I not keen on the phrase over used in forum "In my honest opinion"
As for the phrase you state "You and I are just the same"
meaning "I wish I was like you" thats bollox.
Although hey, if it starts a debate, dialogue, or as is so unusual in these here parts, a row, then go for it
my trouble is I care far TOO much what people think of me....almost to the point of paranoia....well perhaps NOT quite that far, and I worry like hell if I think I have inavertantly upest someone or caused them to think bad of me. I hate upsetting people
Most probably they havent even given me a 2nd thought whatsoever....does that make me a bit egotistical in worrying they are thinking about something Ive said or done.....
:shock: OMG DO people think Im a mad egotist....:shock:......are they talking about me to each other in private messages......
**wanders off to cry and worry in a corner all alone :cry: **
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Personally i dont really care what people think of me, i know what i am, i know my own faults, and the only peoples opinions that count for me are the people i love and who live in my house.
I`ve come to the conclusion that you can`t like everyone in the world, and everyone can`t like you
"Ah well. It's their loss" = I don't take rejection well.
it bothers me very much what people think of me.
in work i hope people think ive done the best i can for them, as i do and id hate anyone thinking i wouldnt.
with family i care what they think of me as with out their love im nothing.
with friends i care what they think, if its something bad potentially that means ive hurt or disapointed them and i dont want to do that.
peoplewho dont know me, well still yes i care what people think about me.
if i didnt care what people thought about me then i guess the moral backbone and values i have been raised by would be different and i may not treat people with the same respect as i just wouldnt give a shit.
i understand not everyone will like me, and i dont ponder on that too much or else youd go mad.
no one likes to be disliked.
the above does not mean i dont hold strong opinions or that im afraid to voice them.
just that i dont like to upset people in the process.
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I give less than a shit what "people" in general think of me. There are a handful of folks who's opinions matter to me. A small number of them reside here- and I think they know who they are.
The thing is, somewhere along the way if you try to be Pauline Popular you're likely to end up compromising your own principles- and then would you like yourself?
The only opinions I care about are from people who are close to me or who know me well. While I don't like to be thought badly of, if it's someone who means nothing to me then fuck em.
People who don't know me, never met me, only met the once or twice etc can stuff their opinion up their self righteous arses as far as I'm concerned
SOMEONE IS THINKING ABOUT ME????
OOOH GOODIE!!
First off Howdy yall,
And to add my tuppence worth, don't give a tinkers toot what people think, as long as I never intentionally hurt anyone, what I do is my business and noone elses.
It's a cliche but a good one
Dance like noone is watching,
Sing like noone is listening
Howdy back and thanks max :color:
Half of the 1000 was probably me talking bollox though ... like everyone else :lol: 
and if he answered me in a nice way.....would it be the truth....
