I know that most of you won't have actually noticed that i've even been away.....but I'm another that had been going through a crisis of identity and wasn't sure where I really belonged
However, having dipped my toes into vanilla waters for the last couple of months I kinda came to realise that the vanilla world is really not ready for me yet!!!! Think the last straw came when I said I was off to erotica for the weekend and I was asked "what's erotica?" When I tried to explain I was looked at with total :shock: .......mind this reaction was from people who think that Ann Summers should still have blacked out windows and be located down seedy alleyways
So.....I'm back and I look forward to getting to meet up with you all again.
ps. apologies sarge for not requesting a leave of absence before I went......feel free to meter out whichever punishment you think fit (oh spank me spank me!!!)
Now I'm off to change the avatar (where's the teccie help when you need it)