I'm curious, do women like virgins?

19 May 2004

Excellent question: I'm wondering too...

19 May 2004

In the context of Swinging.... no. confused

Swinging takes a certain amount of emotional and sexual confidence and maturity. It's not a fast track to losing one's cherry...
Having said that, I've been known to not be that fussy after a few sherbets! biggrin

19 May 2004

Quote by skanders
so u mean to tell me a woman does not want a man who has never been touched and is squeaky clean they would rather have some guy who has shagged and shagged and shagged and god knows how many diseases rather than someone who they could train up to their own specification lol.

Actually what most of us girls would like is a guy who has plenty of experience. That does not necessarily mean that he is full of disease, and implying that he is just because he has "shagged and shagged" is rather a juvenile attitude.
Anyone who is sensible will be clean and free of disease but still having loads of fun!
Whilst a lot of men may dream about taking the cherry from a virgin, I don't think women would feel the same. Certainly older women want someone who knows how to please them and that can only come with experience.
Be patient and your time will come.
Tracy-Jayne

19 May 2004

Oh sorry, When I saw the heading I I thought that the subject was Swedish sex films from the sixties.
Mike.

19 May 2004

I'm treating this as though it is a serious question, so I hope it is. (I've had a beer :cheers: )
We haven't been swinging long and have minimal experience, but, not for one second would I consider swinging with a virgin.
Virginity is something very special and precious, and while I love the lifestyle of swinging I would not recommend it as an entry into sexual activity. You have to be very secure in who you are and, how you are I think.
If, and I think it is a big IF, anyone did decide to take a virgin on, it would be because they met very specific requirements (it happens) and good luck to you.

20 May 2004

There's a difference between a swinging virgin, who has never done any group stuff before and a real virgin, who's done nothing or next to nothing. I've had experience with both and they are completely different experiences. If I'm arranging a group, whether it be a threesome or more, I do not consider newbies. Sorry to be blunt, but they're just too much hassle. They get nervous, they change their mind, they ruin the atmosphere - Nuff said. Now, the real virgin is a different matter :twisted: . In a 121 situation, there is a power thing about "taking" a virgin that you just can't get with experienced people.
BTW, that doesn't mean that I want loads of hopeful PMs from virgins, cos I don't, so don't chance it OK!

20 May 2004

There you go then - not everyone's as cowardly as me lol

MMMmmmm Blue in pink fishnets :twisted:

20 May 2004

Shhhhhhh, don't tell the virgins about my pink fishnets, it will get them far too excited far too quickly wink

:wink: :wink:

20 May 2004

Could it be that you are confusing the difference between swinging and sex? I can see that maybe a woman would want to try a virgin for just sex. I tried one once, it was no good, like blue said he was very nervous, didn't know what was what or where or how :!: For swinging that would be a nightmare! To swing successfully you've got to know what pleases you and the other person/s as well as other things, and a virgin just wouldn't be able to.

20 May 2004

Quote by bluexxx
Shhhhhhh, don't tell the virgins about my pink fishnets, it will get them far too excited far too quickly :wink: :wink:

Never mind not telling the bloody virgins........... :twisted: :twisted: !! smackbottom

Mal

20 May 2004

I agree with the posts above.
I know you're desperate to loose your "cherry" but it's much more fun on a 1-2-1 basis with someone you're emotionally attached to.
I'd be surprised if any of the swinging population would "take-on" a virgin, because they know that the young and inexperienced can confuse sex for love and that could cause some major problems.
TBH mate try a few of the personal ads for single women and date. You'll meet someone who'll care for you and share the experience on the emotional level as well as the physical.
Oh and don't bow to peer pressure, women like a man who knows his own mind and isn't a sheep (am I right ladies?) wink

20 May 2004

Quote by skanders
Hi everyone I have a ? do women not like virgins or something because the thing is ive been on this site for quite a while and have had no replies, i;m a nice guy, I have a good SOH very easy going, 23 y/o asian male, good looking well thats what the girls tell me, firm muscular athletic build and am yearning for a woman to train me up for her own use, do women not want someone fresh and untouched.
or am I gonna die one.

Of course they don't want virgins, unless they're control freaks. Women are rather perverse and cynical creatures. With a few rare exceptions they hold a man solely responsible for both his orgasm and theirs. They avoid criticism of their performance by providing no performance to criticise, lie there doing absolutely nothing then complain that HE was crap. Since a woman does not regard it as her responsibility to contribute anything to the proceedings, except her mere presence for which she expects you to be grovellingly grateful, it therefore follows that a man who knows what he's doing is essential since she herself is generally without a clue.
Hope This Helps. smile

20 May 2004

Of course, if there are any REAL virgins in my neck of the woods, as an act of social charity I'll see what I can do... biggrin

Doesn't this weather make you randy! :twisted:

20 May 2004

It certainly does, Heather...............
Blue wanders off to work wondering whether she can sneak off for a bit of fun today, but not holding out much hope sad

20 May 2004

Quote by bluexxx
Shhhhhhh, don't tell the virgins about my pink fishnets, it will get them far too excited far too quickly :wink: :wink:

erm........and quite possibly not just the virgins methinks!!! redface

oh....and blue........i apologise profusely! ;-) tho i don't think i can help today! :sad:
neil x x x x

20 May 2004

Quote by Ice Pie
Of course they don't want virgins, unless they're control freaks. Women are rather perverse and cynical creatures. With a few rare exceptions they hold a man solely responsible for both his orgasm and theirs. They avoid criticism of their performance by providing no performance to criticise, lie there doing absolutely nothing then complain that HE was crap. Since a woman does not regard it as her responsibility to contribute anything to the proceedings, except her mere presence for which she expects you to be grovellingly grateful, it therefore follows that a man who knows what he's doing is essential since she herself is generally without a clue.
Hope This Helps.

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I can see one get out clause for you in this Ice Pie lol

20 May 2004

I could personally never consider a virgin, in a swinging context or anything else. I would rather be taught than teach!!
BUT................ on the other hand, if you have a virgin, you can tailor him to act out your every fantasy in the perfect way!! evil

20 May 2004

with me being so sweet ,innocent and chaste i dont think i am in a position to teach a virgin anything!
seriously though, i am only attracted to older men and so by the time i get hold of them... they have usually managed to do the deed! rolleyes

if i did however some across a sexy, attractive, exciting, older man who happened to be a virgin i would.........................................
..............................................................................................................
................................wonder what the hell was wrong with him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! confused

20 May 2004

Quote by skanders
mmmm good points u ladies / gents made it helps a lot I think I will say goodbye to the swinging heaven website because judging from all the responses its a lost cause and theres no point wasting time.
the quest continues.
thanks. xxx

:banghead: :banghead:
Sounds like yet another person who thought they could just pop in here, have the business done within hours and leave rolleyes

20 May 2004

Well at laest he was polite rather than the usual "I've got 14" and I need a fuck" type.
wink

:lol:

21 May 2004

Quote by tim-jas

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
I can see one get out clause for you in this Ice Pie

I seem to have found it by accident, because I fully expected to get crucified for that. biggrin

Obviously the ladies realised that the exceptions I mentioned include all members of this community. ;)
Ice

21 May 2004

My advice would to be to go to a Bar/club/pub where there are " sexually adventurous" or "extremely sexually laid-back" women. If you portray yourself as confident and use whatever charm or attractive aspects of your personality on the ladies, then you are certain to score! Although make sure you don't drink too much and you may want to watch the film "There's something about Mary" for a couple of tips. smile

This might be a better idea than looking for a quick hump here because alcohol will be involved!
You might want to consider joining a dating site also!

21 May 2004

If there is such a place where loads of sexually adventurous and extremely sexually laid back women hang out, what the hell are we all doing here??????? Come on, let's go................. what are we waiting for???????? :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

21 May 2004

You know what I mean though people!! Most people know of a place be it a singles bar or a club where people go to let off steam and stuff happens regularly as a result of too much of the drinkiepoos. wink

Maybe I overstated my case, I meant where single ladies go to pick up guys for some fun!
redface

maybe I'll shut up now before I offend anybody else! surprised

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21 May 2004

Quote by Tkano
I meant where single ladies go to pick up guys for some fun!
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Tkano, you cannot just say that as if we all know what or where you mean.
Spill the beans man and let us all enjoy, I need to be picked up! and run with!! and the dirtier the better.
Gilbert

21 May 2004

Aw Tkano, don't keep us all in suspenders...... I have my ballet shoes on here and I'm ready to go out to the said bars and, er....socialise with all these loose women.... I just need the directions...... come on.......spill.............please! :twisted: wink

21 May 2004

Guys seeing as places are in London is there much point in telling you?
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Aha-ha-ha-haa-hha-ha-ha-ha-hee-hee-Cough-cough-Cough (I gotta do some exercise and lay off the pizzas)!

21 May 2004

London :shock:
Damn :doh:
Anyone know any bars in the NW where loads of loose women hang out...... pray tell! :twisted:

21 May 2004

Or pink / Blue /pink or whatever,
what if you keep the ballet shoes on ( is that with a toutou along with the pink fishnets?), and I motor upto the NW and steal you away and whisk you to Tkano's big smoke, maybe he would share his secrets with we plebs from the provinces.
You will bring your camera won't you?
Gilbert
( I can work an F stop but I am rusty, it has been many years )

21 May 2004

Methinks that Tkano would rather keep the loose women of London all to himself sad