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If your lady wants to kiss the other fella, how do you feel?
Sex God
and your issue with that polo??????
(this is Den by the way!!)
:giggle:
(this is Den by the way!!)
:giggle:
:rascal:Could that just be a badly chosen way of asking the question ?
I would hope it is.
In our case, it's certainly not a case of one of us allowing the other to do anything. Other than being themselves.
To put (or attempt to) restrictions on each other would be like having cakeybun, but not being able to lick the cream :shock:
I would hope it is.
In our case, it's certainly not a case of one of us allowing the other to do anything. Other than being themselves.
To put (or attempt to) restrictions on each other would be like having cakeybun, but not being able to lick the cream :shock:
Sex God
Quote by Tom29uk
Well true its up to both parties, I meant some people might see kissing as more intimate etc.
Well, why not start off by telling us what YOU think about this and then maybe you might get some more interesting answers
Sex God
I have no problem with my wife kissing other guys and certainly no problem with her kissing other gals ;-)
Its her choice .......There are no restrictions imposed in that sense.
We do have do's and dont's but they are discussed jointly and agreed upon beforehand.
Its her choice .......There are no restrictions imposed in that sense.
We do have do's and dont's but they are discussed jointly and agreed upon beforehand.
Sex God
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Well true its up to both parties, I meant some people might see kissing as more intimate etc.
Well, why not start off by telling us what YOU think about this and then maybe you might get some more interesting answers
aye well put 
:lol: Sex God
maz is only allowed to kiss other guys if she has made me dinner previously that day and all my ironing is already done.
Apart from that she can pretty much do as she pleases, i think its important we give the girls a little bit of equality.
Apart from that she can pretty much do as she pleases, i think its important we give the girls a little bit of equality.
Sex God
Quote by mazandden
maz is only allowed to kiss other guys if she has made me dinner previously that day and all my ironing is already done.
Apart from that she can pretty much do as she pleases, i think its important we give the girls a little bit of equality.
Ooooooooooooo quoted you so that she sees it!
Den's in bother!
To answer the question - yes he does 'allow' me to kiss single males, and we both 'allow' one another to kiss single females :twisted:
Although I think 'allow' is the wrong word.
Sex God
yes, allow is the wrong word.
i prefer permit.
i prefer permit.
Sex God
Quote by mazandden
yes, allow is the wrong word.
i prefer permit.
you're in so much shit when she sees this! Sex God
yeah, feeling a bit brave, quite possibly still drunk from last night!!!
might have to drop the laptop out the window now!!! have to be quick though, she has almost finished tidying up and making my breakfast!
might have to drop the laptop out the window now!!! have to be quick though, she has almost finished tidying up and making my breakfast!
Stop trolling if you have no interest in the topic. Bit pointless. I asked it as a serious question as I would like advice from people on here with more swinging experience then me thats all, dont want to offend but seems people are just mocking my thread and its a genuine question i hope anyway lol.
Sex God
Quote by Tom29uk
Stop trolling if you have no interest in the topic. Bit pointless.
:shock: :shock: :shock:
Ooh! Better look out mate . . . . . .
There's no clear cut answer Tom, everyone is different and has their own boundaries
some people have no issue with kissing, others have a 'no kissing' rule as part of their play boundaries as its considered too 'intimate' or an act chosen to be 'special' or reserved just for bewtween themselves
I know alot of people have said its their choice....but effectively its only a choice if both partners in a couple agree - so, if you're thinking of a MMF threesome and are not sure how comfy you are with her kissing the invited male , that's a boundary you discuss with her hun, not us, because every couple is different you'll get a mixed bag of answers and the only right one is the one YOU feel. Similarly, if you are the invited male and your couple dont do kissing, thats something you either respect & adhere to or move on from if kissing is an important part of play for you.
:dunno:
some people have no issue with kissing, others have a 'no kissing' rule as part of their play boundaries as its considered too 'intimate' or an act chosen to be 'special' or reserved just for bewtween themselves
I know alot of people have said its their choice....but effectively its only a choice if both partners in a couple agree - so, if you're thinking of a MMF threesome and are not sure how comfy you are with her kissing the invited male , that's a boundary you discuss with her hun, not us, because every couple is different you'll get a mixed bag of answers and the only right one is the one YOU feel. Similarly, if you are the invited male and your couple dont do kissing, thats something you either respect & adhere to or move on from if kissing is an important part of play for you.
:dunno:
Sex God
Quote by Tom29uk
Stop trolling if you have no interest in the topic. .
Who's trolling? :shock:
Sex God
Quote by Darkfire
so, you're ok and have no reservations about the whole threesome thing, its just kissing that's the wobbly issue?
and what does your gf say about it? (i dont want you to tell us, I want you to think about it)
Or he could ask her
Sexlightened
for us tom, neither have a problem with kissing but I have found that it differs with each guy. With some the kissing becomes an important part of the foreplay, and we both get something out of it, others, it just doesnt happen. Dont suppose that really helps much. Guess what im trying to say is if you have boundries thats great, but its all about individuality. Each encounter is so different!
Sex God
Well as far as I'm concerned, when we are playing, H can do whatever she wants, including dancing the can can, whilst humming the music with her bum :shock:
What she actually chooses to do is her choice, and is based upon how she feels at the time, and our rules about safe sex.
M
What she actually chooses to do is her choice, and is based upon how she feels at the time, and our rules about safe sex.
M
Sex God
Quote by MandH
Well as far as I'm concerned, when we are playing, H can do whatever she wants, including dancing the can can, whilst humming the music with her bum :shock:
Does she do requests?
