just a wee tea time ponderance....would your interest/love of the lifestyle make you want to commit a crime, just so you could continue to to indulge in the pleasures of anothers flesh
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If swinging was made illegal......
Sex God
Hey in that case we'd stop! 
Tell you what though.... That word lifestyle really jerks me off. Lets face it we've all seen discussed that swinging is what it is for each individual. So, Lifestyle?? I don't get it 
Maybe we should have compulsory giving of drugs to those under 18 to make it horrid to shag? then slowly reduce the dose going from really horrible to not nice to sort of ok and so on. Maybe that'd sort some stuff
Tell you what though.... That word lifestyle really jerks me off. Lets face it we've all seen discussed that swinging is what it is for each individual. So, Lifestyle?? I don't get it Maybe we should have compulsory giving of drugs to those under 18 to make it horrid to shag? then slowly reduce the dose going from really horrible to not nice to sort of ok and so on. Maybe that'd sort some stuff
Its arguably only just inside the law, but could be proven otherwise. Any kind of 'arranging' of sexual acts could still be interpreted as corrupt and presented as illegal. Its not so clear cut as you think. opinions can be changed easily in circumstances where they can be manipulated.
You could swing with a partner for many years. Then they decide to divorce you citing the swinging activities as being one of the causes. And bingo you'are up to your neck in it.
You could swing with a partner for many years. Then they decide to divorce you citing the swinging activities as being one of the causes. And bingo you'are up to your neck in it.
Any kind of 'arranging' of sexual acts could still be interpreted as corrupt and presented as illegal.
I thought and have been told only if you charge for the pleasure!
I have never broken the law!!
And this would be a step to far in my opinion!
I have a great poem learnt at school I would love to add to this post but are unsure if it would be allowed.
It is to do with being taxed on our poking! But does mention a few MP lol
Sex God
Quote by Theladyisaminx
Any kind of 'arranging' of sexual acts could still be interpreted as corrupt and presented as illegal.
I thought and have been told only if you charge for the pleasure!
I have never broken the law!!
And this would be a step to far in my opinion!
I have a great poem learnt at school I would love to add to this post but are unsure if it would be allowed.
It is to do with being taxed on our poking! But does mention a few MP lol
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Quote by Theladyisaminx
I have a great poem learnt at school I would love to add to this post but are unsure if it would be allowed.
It is to do with being taxed on our poking! But does mention a few MP lol
NOT if it mentions any names.... we have a policy of not naming and shaming and that covers non members too.
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I have a great poem learnt at school I would love to add to this post but are unsure if it would be allowed.
It is to do with being taxed on our poking! But does mention a few MP lol
NOT if it mentions any names.... we have a policy of not naming and shaming and that covers non members too.
Ok Jag thats why I didn't do it!
Sex God
Quote by duncanlondon
Its arguably only just inside the law, but could be proven otherwise. Any kind of 'arranging' of sexual acts could still be interpreted as corrupt and presented as illegal.
What law is that? Never heard of that. Dogging - yes, as it's in public places - but shagging someone who isn't your spouse? There's no law against that.
Sex God
Quote by Jags
I have a great poem learnt at school I would love to add to this post but are unsure if it would be allowed.
It is to do with being taxed on our poking! But does mention a few MP lol
NOT if it mentions any names.... we have a policy of not naming and shaming and that covers non members too.
What like not even MP's
Not even the Big main ones like what's his name (I do forget) The PM? Quote by duncanlondon
Its arguably only just inside the law, but could be proven otherwise. Any kind of 'arranging' of sexual acts could still be interpreted as corrupt and presented as illegal. Its not so clear cut as you think. opinions can be changed easily in circumstances where they can be manipulated.
You could swing with a partner for many years. Then they decide to divorce you citing the swinging activities as being one of the causes. And bingo you'are up to your neck in it.
This would be my interpretation of it also
Sex God
Quote by Bonedigger
would you be tempted to break the law?
just a wee tea time ponderance....would your interest/love of the lifestyle make you want to commit a crime, just so you could continue to to indulge in the pleasures of anothers flesh
Is swinging worth it?
Dam right :thumbup:
anyway what would be the point? look what prohibition did for alcohol ............... now theres an idea, a swinging Speakeasy :lol:
Sex God
It would still happen no matter what, just go under ground, so to speak!
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Its arguably only just inside the law, but could be proven otherwise. Any kind of 'arranging' of sexual acts could still be interpreted as corrupt and presented as illegal.
What law is that? Never heard of that. Dogging - yes, as it's in public places - but shagging someone who isn't your spouse? There's no law against that.
Interpreted is prob his key word there.
But isn't paying to go to a club which is a sex club a form of paying for sex? which of course is illegal(and that's a open question it's not my opinion
). Quote by foxylady2209
Its arguably only just inside the law, but could be proven otherwise. Any kind of 'arranging' of sexual acts could still be interpreted as corrupt and presented as illegal.
What law is that? Never heard of that. Dogging - yes, as it's in public places - but shagging someone who isn't your spouse? There's no law against Norman law any sex outside of marriage is not legal. Marriage licences come from the same time. To my knowledge it has never been changed. So just about everyone has had sex outside the law.
Would anyone do anything about it? No.
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Its arguably only just inside the law, but could be proven otherwise. Any kind of 'arranging' of sexual acts could still be interpreted as corrupt and presented as illegal.
What law is that? Never heard of that. Dogging - yes, as it's in public places - but shagging someone who isn't your spouse? There's no law against that.
yes foxy I was thinking the same thing..........so is it illegal to swing then
: oooo im so naughty :twisted:
Sex God
taken a snippit of the which i think swingers could be quite susceptable to well i know ive done #71 
well i know ive done #71 Other offences
66. Exposure
67. Voyeurism
68. Voyeurism: interpretation
69. Intercourse with an animal
70. Sexual penetration of a corpse
71. Sexual activity in a public lavatory
I am not a lawyer. But I am entitled to know at least something about it to operate in the country I live in. Although this would take several years to acquire sufficient wisdom to apply, thankfully most of it is upheld and supported by our society.
It is not a mathematical formula, or a menu of options, in most cases its highly personal and specific to the people involved.
So you can carry on with your various activites as long as you have the consent of those around you. However should someone object and take you to law you then have a struggle on your hands. Because you are supposed to be leading a faultless existence.
Well we all know this is impossible, except with the assistance of other people who are in each others confidence.
Such 'secrecy' underpins many aspects of society, that is until someone blows the whistle. All the way down from corporate employees, unions, industrial moles to the common spouse.
Then all your activites come under examination and you can be found to be 'illegal' in many ways depending on the nature of the case.
But most accomplished swingers are aware of that and simply desire and fulfill their needs for sex by being adulterers, fornicators etc. Because they enjoy that state of being.
It is effectively illegal because our society does not legalise it. It therefore remains an underground activity, because it can't walk down the streets proudly declaring its legitimacy.
It is not a mathematical formula, or a menu of options, in most cases its highly personal and specific to the people involved.
So you can carry on with your various activites as long as you have the consent of those around you. However should someone object and take you to law you then have a struggle on your hands. Because you are supposed to be leading a faultless existence.
Well we all know this is impossible, except with the assistance of other people who are in each others confidence.
Such 'secrecy' underpins many aspects of society, that is until someone blows the whistle. All the way down from corporate employees, unions, industrial moles to the common spouse.
Then all your activites come under examination and you can be found to be 'illegal' in many ways depending on the nature of the case.
But most accomplished swingers are aware of that and simply desire and fulfill their needs for sex by being adulterers, fornicators etc. Because they enjoy that state of being.
It is effectively illegal because our society does not legalise it. It therefore remains an underground activity, because it can't walk down the streets proudly declaring its legitimacy.
Master of Sex
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It is effectively illegal because our society does not legalise it. It therefore remains an underground activity, because it can't walk down the streets proudly declaring its legitimacy.
I'd have to disagree with you there Duncan. An act is illegal if there is a law against it. If there is no law against it, it cannot be illegal. Technically it could be called 'alegal', but that just means it hasn't been legistlated about (for or against).
Illegal sexual acts are various but they fall into some groups - involving innapropriate humans (age, mental conditon relationship etc), involving any animals or doing it in public. Arranging to meet up with and have sex with someone other than your spouse is NOT illegal. But it can screw up your relationship and it can be held against you as a moral element to any divorce procedings.
I've noticed that having sex involving vegetables does not appear to be illegal - perhaps that's something vegetarians should become active against.
Quote by thevillians
It is effectively illegal because our society does not legalise it. It therefore remains an underground activity, because it can't walk down the streets proudly declaring its legitimacy.
I'd have to disagree with you there Duncan. An act is illegal if there is a law against it. If there is no law against it, it cannot be illegal. Technically it could be called 'alegal', but that just means it hasn't been legistlated about (for or against).
Illegal sexual acts are various but they fall into some groups - involving innapropriate humans (age, mental conditon relationship etc), involving any animals or doing it in public. Arranging to meet up with and have sex with someone other than your spouse is NOT illegal. But it can screw up your relationship and it can be held against you as a moral element to any divorce procedings.
I've noticed that having sex involving vegetables does not appear to be illegal - perhaps that's something vegetarians should become active against.
Yeah I'd have to agree also with you, because again it has to be specific to individual cases. Its not a piece of maths.
But in the case of marriage it is against the law of marriage, because you have promised to be the one and only. Our interpretation is a lot more lenient than other countries and cultures. But can be subject to severe rulings in the courts.
Master of Sex
Quote by duncanlondon
It is effectively illegal because our society does not legalise it. It therefore remains an underground activity, because it can't walk down the streets proudly declaring its legitimacy.
I'd have to disagree with you there Duncan. An act is illegal if there is a law against it. If there is no law against it, it cannot be illegal. Technically it could be called 'alegal', but that just means it hasn't been legistlated about (for or against).
Illegal sexual acts are various but they fall into some groups - involving innapropriate humans (age, mental conditon relationship etc), involving any animals or doing it in public. Arranging to meet up with and have sex with someone other than your spouse is NOT illegal. But it can screw up your relationship and it can be held against you as a moral element to any divorce procedings.
I've noticed that having sex involving vegetables does not appear to be illegal - perhaps that's something vegetarians should become active against.
Yeah I'd have to agree also with you, because again it has to be specific to individual cases. Its not a piece of maths.
But in the case of marriage it is against the law of marriage, because you have promised to be the one and only. Our interpretation is a lot more lenient than other countries and cultures. But can be subject to severe rulings in the courts.
I take your point about the marriage vows. Legally I'd reckon being 'unfaithful' could certainly be considered as a breach of promise, or even breach of contract (since each part signs a legally binding document).
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It is effectively illegal because our society does not legalise it. It therefore remains an underground activity, because it can't walk down the streets proudly declaring its legitimacy.
I'd have to disagree with you there Duncan. An act is illegal if there is a law against it. If there is no law against it, it cannot be illegal. Technically it could be called 'alegal', but that just means it hasn't been legistlated about (for or against).
Illegal sexual acts are various but they fall into some groups - involving innapropriate humans (age, mental conditon relationship etc), involving any animals or doing it in public. Arranging to meet up with and have sex with someone other than your spouse is NOT illegal. But it can screw up your relationship and it can be held against you as a moral element to any divorce procedings.
I've noticed that having sex involving vegetables does not appear to be illegal - perhaps that's something vegetarians should become active against.
Yeah I'd have to agree also with you, because again it has to be specific to individual cases. Its not a piece of maths.
But in the case of marriage it is against the law of marriage, because you have promised to be the one and only. Our interpretation is a lot more lenient than other countries and cultures. But can be subject to severe rulings in the courts.
I take your point about the marriage vows. Legally I'd reckon being 'unfaithful' could certainly be considered as a breach of promise, or even breach of contract (since each part signs a legally binding document).
Yes that's it. A married couple agree in moral terms and legal terms to live a 'decent' life. Once this comes undone either partner has the right to invoke proceedings to instigate a state of illegality by the offending partner; and pursue divorce to resolve it. This then absolves them of the responsibiity of the other partner and then allows them to wipe the slate clean. Or seemingly so, depending on the outcome of those who adjudicate the proceedings.
So all that 'legality' is very much after the event, and almost non existent during. Because the acts have to be perpetrated to invoke the change in legality.
Oddly enough there are as mnay people who seek refuge, in marriage; from the pressures and temptations of being 'available'. They welcome the protection of the legal state of marriage from the vulnerabilities of being single. Can't wait to put the yoke around their necks so to speak.
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