i think its quite arrogent of a fella if he EXPECTS a reply.
I specifically tell couples that I am looking for couples with a very bi female - so both the male and female will want to play with me and me and the female can equally play with the male. I don't meet couples with straight fems or bi curious fems, they have to be actively bi and enjoy playing with women. I make sure I explain this clearly, several times! They always answer , yes, yes, yes, yes.
Yet still within an hour or so of making it all clear and making arrangements to meet...
Will you do my wife and I will watch.
I have never had another woman, but I am curious to see what it is like to have one lick me.
Did I mention the wife is not going to be there tonight?
Can we bring a friend as I don't like swinging with single females. (WTF- did you hear anything I said?)
and so on.....
But that's the way the cookie crumbles. You either take the chances and put up with the fact you'll encounter some dumb-ass people along the way or you end up sat on your arse wishing something would happen.
i just asked because you said you wouldnt touch someone who shaved that morning........surely thats less personel info than you give out on other subjects?
jude if i had a problem with you i'd say it to your face. sounds like you have one with me though......whats all this "mr one liner" stuff your going on about in my inbox?
5 different pubs??? now thats going a bit far....
invite 5 guys 2 meet u 1 may show up - if u r lucky 2.......
people fall of scaffolding and everything lol ,
so do 1 pub saying `if we meet u 1 at a time,we may never get round to u...`
worked perfect the other night - we ended up with 2 really nice guys from here
and there is a london munch / social -
read the forums
if u need 2 do some serious screening c if u can borrow a mobile screening unit from the nhs!!!!!!!!!!!
2`s
Right where it says 'i am curious'
Sorry, I see it now. Its you saying what some couples come out with in the situation.
OK
I am a single male and yes, i know a lot of couple on here that have fun with single blokes. Unfortunaty because of the large number of T**ts, they decide not to advertise and may only advertise for couples and females.
A lot of such couple's do there screening by attending munchs meeting people socially first then they can decide if they get on to take things furthur. I dont have an advert on here nor do i openly say what i am looking for but people can tell what i am looking for by the way i act/flirt.
I belive that a big issus is that a lot of people just think by replying to an advert they will get the shag. This is not the case. You can learn a lot about people with just meeting socially for a drink.
I mean after now spending a couple of years in the scene, i am finally making the effort to dress up when i go to meet someone for the first time. The people that know me know that i will often just put jeans and a tshirt or shirt if it is a social meet i.e in a pub or round someones house. If it is a party where play might occur i do try and make an effort. Troucers and Shirt Time.
Guys here is my advice get yourself known on forums and chat. Come down to a munch meet people socilally and take it from there. Swinging isnt for everyone and there is a huge social scene, associtated with swinging. To be honest as well if you get youselfs known as a nice honest decent person, you will find that word of mouth spreads and you will end up making more friends and have more potential to take things furthur.
Mike