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If your lady wants to kiss the other fella, how do you feel?

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Only if he is less good looking than me!! lol :lol: :lol:
Quote by Freckledbird
Stop trolling if you have no interest in the topic. .

Who's trolling? :shock:
I believe that was me purely because I answered in a flipant but true way dunno
I must live under a rickety rackety birdge and I'll eat you for supper :giggle:
We both kiss other people while swinging, but the kisses are not the same as when we kiss each other.
No one kisses me as intimately as Mr D and I know that he feels the same way as well.
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We both kiss other people while swinging, but the kisses are not the same as when we kiss each other.
No one kisses me as intimately as Mr D and I know that he feels the same way as well.

exactly how we feel about it - and many other points made here
not only is it a turn on for us both - it is also a case of 'as if i could stop her!'
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and your issue with that polo??????
(this is Den by the way!!)
:giggle:

smackbottom
I am more interested in whether the wife/gf lets the men kiss passionkiss :rascal:
That is one reading of the lead post.
Quote by Tom29uk
Well true its up to both parties, I meant some people might see kissing as more intimate etc.

In Japan, old Japan kissing was not the norm. Not to say it did not happen. It was looked upon as very intimate. Some courtezans would allow anything, but not kissing.
Now I am waiting to be told I am wrong.
I dont kiss other males its not that anyone says I can or cant, I just dont like to xxx
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Well as far as I'm concerned, when we are playing, H can do whatever she wants, including dancing the can can, whilst humming the music with her bum :shock:

Does she do requests? rotflmao
Not exactly, cos she's got a very limited repertoire.......... but by 'eck her flight of the bumblebee in f flat is pretty sensational lol
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When R and I had our first meet with another couple there was hardly any time to make a decision, before we knew any different he was getting off with R, and the other lady and myself were too busy using our tongues wink
I'dfeel let-down if she didn't kiss the guy.
Seeing her kiss guys, intertwining tongues, is such a turn-on. I'd say it's as good as seeing her fuck.
I know some girls don't like to, because it shows 'intimacy', but that's part of the whole turn-on for me.
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I love the way you put it... as if it is the male partner's choice lol :lol: :lol:

Well said Polo.. for me it is a matter of preference.. I choose not to kiss but would not stop Jay kissing a woman if he wanted to. I have chosen on one occasion to kiss someone as with this person it felt right.
I wouldn't be happy if my partner started saying 'no' to this that and t'other and nor would I start that either.
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maz is only allowed to kiss other guys if she has made me dinner previously that day and all my ironing is already done.
rpm worryingly refers to the "is it prostitution" thread :happy:
This kissing thing in swinging had always been one i never understood, u csan suck my cock, you can lick my pussy, we can shag for hours but no kissing cause thats to intamate confused nope sorry don't get it!! oh unless your doing fem fem kissing cause that somehow makes it diffarent!!
Sure as with anything be it sex or kissing its the feelings you hold with ther person your doing it with that makes it intamate?? if theres a diffarence between shagging and making love why can;t that work for kissing too? am i making sence here? lol
personally i couldn;t have sex and enjoy it without a good old snog and tho i would never push other peoples rules etc i simple wouldn't meet anyone who had a no kissing rule, clinical sex just don't do it for me ;)
This kissing thing in swinging had always been one i never understood, u can suck my cock, you can lick my pussy, we can shag for hours but no kissing cause thats to intamate nope sorry don't get it!! oh unless your doing fem fem kissing cause that somehow makes it diffarent!!
Surely as with anything be it sex or kissing its the feelings you hold with ther person your doing it with that makes it intamate?? if theres a diffarence between shagging and making love why can't that work for kissing too? am i making sence here? lol
personally i couldn't have sex and enjoy it without a good old snog and tho i would never push other peoples rules etc i simple wouldn't meet anyone who had a no kissing rule, clinical sex just don't do it for me :shock:
Quote by naughtynymphos1
This kissing thing in swinging had always been one i never understood, u csan suck my cock, you can lick my pussy, we can shag for hours but no kissing cause thats to intamate confused nope sorry don't get it!! oh unless your doing fem fem kissing cause that somehow makes it diffarent!!
Sure as with anything be it sex or kissing its the feelings you hold with ther person your doing it with that makes it intamate?? if theres a diffarence between shagging and making love why can;t that work for kissing too? am i making sence here? lol
personally i couldn;t have sex and enjoy it without a good old snog and tho i would never push other peoples rules etc i simple wouldn't meet anyone who had a no kissing rule, clinical sex just don't do it for me ;)

Perfect .... :thumbup:
there's a echo in here!! lol
well glad someone understood me lol
I think I must be weird then 'cos i do thinking kissing is intimate and an important part of foreplay for me. However as i have only ever played as a single I don't suppose I can really comment. So I'll shut up now