Yesterday I decided to patch things up with my x, and knowing one of her things was to visit a nudist beach, I took her to St Osyth near Colchester.
When we arrived, I got out a small fishing shelter, a rucksack with towels etc (the morning weather was quite hot and nice) and our packed lunch. We walked down the hideously dangerous path to the beech to find all the signs we stolen (by that point, we noticed a guy in a red manchester U shirt on a bike following in the distance).
We walked to the far end, pitched up the tent, and the guy in the red shirt sat directly opposite us. I turned the tent round, he picked up his bike, walked round to the front, and sat there. I moved the tent for a final time, and he moved just out of watching distance, but just so he could peek in. My friend and I decided stripping was not an option, and he was frankly creaping us out!
After a while of munching on our packed lunch, he decided to go peer into all the other tents, with only his trousers off. Finally when we were laying down, he decided to come over and have a good stare into our tent. We began to packup, so he stood up, wanked himself off and walked off.
At this point, another guy had sat down behind our tent (We didn't even notice him) who was only half starkers. We packed up, went down to the beech, and suddenly we were alone (only with a couple of actual nudists around). We stripped off, walked along the beech only to see the second guy, following us, wanking in the bushes.
Quite off putting, and frankly, not what we wanted to spend our afternoon doing!
This was probably all to do with my x being a thin, 24yr old blond.
Blimey how stressful. If there was a haelthier attitude to getting nekkid in this country (like Finland) I bet that wouldn't happen. What an utter put off :shock:
Don't you feel flattered when people find you exciting enough to wank off? I remember a fisherman in Tangiers doing just so when I was on the beach. There were no other people but me and my guide and I had lifted my skirt to go into the water. The sight of my white knees was enough to set the fisherman off in the cliffs to have a wank. My guide yelled at him but I just laughed my head off.
I'd be pissed if some weirdo decided to :wanker: while staring at any of my girlfriends naked, at least without my permission or some compensation anyway :twisted:
You're better off trying a camp or somewhere with membership to avoid things like that.
I have been to a few 'naturist clubs'. There is always this feeling of being watched and the temptation to start ogliing without thinking. They are never quite as relaxed as the members and visitors believe. However your experience was gross.
There's plenty of opportunity to find a discreet spot to strip off and have a picnic or outdoor shag. The clubs are only worth going to if you fit in with the members and become a member yourself.
We as a couple have enjoyed the nudist beaches in England (Purbeck for instance near Poole) and also abroad in a few countries , all the time we have been doing this we have always felt comfortable , its a very cool and laid back scene to be part of, we find the naturist beaches are normally the best. as for being stalked it has never happened to us and as for someone wanking in front of us uninvited on a public beach I think hub would pretty soon lay him out! dont be put off by it , we feel its the only way to enjoy the sunshine to the full, the sense of freedom is lovely.
Unusual to come accross such blatant behaviour in this country. Unlike Greece, for example, which is well known for this. Sorry you had such a bad time but thanks for letting us know the location.
Does it get crowded when hot ?
coz i like a bit of room on the beach...hate being like sardines
where exactly in brighton ?
been naturists for years and never had any trouble on beaches or clubs. There are certain areas on the beaches though that singles do frequent but they are usually far away from the family areas. If we want to play or exhibit we know the parts to go to. If you go again check out areas first. Hope it doesnt put you off totally.
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where abouts are these beaches
andy
Indeed - I hope to visit brighton during weekday sometime soon. Should be better than St Osyth.