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I saw my ex yesterday for the first time in 18 months.......

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Not in the flesh, but courtesy of an email from a dating agency, there she was a new member, looked really good.
Would you?
a) join with a spoof profile and send message
b) ring her and say hey liked the profile
c) report said profile as 'that's just simply not true'
or
d) email her with link to SH, saying much more fun to be had here?
e) ignore her and move on with your life, remembering why you two are 'ex'
yea e) unless you still have some linguring chemistry hump
Quote by essex34m
e) ignore her and move on with your life, remembering why you two are 'ex'

:thumbup:
Did I just agree with essex? blink
I think I need a lie down
I would echo all the advice above , if you do anything you will look like a sad stalker.
Quote by essex34m
e) ignore her and move on with your life, remembering why you two are 'ex'

go wideboy go...u are doing so well....u will become seriously liked soon...
RWL
Quote by redwine_lover
e) ignore her and move on with your life, remembering why you two are 'ex'

go wideboy go...u are doing so well....u will become seriously liked soon...
RWL
one step at a time, i dont want to run before i can walk
its like the story of the two bulls looking at a field of cows
"shall we run down and fuck one?" said one
"no, lets walk down and fuck them all"
you have taught me well RWL
Quote by redwine_lover
e) ignore her and move on with your life, remembering why you two are 'ex'

go wideboy go...u are doing so well....u will become seriously liked soon...
RWL

oi! he already is
:twisted:
Quote by sexkittenhfx
e) ignore her and move on with your life, remembering why you two are 'ex'

go wideboy go...u are doing so well....u will become seriously liked soon...
RWL

oi! he already is
:twisted:
kiss
Quote by sexkittenhfx
e) ignore her and move on with your life, remembering why you two are 'ex'

go wideboy go...u are doing so well....u will become seriously liked soon...
RWL

oi! he already is
:twisted:
Bloody hell Wideboy, not only are you talking sense but you have a fan club as well lol :lol:
Quote by rogerthedragon
e) ignore her and move on with your life, remembering why you two are 'ex'

go wideboy go...u are doing so well....u will become seriously liked soon...
RWL

oi! he already is
:twisted:
Bloody hell Wideboy, not only are you talking sense but you have a fan club as well lol :lol:
you already knew that Roger, you have commented on it ;)
Quote by essex34m
e) ignore her and move on with your life, remembering why you two are 'ex'

go wideboy go...u are doing so well....u will become seriously liked soon...
RWL
one step at a time, i dont want to run before i can walk
its like the story of the two bulls looking at a field of cows
"shall we run down and fuck one?" said one
"no, lets walk down and fuck them all"
you have taught me well RWL
have a "field" day then apprentice.......
RWL
I saw a photograph of my ex... (another site)
... she looked good
and I wish her well
OfA
oneforall
Quote by essex34m
e) ignore her and move on with your life, remembering why you two are 'ex'

Very wise words..... but easier to say than to do sometimes!
However sometimes it does give you the closure thats needed when you see the person again and have the stark contrast without the full emotional bond that comes with being full time emotionaly involved with someone.
Jon Xx
I dream about seeing my ex, really I do.
Usually through a telescopic sight.
Quote by essex34m
e) ignore her and move on with your life, remembering why you two are 'ex'

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have to ask, why do i feel you need to do anything?
It's sad but true, that after 18 months you have to accept it is over and by the sounds of things she HAS moved on to rebuild her life. What;s worse is that you also have to face facts and you too have to do the same.
Just reflect on the good things you did together and the fun you had, but you have to put it in the past as that's where it belongs.
Wise words from blue eyes, i have to agree..... good luck
love peppsxx
Quote by de_sade
e) ignore her and move on with your life, remembering why you two are 'ex'

cool
Listen to those wise words.
Seriously.
Listen well.
8-)
De_sade
Yep my opinion is the same never go back. I went back once it cost me another 3 years of my life more domestic apliences than I care to remember and a plasma tv.
Oh how I miss her :cry:
The Television that is lol
Count your blessings. At least you know she's alive and well and getting on with her life, I'd suggest you do the same.
H.x
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Not in the flesh, but courtesy of an email from a dating agency, there she was a new member, looked really good.
Would you?
a) join with a spoof profile and send message
b) ring her and say hey liked the profile
c) report said profile as 'that's just simply not true'
or
d) email her with link to SH, saying much more fun to be had here?

I am not going to say what I would do, but no way would I do a or c.
hmmm, de'ju vu....
I have had a profile up on said dating site for months and while searching the new members a few days ago who's semi finished profile minus picture should I come across but..... yes, my ex's.
you might ask how I know it's hers - just trust me I know.....
A part of me is really happy that she is moving on but the other "devilish" side is seriosly toying with the idea of leading her on a wild goose chase
:twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
No. not really, I'm just more intersted in knowing how she is going to describe herself more than anything else....
and then perhaps drop her a email saying "liar liar liar pants on fire"
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