[i][color=indigo]Disillusioned in Leeds[/color][/i]

14 Dec 2005

Please, where are all the girlies??
we've joined a couple of sites and this is by far the best one but it seems no girlies want to get in touch. Please tell me what we're doing wrong. I'm a f and I get the feeling that when I send a message that the ladies immediately assume that I'm a guy but actually my man has no idea of how to use a computer and basically just watches from the sidelines while I do all the work (typical huh?) rolleyes

Every day (okay for the last 3 days as I only just joined) I log on with excitement and anticipation that I might get to talk to some like-minded women who want to have a good time and every day I get more and more convinced that nobody likes me or my pics :cry:
Do you think I should take my blokes cock pic off?? :doh:
BOO xx

14 Dec 2005

What??? You've been a member for 3 whole days and you don't have females knocking your door down?? This is an outrage! Someone let the mods know so that they can round up all the single bi fems and send them round immediately
banghead

14 Dec 2005

Quote by Angel Chat
What??? You've been a member for 3 whole days and you don't have females knocking your door down?? This is an outrage! Someone let the mods know so that they can round up all the single bi fems and send them round immediately

Can they round some single ladies up as well for me
Iv been here ages and had very little action
whats going on
:twisted: mad

14 Dec 2005

you and me both!
i've been disillusioned by Leeds most of my adult life. specially when they sacked O'leary and sold all their best players to man utd! *spits* mad

neil x x x ;)

14 Dec 2005

Quote by Angel Chat
What??? You've been a member for 3 whole days and you don't have females knocking your door down?? This is an outrage! Someone let the mods know so that they can round up all the single bi fems and send them round immediately

I know I'm impatient but I thought we'd get at least one message from some like minded souls. confused

14 Dec 2005

Quote by neilinleeds
you and me both!
i've been disillusioned by Leeds most of my adult life. specially when they sacked O'leary and sold all their best players to man utd! *spits*
neil x x x ;)

Tell me about it! But I reckon Ken'll sort things out besides we're not doing too bad at the mo. still could go up this yr :lol2:

14 Dec 2005

Quote by smiffyboo
What??? You've been a member for 3 whole days and you don't have females knocking your door down?? This is an outrage! Someone let the mods know so that they can round up all the single bi fems and send them round immediately

I know I'm impatient but I thought we'd get at least one message from some like minded souls. confused

Turning it around... have you messaged any like minded souls telling them that you're interested? Sometimes you have to play the hunter rather than the hunted to get what you want from life

14 Dec 2005

Quote by smiffyboo
Please, where are all the girlies??

That's interesting!
I was just about to post something on the glitch thread after invesitgating the contents of my PM box - lots of PMs from guys who for reasons I can't fathom seem to think I want them to shag me, one or two were even nice enough to say it would need to be discreet, don't want the little wifey to know rolleyes

So:
1) Bring back the all posts by link, at least a few of the guys might bother to take a look to find out about their potential shagmate first
2) Where exactly is SH being advertised? I think people like Smiffyboo here believe they have joined an SH which is very different to the one I use. A week ago, comments like Angel Chat's about him only being here 3 days and to be patient would be spot on and I'd agree (it still applies in the SH I belong to) but I have to wonder how SH is being marketed to new people via other sites? confused

14 Dec 2005

Turning it around... have you messaged any like minded souls telling them that you're interested? Sometimes you have to play the hunter rather than the hunted to get what you want from life
Yes I've messaged a few people, actually have managed to make contact with one girlie so far but only one email as of yet. Not looking for something to happen right this minute but finding it hard to find genuine people on here. confused

14 Dec 2005

Quote by smiffyboo
Turning it around... have you messaged any like minded souls telling them that you're interested? Sometimes you have to play the hunter rather than the hunted to get what you want from life

Yes I've messaged a few people, actually have managed to make contact with one girlie so far but only one email as of yet. Not looking for something to happen right this minute but finding it hard to find genuine people on here. confused

That'll be because we're all your imaginary friends then. lol

14 Dec 2005

Quote by smiffyboo
but finding it hard to find genuine people on here.

And i fear that is only going to get harded, I would suggest you start with the people who were he before last week and have at least over 200 posts
they are people who care about this site and what is was is and should remain

14 Dec 2005

Quote by smiffyboo
Turning it around... have you messaged any like minded souls telling them that you're interested? Sometimes you have to play the hunter rather than the hunted to get what you want from life

Yes I've messaged a few people, actually have managed to make contact with one girlie so far but only one email as of yet. Not looking for something to happen right this minute but finding it hard to find genuine people on here. confused

Three days isn't long enough to get into converations, to build up a trust and friendship that might lead to a potential meet though. I know I've not been on this site long, but I am on others, and I wouldn't consider meeting someone who'd only been around three days to be perfectly honest.
One of the reasons I don't have an ad on here is because I'd rather get to know someone through the boards or through chat first and not spend hours everyday sifting through emails from people who can say little more than "you're close... wanna shag?"
Give it time... make conversation... and be patient... Rome wasn't built in a day and swinging friends aren't made overnight either

14 Dec 2005

Quote by Robert1961
but finding it hard to find genuine people on here.

And i fear that is only going to get harded, I would suggest you start with the people who were he before last week and have at least over 200 posts
they are people who care about this site and what is was is and should remain
Just because they were here before and have 200+ posts, doesn't necessarily make them any more genuine.

14 Dec 2005

Quote by Robert1961
but finding it hard to find genuine people on here.

And i fear that is only going to get harded, I would suggest you start with the people who were he before last week and have at least over 200 posts
they are people who care about this site and what is was is and should remain
Thanx for the advice. I'm actually starting to feel better there does seem to be some genuine people on here I'll heed to you advice and hopefully things will go better!
smile

14 Dec 2005

Thanx v. much after reading your message it makes a lot of sense. I am the same and wouldn't want to meet up with people without getting to know them v. well beforehand. I think I was just assuming that because people weren't contacting me yet they never would as I've only ever been on friendship type sites b4 now so am used to people coming over and saying hi to new profiles I think I just assumed that it would be the same sort of thing. Again, thanx for the advice it's much appreciated worship

Quote by celestria
Turning it around... have you messaged any like minded souls telling them that you're interested? Sometimes you have to play the hunter rather than the hunted to get what you want from life

Yes I've messaged a few people, actually have managed to make contact with one girlie so far but only one email as of yet. Not looking for something to happen right this minute but finding it hard to find genuine people on here. confused

Three days isn't long enough to get into converations, to build up a trust and friendship that might lead to a potential meet though. I know I've not been on this site long, but I am on others, and I wouldn't consider meeting someone who'd only been around three days to be perfectly honest.
One of the reasons I don't have an ad on here is because I'd rather get to know someone through the boards or through chat first and not spend hours everyday sifting through emails from people who can say little more than "you're close... wanna shag?"
Give it time... make conversation... and be patient... Rome wasn't built in a day and swinging friends aren't made overnight either