Ok i know u guys and girls say i am just another advert, fine.
But its had over 550 Views. 1 email!
I have replyed to 10 Ads now.
5 Emails were dead! and others havent replyed. Should i just give up now.? Ill Fustrating!!!!! lol
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I have Pretty much giving up now.
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:banghead: :banghead:It is very easy to get disheartened in this game (although much less here than on certain other sites, as the people seem a lot nicer and more polite); it's like a gnawing certainty that starts in your gut and slowly works its way up into your mind as an absolute fact that you will never, ever, ever even come close to meeting someone or even talking with someone about meeting.
Then you get contacted out of the blue, someone's interested in you, and all those bad feelings go away (until that contact goes nowhere, at any rate...) I guess the highs must be real high, which is why we endure the long lows.
Then you get contacted out of the blue, someone's interested in you, and all those bad feelings go away (until that contact goes nowhere, at any rate...) I guess the highs must be real high, which is why we endure the long lows.
another view with no reply gohan. Sorry.
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3000 Men seeking couples ads, 500 couples seeking men. There are just too many of you.
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Kat
Would me in and out of drag count, with a bit of rushing in and out of the bed room, i am quite sure i could please one or two
patience is te key to success. so just wait and see what happens. I don't even have an add. If i need any thing, i will concider posting a message in the forum board. But be honest with you, i like making friends and getting to know them before going anywhere, and i fugure out most ppl want the same. So the best way of communicate is to make use of this forum and chat room and get to know ppl. In this way you can avoid spams, timewasters and make some good friends.
Sex God
Gohan, have you considered using dating websites? In my experience younger single women looking for males, even if it's mainly for sex, tend to use dating ads rather than a more overtly sexual ad system like this, where they are more likely to get an avalanche of pervs and dickbrains(along with just a few genuine charmers like me). If you're looking purely for a one-to-one with a young woman, maybe a swingers' website is not the best place, and even if you're hoping to team up with a young woman and then try swinging as a couple, this MIGHT not be the best place to find her. Good luck anyway.
MikeNorth.
MikeNorth.
I have Monty Python type visions of you dashing between rooms trying to be both halves of a couple Twisted! - A la Mrs Doubtfire in the restaurant scene! 
Sex God
Gohan,
I think that patience and politeness are the key here. You seem to have both so hang in there and I am sure that it will pay off.
One thing I have noticed (though this may just be me) is that even on a site like this it seems to be the guy who needs to make the first move. I no longer have an ad, but when I did I did not receive a single response. Also I have NEVER had a SINGLE unsolicited PM from someone I was not already in contact with. That is not a whinge, merely an observation. However, whenever I have made the first approach in a PM I have always had a kind and polite response.
No doubt, all the other guys are going to reply now and tell me how they are inundated with PMs and e-mails all the time
, but I suspect that I am not totally alone.
Good luck
I think that patience and politeness are the key here. You seem to have both so hang in there and I am sure that it will pay off.
One thing I have noticed (though this may just be me) is that even on a site like this it seems to be the guy who needs to make the first move. I no longer have an ad, but when I did I did not receive a single response. Also I have NEVER had a SINGLE unsolicited PM from someone I was not already in contact with. That is not a whinge, merely an observation. However, whenever I have made the first approach in a PM I have always had a kind and polite response.
No doubt, all the other guys are going to reply now and tell me how they are inundated with PMs and e-mails all the time
, but I suspect that I am not totally alone.Good luck
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Will
Definitely not alone
. It happens to the best of us - and I believe we ARE the best of them :twisted: !
Mal
Definitely not alone
. It happens to the best of us - and I believe we ARE the best of them :twisted: !Mal
Sex God
Watch it guys, your heads are swelling!
Mod
That's not where I keep my head Blue - look up!!!!
Mal
Mal
