Hi Guys
Well its a question that often pops up in the 'stories' section but how do i turn my wife in to a slut ?
I think its taking that first step thats the problem, without her thinking i don't love her anymore how do i tell her i want to see her with lots of other men, 3sums, 4 sums, gangbangs etc. she's a looking woman and loves sex but doesn't even know i use this site !
Any advive from you fellas who've taken the giant leap or any ladies who've been asked that difficult question would be much appreciated.
Matt
My first advice would be to don't let her see this site if she can count. Finding out you have been on a swinger's site for 4 years without her knowing is likely to end any conversation about broadening her horizons.
You do know swinging is all about trust don't you?
Apart from that, most people suggest (we do get this question quite often) that you talk to her - that's easier said than done of course, context is paramount. I'd suggest you rent/obtain some decent porn that includes what you fancy and ask her, jokingly perhaps, if she fancies any of that. If she is totally uninterested there is pretty well nothing you can do - back off the subject. If she is interested, take it slow and see what happens.
Final point - are you 100% convinced she isn't already on here and it's YOU that doesn't know? :giggle:
For God's sake don't spring a meet or club visit on her unawares.