Well on this site it says that if you got a pic you get over 300% replyes what do they mean? It aint working for me It is like 1% replyes so
I've moved this into the cafe for you...
I'm not sure who has done the SwingMaths, but I'm pretty sure that if you have photos then you probably do get more replies.
I think a selection of photos is good - but to be honest, they are secondary to a well-written profile, as far as I'm concerned. Witty and interesting profiles or messages will get me hooked far quicker than a photo.
i found once i put pictures up i definitly got more reponse ...........unfortunately all the response was generally based around the theme of "fuck me you really are ugly"!!!
I thought you were having a flounce and leaving but you`re still here :doh:
please take this in the helpful manner its meant
your picture is very stern and doesnt make me want to make contact, very cold and distant.
I find your profile text very curt and again uninviting, theres no warmth, fun, no indication of your sense of humour or your personality, unless of course your personality is curt and uninviting.
i have seen two threads on the forum from you, one saying you havent had a meet yet you have only been here 14 days and the next stating you are leaving because you havent had a meet.
things that are worth it are worth waiting for and take time and effort into getting, they are not given to you on a plate.
try using some of the chat rooms from the areas close to yourself, let your personality be seen and get yourself known as a regular, it makes a lot of difference if people can get a feel for who you are, unless of course you are a knob then it obviously goes against you.
being totally brutally honest, your profile is one i wouldnt give a second glance to and certainly would not contact, and from your threads in the forum you have done nothing but put me off, if i had been interested in the first instance.
When I put a face pic in my profile, I got loads of replies.
Sadly, they all said "you know that pm we sent you last week? Can you ignore it please?"
Typical, by the time I get here all the hobnobs have gone :sad:
Pictures do help, the lady likes to read the profile but most times if no pictures she deletes the message unless intrigued enough by the profile to ask for a picture.
Good Pictures and hang out on the forums
We never received many emails until we went on the forums AND on cam
We also chuckle at the single males on the forums - some think the way to "pull" a couple is to chat up the female half and put down the husband when he is not there and also the other way round - females talking to the male when is is single on cam but when the female is singly on cam they ignore her
Like hello!
They haven't thought this though - if a couple is strong enough to trust each other in the differentiation between love and sex do they not think they talk to each other about everything?