My gf & I have been together for 18 months although we have known each other & got on well for a couple of years before that & I'm almost 10 years older than her with one failed (thankfully) marriage behind me despite me being only 32.
I'm now, I feel, at a stage where I want to explore my sexuality a little more and have expressed this wish to her and she understands what I want but not sure if she wants to have any part in it or has any desire to let me disappear and do my own thing (which I completely understand by the way).
The one thing she has expressed an interest in though is kissing a woman but has said that she wouldn't sleep with her.........which is interesting really as there is a girl we used to work with who fancies my girlfriend and is dying to explore her bi-side and I know would want to take it further. I have not expressed a desire to touch the other woman you understand, that I have accepted wouldn't happen and am quite happy about it
My gf is not keen on her coming over to mine for a few drinks and the inevitable as it is too much of a set-up but how else can we go about it? She has suggested a gay club and I've asked this girl to come over to mine to talk about what we might do to actually get these two together but I'm not sure its gonna happen and now I feel a little guilty for trying to set it up.
Lets get this clear, I want to marry MrsPlumber and she knows that.....we have a great relationship, sex is just fantastic but I want to go a stage further........the night with her & another woman would be a one-off unless she wanted to do it again but I think she is mainly worried about what others may think if they found out. Which is unlikely but you never can say it won't happen.
I'm really confused as one minute she seems really keen on the idea and at other times very cool on it but even when she's hot on it she stops dead and says I will not sleep with her, just kiss her.
Anyone had similar experience that I may help to easy my mind?
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