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If u have a pic more replys?

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Well on this site it says that if you got a pic you get over 300% replyes what do they mean? It aint working for me It is like 1% replyes so
Think you've probably already had the answer to this in your other thread - http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/302835.html, specifically this reply....
Quote by Vickanddave
No wonder. One picture with an expression that would strip paint. Cheer up!

Kinda sums it up.
I've moved this into the cafe for you...
Quote by anais
I've moved this into the cafe for you...

Thanks could I get a coffe with 2 sugars plz in teh cafe?lol
Quote by SwedishGuy
I've moved this into the cafe for you...

Thanks could I get a coffe with 2 sugars plz in teh cafe?lol
Yep...It is on the table...........with a hobnob
Dave_Notts
Quote by Dave__Notts
I've moved this into the cafe for you...

Thanks could I get a coffe with 2 sugars plz in teh cafe?lol
Yep...It is on the table...........with a hobnob
Dave_Notts
mmmmmmmmmmmmm nice.
I'm not sure who has done the SwingMaths, but I'm pretty sure that if you have photos then you probably do get more replies.
I think a selection of photos is good - but to be honest, they are secondary to a well-written profile, as far as I'm concerned. Witty and interesting profiles or messages will get me hooked far quicker than a photo.
i found once i put pictures up i definitly got more reponse ...........unfortunately all the response was generally based around the theme of "fuck me you really are ugly"!!!
Quote by leatherednperky
i found once i put pictures up i definitly got more reponse ...........unfortunately all the response was generally based around the theme of "fuck me you really are ugly"!!!

you have to take the rough with the smooth sometimes.
I thought you were having a flounce and leaving but you`re still here :doh:
please take this in the helpful manner its meant
your picture is very stern and doesnt make me want to make contact, very cold and distant.
I find your profile text very curt and again uninviting, theres no warmth, fun, no indication of your sense of humour or your personality, unless of course your personality is curt and uninviting.
i have seen two threads on the forum from you, one saying you havent had a meet yet you have only been here 14 days and the next stating you are leaving because you havent had a meet.
things that are worth it are worth waiting for and take time and effort into getting, they are not given to you on a plate.
try using some of the chat rooms from the areas close to yourself, let your personality be seen and get yourself known as a regular, it makes a lot of difference if people can get a feel for who you are, unless of course you are a knob then it obviously goes against you.
being totally brutally honest, your profile is one i wouldnt give a second glance to and certainly would not contact, and from your threads in the forum you have done nothing but put me off, if i had been interested in the first instance.
Quote by leatherednperky
i found once i put pictures up i definitly got more reponse ...........unfortunately all the response was generally based around the theme of "fuck me you really are ugly"!!!

You must have been using the same photo as me :lol2:
When I put a face pic in my profile, I got loads of replies.
Sadly, they all said "you know that pm we sent you last week? Can you ignore it please?"
Quote by The_libertine69
Think you've probably already had the answer to this in your other thread - http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/302835.html, specifically this reply....
No wonder. One picture with an expression that would strip paint. Cheer up!

Kinda sums it up.
all the threads u have posted have been....moan....n moan.....n moan....who wants to meet some one that moans????????????????????????
Typical, by the time I get here all the hobnobs have gone :sad:
Quote by Witchy
When I put a face pic in my profile, I got loads of replies.
Sadly, they all said "you know that pm we sent you last week? Can you ignore it please?"

:laughabove:
Quote by Kaznkev
Im going to remove all the pics from our profile if one more guy in chat wispas that i have a nice cock!
I think the words certainly matter more,The profiles are the window into the person,and show who u really are.
Tho im still disturbed by the fact i like Randoms as much as his arse.....i think i need help!

wispas; Not keen on your cock wink ........ feeling better?
Pictures do help, the lady likes to read the profile but most times if no pictures she deletes the message unless intrigued enough by the profile to ask for a picture.
Quote by Kaznkev
true blue but can be deceptive,or lead u to a meet based on a nice face,the filthiest /horniest bloke ive met on here is not someone whose face pic i would have looked at twice ,he is so visually not my type.
And a whole world of fun would have been missed :twisted:
tho i would have have got to bed before 5 this morning lol

Yes I see your point, but at this stage the Lady likes there to be some physical attraction, maybe this may change as we spend more time in the scene.
Quote by Kaznkev
true blue but can be deceptive,or lead u to a meet based on a nice face,the filthiest /horniest bloke ive met on here is not someone whose face pic i would have looked at twice ,he is so visually not my type.
And a whole world of fun would have been missed :twisted:
tho i would have have got to bed before 5 this morning lol

Yes I see your point, but at this stage the Lady likes there to be some physical attraction, maybe this may change as we spend more time in the scene.
i think it is important foe there to be a spark,and if its physical for the lady then go with what works,judging from your avatar she can probably afford to be quite choosy wink
Some of us have to grab wat we can get :lol:
That is very kind of you to say so, I have checked out your profile several times redface (hope you dont mind) and your pictures are just as hot :lol:
Glad you had a great time last night, we had a great time Friday evening. thought we would not though. A meet fell through for the 3rd time this week so thought we would miss out yet again, but a short notice add in the LMU forum came up trumps and like you we got to bed in the early hours of the morning. We love this site :lol:
Quote by SwedishGuy
Well on this site it says that if you got a pic you get over 300% replyes what do they mean? It aint working for me It is like 1% replyes so

The maths is right! A 300% increase on nothing is still nothing biggrin Go figure
Good Pictures and hang out on the forums
We never received many emails until we went on the forums AND on cam
We also chuckle at the single males on the forums - some think the way to "pull" a couple is to chat up the female half and put down the husband when he is not there and also the other way round - females talking to the male when is is single on cam but when the female is singly on cam they ignore her
Like hello!
They haven't thought this though - if a couple is strong enough to trust each other in the differentiation between love and sex do they not think they talk to each other about everything?