch through friends reunited last year and discoved his mam made him finish with me (I think she sussed the missing condoms). But it all has a happy ending as i now enjoy teasing him by emailig him with very filthy pictures (and he certainly doesn't complain). :twisted:
My other half didn't lose his until he was about twenty. We were best friends and used to fool around years ago but his feelings for me were always stronger than mine. I would never let him fuck me though and kept telling him that if he lost his virginity to me i would break him.
We lost touch for a couple of years (after my supposed female best friend caused loads of trouble between us) and in the meantime he finally managed to get his end away. We got back in touch last year but in the meantime i had got married (whoops!). I realised that i fancied the pants of him and he definately was still after me. The only thing to do was leave my husband which i quickly did.
I happily discovered that with all the fooling around we did several years ago i had created a perverted monster lol

Out of all the blokes i've been with i have certainly found my perfect match both sexually and emotionally, but i'm glad i didn't take his virginity. Couldn't possibly have him thinking all women are as kinky as me :twisted:

7 Aug 2005

Quote by tripod1971
hi don't laugh but iam 33 bi m i have played and touched fems but never shagged a fem i have shagged a few guys but never been shagged u all are going to laugh me london can anyone help

Well untill I read this i was worried coz I was 31 when I lost mine, I was away watching England play football in New Zealand. June 1992
5 bloke in the local massage parlour, in Wellington. I was the only virgin, but had a great night with a maori girl called roxy. 20 bucks and a nights sex.
went back the next night for seconds i liked it so much.
within a week i was in malaysia with two local girls, and a southend united supporter, that was really fun.
The last month at 43 gave and received Anal for the first time.
Never thought that would happen.