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If you were to entertain a new swing at your home, how would you go about setting the scene? Would you do the romance thing and do dinner with candles subtle lighting mood music etc. What would you do?
J and I were thinking about this and we thought that all we'd do is a couple of nice finger snacks wine etc and a little mood music. Thats if it were a new person/people we were meeting. Otherwise if it were people we were familiar with then we'd have discussed it or know how to go anyway.
Good question hunni.
Low lighting is a must...candles, side lamps etc. Music is ok providing you choose something that's not going to interrupt anything and be sensual and not be too loud ( try Buddha Bar or similar ambient chill ) plus try to have it on a loop so you don't have to stop what you're doing to change the cd!
As for food, keep it light unless you're leaving enough time for food to be digested before playtime starts. Wine is good, enough to relax everyone but not too much.
Try burning some incense sticks before your guests arrive but make sure they;re finished by time they ring the doorbell. Try the local hippy shops for some sexy scents wink
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Good question hunni.
Low lighting is a must...candles, side lamps etc. Music is ok providing you choose something that's not going to interrupt anything and be sensual and not be too loud ( try Buddha Bar or similar ambient chill ) plus try to have it on a loop so you don't have to stop what you're doing to change the cd!
As for food, keep it light unless you're leaving enough time for food to be digested before playtime starts. Wine is good, enough to relax everyone but not too much.
Try burning some incense sticks before your guests arrive but make sure they;re finished by time they ring the doorbell. Try the local hippy shops for some sexy scents wink

:thumbup:
trav..
I like this, but are you sure about the candles. Hot as things may get, knocking over a candle would be a bit too hot.
Quote by Sassy-Seren
Good question hunni.
Low lighting is a must...candles, side lamps etc. Music is ok providing you choose something that's not going to interrupt anything and be sensual and not be too loud ( try Buddha Bar or similar ambient chill ) plus try to have it on a loop so you don't have to stop what you're doing to change the cd!
As for food, keep it light unless you're leaving enough time for food to be digested before playtime starts. Wine is good, enough to relax everyone but not too much.
Try burning some incense sticks before your guests arrive but make sure they;re finished by time they ring the doorbell. Try the local hippy shops for some sexy scents wink
In the winter have a lovely log fire burning, glass or three of wine and some chilled music, or if you are more liberated (!!) some porn ready to play at the relevant moment.
If you intend to move on to the bedroom, then have towels and shower stuff ready for before and after - nothing like sharing a shower with your guest(s). Candles at the ready, especially good for wax play - oh bum, I digress.....
Anyway, chilled and relaxed and if you visit us, prepare to laugh alot, we have fun when we fcuk.
Mistress_39
Quote by Kff30
we entertain at home all the time as we cant always go to otheres due to kids when ever we do have guests we always set the mood by adjusting the lights and putting the right music on but we have also found having some thing to move things on from the all sitting down and talking stage to the all getting hot and sweaty stage lol for example we use to have a pool table in our front room and have played strip pool with guests more then once and after a few bottles of wine it really is a good laugh that relaxes every one and helps the evening to flow with out any akwardness. we have also got a nice leather swivel chair which has been used to great affect too in the past lol
at the end of the day thou it just has to be a relaxed enviroment where every one feels comfy

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I like this, but are you sure about the candles. Hot as things may get, knocking over a candle would be a bit too hot.
Good question hunni.
Low lighting is a must...candles, side lamps etc. Music is ok providing you choose something that's not going to interrupt anything and be sensual and not be too loud ( try Buddha Bar or similar ambient chill ) plus try to have it on a loop so you don't have to stop what you're doing to change the cd!
As for food, keep it light unless you're leaving enough time for food to be digested before playtime starts. Wine is good, enough to relax everyone but not too much.
Try burning some incense sticks before your guests arrive but make sure they;re finished by time they ring the doorbell. Try the local hippy shops for some sexy scents wink

Woman's thinking : candles in unobtrusive places, set on the correct type of stand so as not to burn the furniture, away from curtains and other flammable materials. Perfect ambience
Men's thinking: oooh candles, where me lighter?
Nuff said :dry:
I find hiding the dead bodies and removing as much of the blood from the walls as possible helps.
Still, the head in the fridge surprises a few people.
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I find hiding the dead bodies and removing as much of the blood from the walls as possible helps.
Still, the head in the fridge surprises a few people.

You give head in the fridge!! :shock:
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I find hiding the dead bodies and removing as much of the blood from the walls as possible helps.
Still, the head in the fridge surprises a few people.

You give head in the fridge!! :shock:
LMAO!
Don't we all?
Erm... Ummm... I'd better go now, the cat is defrosting...
bolt
Quote by Kff30
we entertain at home all the time as we cant always go to otheres due to kids when ever we do have guests we always set the mood by adjusting the lights and putting the right music on but we have also found having some thing to move things on from the all sitting down and talking stage to the all getting hot and sweaty stage lol for example we use to have a pool table in our front room and have played strip pool with guests more then once and after a few bottles of wine it really is a good laugh that relaxes every one and helps the evening to flow with out any akwardness. we have also got a nice leather swivel chair which has been used to great affect too in the past lol
at the end of the day thou it just has to be a relaxed enviroment where every one feels comfy

hmmm remind me not to sit on that chair marrowman!!
Quote by Mistress_39
In the winter have a lovely log fire burning, glass or three of wine and some chilled music, or if you are more liberated (!!) some porn ready to play at the relevant moment.
If you intend to move on to the bedroom, then have towels and shower stuff ready for before and after - nothing like sharing a shower with your guest(s). Candles at the ready, especially good for wax play - oh bum, I digress.....
Anyway, chilled and relaxed and if you visit us, prepare to laugh alot, we have fun when we fcuk.
Mistress_39

This, I love the sound of!
Quote by noladreams
In the winter have a lovely log fire burning, glass or three of wine and some chilled music, or if you are more liberated (!!) some porn ready to play at the relevant moment.
If you intend to move on to the bedroom, then have towels and shower stuff ready for before and after - nothing like sharing a shower with your guest(s). Candles at the ready, especially good for wax play - oh bum, I digress.....
Anyway, chilled and relaxed and if you visit us, prepare to laugh alot, we have fun when we fcuk.
Mistress_39

This, I love the sound of!
Yep! :thumbup: I think we've found the venue for the next mod's get together! cool
i wouldnt have a meet at home but even if i could then i certainly wouldnt do the dinner and candles thing ! thats for romance and love not swinging, for me swinging is just sex, dont need dinner and candles for that smile
judging from others comments i think differently to others tho :)
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I like this, but are you sure about the candles. Hot as things may get, knocking over a candle would be a bit too hot.
Good question hunni.
Low lighting is a must...candles, side lamps etc. Music is ok providing you choose something that's not going to interrupt anything and be sensual and not be too loud ( try Buddha Bar or similar ambient chill ) plus try to have it on a loop so you don't have to stop what you're doing to change the cd!
As for food, keep it light unless you're leaving enough time for food to be digested before playtime starts. Wine is good, enough to relax everyone but not too much.
Try burning some incense sticks before your guests arrive but make sure they;re finished by time they ring the doorbell. Try the local hippy shops for some sexy scents wink

Woman's thinking : candles in unobtrusive places, set on the correct type of stand so as not to burn the furniture, away from curtains and other flammable materials. Perfect ambience
Men's thinking: oooh candles, where me lighter?
Nuff said :dry:Thanks
Met a few from here ( you know who you are xx )
who have put on a veritable feast of nibbles before fun starts.
but the full meal candles etc only if you know someone well and maybe have met before.
trav..
Quote by Cubes
In the winter have a lovely log fire burning, glass or three of wine and some chilled music, or if you are more liberated (!!) some porn ready to play at the relevant moment.
If you intend to move on to the bedroom, then have towels and shower stuff ready for before and after - nothing like sharing a shower with your guest(s). Candles at the ready, especially good for wax play - oh bum, I digress.....
Anyway, chilled and relaxed and if you visit us, prepare to laugh alot, we have fun when we fcuk.
Mistress_39

This, I love the sound of!
Yep! :thumbup: I think we've found the venue for the next mod's get together! cool
Here, one problemo guys, neither of us is a Mod!
But hey lets overlook the little details..........more room on top!
Mistress_39
Couple of stella's kebab delivered biggrin candles glass's of wine, log fires, dinner music on loop blimey sounds like a mills & boon :bounce: