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If it was the last time.........??

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Hello people,
We can probably all remember the first time we had sex, be it good, bad or whatever, but what would you do if you knew the next time you had sex it would be the very last time that you would be able to do so?
What would make it memorable? The person/people, the place, how long it lasted?
Would it be an all night shagfest with plenty of action from all present at someone's house or a club or outside? Or would it be a night of lovemaking with the one person you truly love. And yes I suppose we are talking fantasy mode here too so it could be with anybody not just limited to your partner.
Ok just curious that's all, as hopefully for all of us we've all got plenty of shagging/lovemaking etc in the long years ahead.........
Cheers
M&T x
What a fantastic question - well done you two for thinking that one up kiss :kiss:
I suppose that a session of lovemaking with a person you truly love and know very well would be the best.
Then again, how about getting together all the people you have had sex with and having them all one more time - that way, you could refresh your memory of each one and have all those memories afterwards.
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.........wow.........that would last forever.......!! (Not that I'm implying that I've had sex with loads of people)..........*tries to look innocent* redface innocent
Quote by angelnn66
I suppose that a session of lovemaking with a person you truly love and know very well would be the best.

Problem is you do not always know at the time if it is going to be the last time. When you look back at that last time with the person you love, you wish you had done more to remember.
Yeah but that's my point Pheonix, if you KNEW it would be the last time........etc etc....
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Yeah but that's my point Pheonix, if you KNEW it would be the last time........etc etc....

Now if I knew it would be the last time, you'd never want it to end.... then it would never be the last time. wink
ohhh no idea, good question tho, not sure about having sex with everyone i have ever been with tho, can't even remember most :angel:
I think it would have to include the person i love but i'm sure i'd want a few more there as well wink
Interesting tho cause i was onl;y talking other day in a state of drunkeness about what would u do if u knew u was going to die tomorrow? funny thing was my list didn't even include sex at all confused
If I knew it was going to be the last time I would want to spend the entire night with my partner, making love slowly at first, then fast and furious, then slowly again till the sun rises and quietly fall asleep in each other's arms. Yup. That would do me just fine.
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If I knew it was going to be the last time I would want to spend the entire night with my partner, making love slowly at first, then fast and furious, then slowly again till the sun rises and quietly fall asleep in each other's arms. Yup. That would do me just fine.

Everyone, say Ahhhhhhhh. I'm going away to cry quietly in a corner, sentimental old me :cry:
The last time was fantastic and I hope the next time is as good but don't tell the wife lol.
So come on then tonmar01 what would you do seeing as you havn't told us yet wink
This is too profound for a Friday :shock: lol
If I knew it was my last ever shag I would want to share it with someone special, and only them.
Feeling kinda sad now :cry:
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If I knew it was going to be the last time I would want to spend the entire night with my partner, making love slowly at first, then fast and furious, then slowly again till the sun rises and quietly fall asleep in each other's arms. Yup. That would do me just fine.

Everyone, say Ahhhhhhhh. I'm going away to cry quietly in a corner, sentimental old me :cry:
Well I've done all the other things I want to do sexually so no point doing all that again is there.... sex with the one I love would be the way to go for me, without a doubt. Besides, she might bury me upside down or sommat coz she's pissed off that I didn't choose to have my last night of sex with her...... women are funny like that you know. :shock: :shock: :shock:
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This is too profound for a Friday :shock: lol
If I knew it was my last ever shag I would want to share it with someone special, and only them.
Feeling kinda sad now :cry:

Agreed.
And ditto.
Yeah would have to be with the one I love. A nice romantic meal ,some wine etc etc. Then a night of pure lovemaking lasting all night, hoping it would never end. But I suppose talking about and remembering all the shagfest fun times we'd had over the years as well.
xx
Quote by bluexxx
This is too profound for a Friday :shock: lol
If I knew it was my last ever shag I would want to share it with someone special, and only them.
Feeling kinda sad now :cry:

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I remember when I went veggie for a while, my ex-wife always made fantastic bacon sandwiches so I would periodically walk past the canteen at work and smell bacon and go a little misty eyed at the thought of eating one. Then one day I relented, it was a crap sandwich, the bread was dry and the bacon was too crispy and salty, I never wanted another one after that.
So, in answer to the question, I'd make sure it was somebody really crap, that smells bad and just turned me off, that way that'd be my last memory of sex and I'd not miss it so much.
Either that or it'd be a threesome, me the ex-wife and bacon sandwiches.
Chris
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Either that or it'd be a threesome, me the ex-wife and bacon sandwiches.
Chris

Do I assume then that the ex-wife is a bit dry and crispy around the edges confused:
Sounds a bit like my ex wink
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Either that or it'd be a threesome, me the ex-wife and bacon sandwiches.
Chris

Do I assume then that the ex-wife is a bit dry and crispy around the edges confused:
Sounds a bit like my ex wink
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The bacon sandwich is just there to give her something to think about instead of saying "I wonder what Rob in Holland is up to." That sort of thing really puts you off when your 'happily' and monogamously married!
Chris
Quote by Wishmaster
If I knew it was going to be the last time I would want to spend the entire night with my partner, making love slowly at first, then fast and furious, then slowly again till the sun rises and quietly fall asleep in each other's arms. Yup. That would do me just fine.

thats just what i was going to say. biggrin
It would be a 10 year long session with the woman I love for me.
If I KNEW it would be the last time, I wouldn't do it.
I'd rather remember my last time as an enjoyable experience, rather than one which was tainted by the knowledge that I'd never experience it again.
Thanks for the responses so far.
I think the general feeling is that it would be with your current long term partner, but what about the people who are single?
xx
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Thanks for the responses so far.
I think the general feeling is that it would be with your current long term partner, but what about the people who are single?
xx

Just because someone may be single now, doesn't mean that they have never had deep affection for someone that they would like to " have the last time with".
I suppose for someone young enough to have never had a serious relationship that they look back on, anybody who will shag them senseless would fit the bill.
Can I share this with you?
About twenty odd years ago, before I was married, my best friend had a beautiful girlfriend. We travelled the world in each other's company as part of a larger group of friends on and off for about five years. But there was a problem. My friend had a habit of after a few beers, of falling asleep. She was different - after a drink, she "warmed up". The result - many nights of mutual manipulation, falling short of "it".
I bought a house, and on the day I moved in, she came round to help me with the soft furnishings.
Just as we were about to get into the second 30 seconds of full on rampaging lovemaking, the door bell went and it was the boyfriend. Hastily dressing, we let him in, and contnued the unpacking.
After that day, we avoided each other for the chaos it would have caused, but both suffered for it and she eventually moved away, having split up with my friend, who to this day does not know.
If it was my last time? I'd go to where she now lives, throw her husband out of the house, and continue from where we left off 20 years ago!
Hey, does this mean I have been a swinger for over 25 years? Yippeeeeee!! lol
This question provokes in me feelings of loneliness and isolation (note that i am drunk!).....Despite having met and had sex with many people over my years as a swinger I do very much desire to meet my soulmate...the one person that would conduct the flow of sensual energy experienced in the act of making love.....the person I should be with for eternity.....
Just one night of passion with them would be worth a million nights of just emotionless sex with the most beautiful women (or men) in the world...
On the other hand.....practically speaking if I knew I had just one night of sexual acivity left in my life I wouldn't hesitate to find the dirtiest slut (and her /his friends) and indulge in the most hedonistic orgy the planet has ever or will ever see....
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Once upon a time, I was going to have a 'last time' with the man I (then!) loved - we weren't going to see each other for two years.
In the weeks before we had to part, we seemed to change to only making lots of slow, bittersweet love. And on the last night, though we intended to have a farewell fuckfest for two, in fact all we did was hold each other close - the only wet patch was from tears!
Of course ... this isn't really as soppy as it sounds - I didn't manage the whole two years wink
(Oh - and hello everyone wave )
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Once upon a time, I was going to have a 'last time' with the man I (then!) loved - we weren't going to see each other for two years.
In the weeks before we had to part, we seemed to change to only making lots of slow, bittersweet love. And on the last night, though we intended to have a farewell fuckfest for two, in fact all we did was hold each other close - the only wet patch was from tears!
Of course ... this isn't really as soppy as it sounds - I didn't manage the whole two years wink
(Oh - and hello everyone wave )

Hmmmm .... so you didn't actually have a 'last time' with this guy then ..... well actually you did... the time before the scheduled 'last time' was your actual last time .. feck this is confusing.... I think first times are better.
Oh - and Hello TheLovelyOne.
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in fact all we did was hold each other close - the only wet patch was from tears!

Brings back memories for me. :cry: