You mean this one?
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/81695.html
Well, as I said in another post recently, my ex taught herself to do it, and it took her a month of hard work to be able to get it all down. I'd say this is what we learnt:
1. It matters which way your man's cock curves. Mine curves down, so the easiest angle was me standing and her kneeling. On the other hand for guys whose cock curves upwards a 69 position got it round the bend of her throat.
2. She found that when she first hits the back of her throat, her throat starts producing this kind of gooey, phlegmy saliva. This lubricates it. So you have to get this stuff going first before you try to go all the way down. Then the cock will slide down it easier.
3. As Andromeda said above, relax the your throat muscles as much as you can and just try to let the cock go past them rather than batter through them if you see what I mean.
4. After that it's just practice... it takes a while but your gag reflex will decrease. Not everyone can get rid of it altogether but for most people it gets a lot easier.
5. It's gonna be much easier if his cock is not 100% hard. That way it can go round the corner easier.
As to whether it's enjoyable for the giver... I think my ex used to like it largely for showing off value, and because I enjoyed it... but then, that's pretty much the same for all oral sex, isn't it? I mean it turns me on to eat pussy and I love doing it, but there isn't a direct sexual stimulation - it's all about the effect it has on the lady. Once she'd got the hang of it it wasn't uncomfortable or painful.
You know from a male perspective - oh ok, my perspective, just one thing I really wanted to say here.
For me, purely from the physical side, deep throat does absolutely nothing for me at all. Certainly, the touching, the stroking the light nibbling, oh hell yes, that works for me.
But
From a purely visionary experience, to watch a woman deep throat me, hell, yes that works. When she looks up into my eyes with my cock completely filling her, hell yes.
All that said, do I want that every time a woman goes down on me, nope, not at all, because the physical outweighs the vision.
Obviously everyone is different, but sometimes I find that a woman who can deep throat thinks that that is the be all and end all, which it not always the case, well not for me anyway.
an easier way is for the female to lay on the bed on her back, neck at the edge of the bed, then tilt head back, hanging over the edge of the bed slightly. this means the throat is in a straight line. make it smoother to slip in. Guys remember once you go so deep it cuts off the breathing, even through the nose so remember to pull out so she can breath.
xxx fem xx
fem 4 is spot on.
giving dt is incredibly easy once u know u can do it.
EASY AS PIE WAY
lie on ur back and tilt ur chin up as far as u can, this stretches out ur throat
have him stand, kneel behind u, as though 69ing (dont get him to lick u to begin with, concentrate on getting the right angle to take him all in)
this position will almost alwasy allow him to just slide right in
agree with him that at an agreed signal (like a push on his thighs) he pulls out straight away. U cannot breath at all with cock in ur throat and breathing is nice.
NEXT STEP, ALSO PRETTY DAM EASY
on ur knees, pull his cock downwards so it slides down ur throat and u raise urself up to meet his body.
THEN U CAN DO IT ALL !
lol, just remember to keep ur throat stretched so that the angle of his cock matches it.
BIOLOGY CAN BE A PAIN
I have been with guys who i just cant deep throat because his cock is too curved or too wide. however, this is very rare
MIX IT UP
remember, while ur lying, kneeling or whatever, u can still do all the usual bj stuff like play with his ass, nips and balls, give him that eye contact, play with urself, whatever it is that turns u both on
CUM ?
This is really bad, but DT is great for girls (and boys!) who arnt keen on the taste of cum, because it just goes straight down - u dont taste it at all
TISSUE
supressing my gag reflex usually makes me nose and eyes run. It's not a sexy look but the guy normally is too busy being pleased with himself to complain that u jump up and blow ur nose.
Have fun !!!
Trix x
Right this second I have the worst sore throat that I have had for a long time. You know when you want something to kind of itch and scratch the sore bit at the back of your throat..................well, this thread gave me an idea..............hubby will be home soon :twisted:
put your tongue as far to the floor f your mouth as you can and try and tilt your head back slightly as you do it, just sort of slips down if you get the angle right... practise makes perfect and mmmmmmmmm what a fab thing to practise.
Ok if your into horror i suppose, the noises similar to one being garroted. Hey thats what I reckon anyways. 
just thinking about it.....I might have a dig in the archives to see if I can find it :lol2: 
but I hear it's all down to practise.
