We have always kept our swinging life and personal life quite separate. Our friends, family and work colleagues, are not aware (we think!) that we are swingers!
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we like to think our swinging life is private,but deep down know it isnt.
we once thought we had a really good friend,and foolishly had a 3some with him.
within days it was all over town,this was quite a while back,and since then have had kids,no one at the minute knows that were going to libs,and that were swinging with another great couple,i think the moral of this story is dont do it on your own doorstep
we once thought we had a really good friend,and foolishly had a 3some with him.
within days it was all over town,this was quite a while back,and since then have had kids,no one at the minute knows that were going to libs,and that were swinging with another great couple,i think the moral of this story is dont do it on your own doorstep
We've managed to keep it secret for a few years then we saw my brother in law at chams on his own on a friday night.
We go to liberations now just to avoid bumping in to him again.
Obviously we keep stum as long as he does but puts us in a moral dilema, do we tell my wifes sister that he's unfaithfull?
Anyway xmas dinner will be interesting this year!
We go to liberations now just to avoid bumping in to him again.
Obviously we keep stum as long as he does but puts us in a moral dilema, do we tell my wifes sister that he's unfaithfull?
Anyway xmas dinner will be interesting this year!
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wow what can we say lol
we kept it quiet for 5 years and then my son picked my phone up grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
then he asked my brother in law what swinging was well that was it most my family now know
and yes xmas will be a talking point grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
but call a bluff how hehehehe
jaky xxxxx
wow what can we say lol
we kept it quiet for 5 years and then my son picked my phone up grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
then he asked my brother in law what swinging was well that was it most my family now know
and yes xmas will be a talking point grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
but call a bluff how hehehehe
jaky xxxxx
Well although im not a "fully fledged" swinger (yet or otherwise!) My mother does know I have an interest and knows most of the other stuff I get up to.
She knows im nuts and have always been into or interested in allsorts so its not that much of a shock although I havent really told any of my friends excpet maybe some Ive met over recent months.
Not sure what my other friends would think of it or me?? I reckon they would be ok but I will tell who I want when I feel the time is right!
Rest of my family I dont really talk to much excpet my wee brother and he alreday thinks my mad he doesnt really know although recently when he was living with me it was hard to get any privacy so he probably knows a bit but not really!??
My daughter, no! She is too young to understand the complexities of adult relationships and so for that matter am I it seems
She knows im nuts and have always been into or interested in allsorts so its not that much of a shock although I havent really told any of my friends excpet maybe some Ive met over recent months.
Not sure what my other friends would think of it or me?? I reckon they would be ok but I will tell who I want when I feel the time is right!
Rest of my family I dont really talk to much excpet my wee brother and he alreday thinks my mad he doesnt really know although recently when he was living with me it was hard to get any privacy so he probably knows a bit but not really!??
My daughter, no! She is too young to understand the complexities of adult relationships and so for that matter am I it seems
Sex God
no, 2 different lives, if anyone found out from my normal live they would believe it for sometime and would go into complete shock
Warming the Bed
I've now had to resort to going to a club miles from where I live. I'd bumped into a work colleague at my usual hangout and things have been abit awkward at work. Fortunately nothing has been mentioned and i hope it stays that way. Back to the original question, yes I lead 2 very different and separate lives. 
Orgasminator
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Are you a newly-resigned Labour MP, by any chance? :shock:
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We're pretty lucky in that most of our friends know about what we get up to. To be honest we wave it in there faces a wee bi
thank christ were not politictians.
Some time ago there was a discussion on here about avatars and wether to put your face on and so on. Most of my mates kinda know what I do and they just laff and roll their eyes
:lol: I'd put my face up on my av but people in work and in business might cause a few problems with the more un-lightened types My most trusted friends know and to be honest where not shocked...but no one else knows.
Sex God
We keep it to ourselves.
We like it that way.
When we come down south for fun and frolics, we just tell my family that we are off to old friends of Del's and vice versa with his. We do use the peoples names that we have met. Hopefully we won't trip ourselves up.
It does make me squirm though, telling lies and having to make stuff up when they ask a question about our weekend :shock:
G x
We like it that way.
When we come down south for fun and frolics, we just tell my family that we are off to old friends of Del's and vice versa with his. We do use the peoples names that we have met. Hopefully we won't trip ourselves up.
It does make me squirm though, telling lies and having to make stuff up when they ask a question about our weekend :shock:
G x
All of my friends know that I am involved with swinging and this site. This is because the friends I have are open minded and accepting people anyway. If people cannot accept me for who I am or my interests then it's unlikely they are going to be classed as a friend either by me or me by them. I don't tell others that I work with nor my parents as It's either not appropriate or non of their business.
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Although easy and I don't swing my workmates are convinced it's only a matter of time and are fascinated about the whole thing.................when I go back in after a munch I'm lept on to give them the jucy details and when we stayed at the hotel last time they were so surprised and disappointed nothing had happened.....As for my family I don't even tell them about the site so if we did swing there is no way I would tell any of them.
Due to my big gob most of my friends know now lol! We were having a laugh a while ago and I mentioned a local swingers hotel, joking on that I thought I would go (sort of a gauge for their reactions I suppose). The conversation passed as it does onto something else but a couple of them had twigged that maybe there was more to it, after all, how do you find that sort of thing out? Later on another comment was passed about me and this swinging hotel and I am one of those people who cannot lie without giving myself away, I just went 
ops: :oops: So they know lol! My brother and sister also know because we talk about most things between us and my blooming brother has joined the site although he's been offline for a couple of weeks
I'm not really bothered who knows now, although we have an unwritten rule that it doesn't get talked about in front of any of the kids so they won't be affected by it and of course what I get up to is in my spare time when they are elsewhere.
Later on another comment was passed about me and this swinging hotel and I am one of those people who cannot lie without giving myself away, I just went ops: :oops: So they know lol! My brother and sister also know because we talk about most things between us and my blooming brother has joined the site although he's been offline for a couple of weeks I'm not really bothered who knows now, although we have an unwritten rule that it doesn't get talked about in front of any of the kids so they won't be affected by it and of course what I get up to is in my spare time when they are elsewhere.
Sex God
well not any of our family know but keep asking the mrs where we have been cause we are not really drinkers ,so when we ask for them to baby sit for us,they kepp asking where we have been and the mrs keeps asking "which clubs can we say" i justsay tell them we have been to heaven and back lol
