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Im a newbie and want some help

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Hi all, i need some help i have a few ads on here but no real response what am i doing wrong, i know rome wasnt built in a day, but they must have had some bricks down by the 1st week!!
Guys keep posting messages like this
and all ask the same question
Best tip is to read some of the other forum posts and reply to some, look at other ad's and see where u can improve yours
And believe me single guys aren't the only ones who don't get replies!
Relax, pull up a seat and show the people u r genuine - join in the banter and have a laugh
i am gen, and all i get is gay men trying it on! all i want is to meet nice ladies and couples for fun, not to much to ask is it???
Quote by MRG68
i am gen, and all i get is gay men trying it on! all i want is to meet nice ladies and couples for fun, not to much to ask is it???

It's not too much to ask no but u have to think that there are literally hundreds of guys on here looking for the same thing
The ones that do well are polite, well mannered, genuine, patient and happy to chat about anything (not just sex) will meet socially and never pressurise anyone
Plus they never act as though it is their right to find couples/females, they can handle rejection and have a great sense of humour. Take a look around, you'll find them on the forums having a laugh like the rest of us. another tip is never to sound as though u are desperate, most find this a turn off!
I agree with bunny. Get yourself known on here with a few witty posts. There are loads of single guys so good luck and don't give up!
Quote by MRG68
i am gen, and all i get is gay men trying it on! all i want is to meet nice ladies and couples for fun, not to much to ask is it???

It's not too much but it is quite a lot if it is a 'cold start' as it were. Warming up and getting to know people on here so they can see what sort of person you are is probably the best way. It also happens to be a lot of fun as well.
Stay and enjoy! Good luck. Nothing worthwhile will fall into your lap normally.
Nothing worthwhile will fall into your lap normally.

so what does it take for you to fall into someones lap rolleyes smile
assuming that is you are worth while wink
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Hi all, i need some help i have a few ads on here but no real response what am i doing wrong, i know rome wasnt built in a day, but they must have had some bricks down by the 1st week!!

No, as I recall, week 1 was spent levelling the plateau and starting work on the foundations...
Have you read the advice for single guys in the "Advice" column? Also, Marcuso/bi_curious_man123 posted some advice for singles in the Let's Meet Up forum just a couple of days ago.
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MRG68 Don't worry about the gay men. Just send them round to me and I'll keep them entertained while you get on with the real business,ok?
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Nothing worthwhile will fall into your lap normally.

so what does it take for you to fall into someones lap rolleyes smile
assuming that is you are worth while wink
A dose of fecking bad luck for the owner of the lap!!
Quote by westerross
Nothing worthwhile will fall into your lap normally.

so what does it take for you to fall into someones lap rolleyes smile
assuming that is you are worth while wink
A dose of fecking bad luck for the owner of the lap!!
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Quote by westerross
Nothing worthwhile will fall into your lap normally.

so what does it take for you to fall into someones lap rolleyes smile
assuming that is you are worth while wink
A dose of fecking bad luck for the owner of the lap!!
lol :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
grin an bare it m8 im havin to awell
cheers judy i'll bare that in mind wink