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Could i have some advice on where i'm going wrong!!
Could you take a look at my profile and tell me whats off putting etc??
Thank you!
i'm not sure! people dont seem to want to spend anytime to 'get to know me' so i'm trying to break down what can be improved
You live too far away? :giggle:
I thought your profile was pretty good... nice pics (personally I like to see a bum when you have the time!) biggrin
Can't see anything obvious wrong with it. :thumbup:
Quote by Dirtygirly
You live too far away? :giggle:
I thought your profile was pretty good... nice pics (personally I like to see a bum when you have the time!) biggrin
Can't see anything obvious wrong with it. :thumbup:

Cool! thank you!
Quote by Kaznkev
posting on here or in the chat rooms is the boring answer,
I always need to use rl examples,
there is a bloke who thru his word games in the just 4 fun forum has got me totally hot,are you expecting ppl just to reply to private messages,we try thru politness but get an awful lot

i need to work on my sex talk lol
but i'm asking because i set up my own chat rooms.... people come in, look at my profile and leave, so it got me wondering... whats wrong with it!
Personally I like to see a face pic - I know a lot of ppl say I don't want to make it public so I'll email you one, but if I have to ask for a face pic then don't find u attractive I then feel guilty having to tell u I'm not interested!
I know that's irrational but that's my input smile
Mrs Secksy
Personally I like to see a face pic - I know a lot of ppl say I don't want to make it public so I'll email you one, but if I have to ask for a face pic then don't find u attractive I then feel guilty having to tell u I'm not interested!
I know that's irrational but that's my input smile
Mrs Secksy
if its any help i prefer a facepic or a face cam in the chatty rooms - have you tried using one chatty room and getting known in there or going to socials? There is a big one coming up at eureka on december 4th i think they still have rooms available to stay the night! Happy hunting!
Quote by secksy_cpl
Personally I like to see a face pic - I know a lot of ppl say I don't want to make it public so I'll email you one, but if I have to ask for a face pic then don't find u attractive I then feel guilty having to tell u I'm not interested!
I know that's irrational but that's my input smile
Mrs Secksy

Its a very good point. There are so many single guys that ones who dont have a face pic can be easily ignored no matter what the reason at their end. I also judge by if I was a single guy I would have a face pic as I am a single guy so I can do whatever I want and not be worried.
Thanks for the input..
I have face pics in my private albums, I personally don't like having any pics of me on the internet, i dont even have a face pic on my facebook account!
I'll try and make my profile stand out then....
Cheers
Quote by brucie
pretend to be a single lady who likes bareback. you'll get loads of replies.

i'm already to busy with the three accounts pretending to be lesbian couples looking for single men
Profile looks great to us and you come across as someone who couples would be comfortable inviting into their relationship.
Couples tend to like relaxed discrete guys so this approach will pay dividends in time.
Good luck.
Dee
You asked for opinions so here goes;
As has been said, nice photos but a dressed one even if wearing glasses might help.
As a male reading your profile I think you come across as being a bit distant. The almost one-liners don't quite add up to make you attractive to the reader. The line about 'the looks, not overly fussy and big arse' I don't think will do much to endear you to most ladies. Also you say as long as 'you' find them attractive. They have to find you attractive as well. Suggest a rewrite to make it warmer and more friendly.
Smooth1