I would like to apologise to anyone that has in anyway been upset about my thread “Who am I?
I started this thread as a bit of fun, I now realise with hindsight how it could come across as deceit, betrayal and could upset and cause some to question my intent.
I never knew there had been cases whereby some had been deceived this way before, if I knew then what I know now I would never have done it.
But isn’t hindsight a wonderful thing?
I have been upset at the thought of upsetting others so for that I am truly sorry.
I thought long and hard if I should just delete this profile and disappear but then that would to me be a cowards way out, I want all those who don’t know who I am to find out hopefully it will then ease their minds, I will face the consequences then whatever is thrown at me.
I have spoke to some people that said just ignore it and carry on, but I can’t knowing that others have been affected by this, it just isn’t in my nature to do that.
I can stand up for myself and be accounted for but not to the detriment of hurting others.
Well I hope we can all learn for this, I for one have!
But I would like to follow this though as I originally set out for it to be just a bit of fun.
Thanks all
I can see how some can be upset by this, but personally I wasn't. I took this as a bit of a giggle.
This has been compared to the member who made a ghost profile to write about others. That was scary in my view, but not this.
Of course, I may feel like this because I joined in when the threads said that this profile was a spoof profile and to guess who they were. I am unsure if it was always like this or not?
In the chatrooms, in a bygone era, you could change your chatname as soon as you entered the room. It was funny when I entered once and everyone had the same bloody name. Took ages to work out who was in there.......but it was fun. Even my other half changed her name (to slut-in-training) and tried to chat me up (didn't work as I did a runner cos I didn't know who the user name was).
So all in all, in my opinion, thanks for the apology but it wasn't needed
Dave_Notts
I have done some daft things! I have looked make and said "Why did I do that."
If you feel that way, you meant no harm then come clean and get on with your life.
Travis
well... not au-fait with what happened and who was upset:
Why not say here who you are and have done with it.
Not need to continue any giggle or deciet. and it will put an end to anyone feeling they have to search around to see what all the fuss was about etc etc
lp
She is theladyisaminx.
I am sorry that people were upset too. I wasn't deceived first time around so my view over this has been that it was a bit of storm in a tea- cup. I am sure that those who were upset will be happy with an apology. But then again, that is just my opinion.
Minx, I think you may have misread the situation.
I don't think anyone was upset with that thread- I think some felt duped by the otherthread. I think it was that one that was ill thought out.
But no, I wasn't one of them- much too much real life shite to give a monkeys tbh.
I for one was thrown into paroxisms of confused and anxious errm... something.
My world came crumbling down around my ... errr
and the ver foundatins upon which the world should have been founded were covered in uh... crumbled-world.
apple crumbled-world pie anyone?
so... all is safe and sound in the SH environs now is it?
Jolly Good.
can I borrow a brush?
lp
Minx I don't think you need to apologise to anyone. I didn't realise at first that it was a joke, didn't guess who you were ( can't be doing with guessing games ) but I don't think you've upset anyone.
leave that for us professionals :giggle:
I thought it was all fun with no need for this apology. I totally agree with 777 on what he said. It seems to me the worst affected by this is you minx, and your trying to put right what was never wrong. Get over with it and move on. Your a bloody good person!