Shar? Your link won't let me in. Am logged into , too.
BTW, I have that outfit, in your avatar... so does Marmalaid. Is a good-un, innit?
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Quote by naughtynymphos1
well all i can say is if her hubbies having a wank on the computer hes obviously not totally gone off sex and still has urges, makes u wonder if maybe hes on here looking for a bit on the side as well :giggle:
hey u never know u could end up meeting each other in a smokey pub one night
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: OOOOOOO be careful who you arrange meets with, he could be cheating on you too!
Bit of poetic justice if he was
Quote by anothersharron
i am happy with my relasionship i do love him more than the world its self we have a desabled boy together we are very happy the thing is he only likes sex once in a blue moon the other times he wanks on the computer i asked he why vhe dose this and he says its what he likes ok. we talk and talk about this we even went to chams a few times but this wasent for him either iv asked him if i can swing and for him to watch but he dont like that idea either iv tryed everything with him but nothing seems to work for him and all the time hes wanking im missing out i dont think thats fair, i dont want to break up with my partner and from me getting sex on here iv stop moaning at him for sex and the arguments have stopped he says hes addicted to wanking i dont understand this at all. liike i said we have talked till im blue in the face hes not happy if i get sex some where else but its ok for him to wank. anyway i didnt really want to go in to all this about my life but seem iv had no chose now you no why im here if iv upset people im sorry if you dont want to swing with me thats fine 2 everyone has there own rules in swinging and everyone is here for different resons but as i see it were all here for the sex.
i dont want to fall out with any of you i wanted to be friends with you all
thank you for your time of telling me what you think
i hope we all can be friends
PS sorry about the spelling
If you love him so very much,is it really worth risking loosing him over sex?
Sex God
All that proves is that you have an ad
Doesn't prove anything else.
Doesn't prove anything else.
Sex God
hello and welcome have fun 
maybe so but then again i dont need to prove anything to any of you if you dont like what you see or you dont like what im doing then igorne me all i did was introduce myself its you lot who seems to be judging me if you dont want to talk to me then leave me alone i havent judged non of you i just wanted to make friends not enemies
Sahron,
I really feal for you!!
First thing you need ot do is disregard all the crap thats been posted here (yes that probably includes what im about to write)
No one on here is going to understand where you are coming from unless they have been there and i am probably the nearest to having been in your situation. My h/b is not as interested in sex as i would like him to be. the difference is he knows i play away and is happy with he didnt i would probably still be here!! Ive known a number of men in the reverse situation (wife not interested) and you know what? the minute they get a bit on the side, they reduce the sexual pressure at home and their relationship with the wife improves!!
sometimes im convinced the wife senses what is going on behind her back and realises the benefit, so decides not to ask too many questions.
All marriages / relationships are different. The reply that said you should leave you h/b was in my opinion, the worst possible reply on this theread. A relationship , especially one involving a child, is the most precious thing their is and worth preserving, too often nowadays people put their own selfish needs abouve their families!!
So take no notice of what others who are single or in more open realtionships say do what you think is right, if they dont like it that is their problem, happen you wouldnt approve of all they do?
Finally dont apologise for your spelling, as far as i know this is still a swingers site not a spelling site!!
Good luck
xx
I really feal for you!!
First thing you need ot do is disregard all the crap thats been posted here (yes that probably includes what im about to write)
No one on here is going to understand where you are coming from unless they have been there and i am probably the nearest to having been in your situation. My h/b is not as interested in sex as i would like him to be. the difference is he knows i play away and is happy with he didnt i would probably still be here!! Ive known a number of men in the reverse situation (wife not interested) and you know what? the minute they get a bit on the side, they reduce the sexual pressure at home and their relationship with the wife improves!!
sometimes im convinced the wife senses what is going on behind her back and realises the benefit, so decides not to ask too many questions.
All marriages / relationships are different. The reply that said you should leave you h/b was in my opinion, the worst possible reply on this theread. A relationship , especially one involving a child, is the most precious thing their is and worth preserving, too often nowadays people put their own selfish needs abouve their families!!
So take no notice of what others who are single or in more open realtionships say do what you think is right, if they dont like it that is their problem, happen you wouldnt approve of all they do?
Finally dont apologise for your spelling, as far as i know this is still a swingers site not a spelling site!!
Good luck
xx
Sex God
You're right,you don't have to prove anything. However, you offered the ad as proof that you are real. It doesn't, it only proves that (whoever you are) you can write an ad. Why offer proof anyway, since you don't need to?
As far as I can see most people think that married and cheating, male or female, is not and should not be connected in any way with swinging.
Like it has been pointed out on more than one occasions that "swingers" are not often welcome on their sites, so why welcome them on swinging sites ?
Like I have said before and will say again if this had been a man ( and I still have my doupts) he would have been blown away within a few minites let alone 4 pages.
Strange don't you think that its mostly the "guys" that are condoning this ( married methinks)
I think when this has run its course I for one would love to know what ALL members think about this in some sort of poll ??? i.e Should we condone this or should we if it were to be prooved 100% that they were married and cheating, encourage them to look elsewhere ?
Like it has been pointed out on more than one occasions that "swingers" are not often welcome on their sites, so why welcome them on swinging sites ?
Like I have said before and will say again if this had been a man ( and I still have my doupts) he would have been blown away within a few minites let alone 4 pages.
Strange don't you think that its mostly the "guys" that are condoning this ( married methinks)
I think when this has run its course I for one would love to know what ALL members think about this in some sort of poll ??? i.e Should we condone this or should we if it were to be prooved 100% that they were married and cheating, encourage them to look elsewhere ?
Sex God
Pointless doing that Bi fem, the subject has really been done to death - any more and the members may come to blows 
I do see the point that some make; at least she's being honest with the members of the site and they can make up their own minds whether or not to meet/play with her. I'm also absolutely sure that she will get meets, probably more than the average male cheater.
However, the ones who get shot down quickest are the ones who come on here all defensive, asking why nobody will meet them because they are cheating and offering some reason to justify why they cheat.
I do see the point that some make; at least she's being honest with the members of the site and they can make up their own minds whether or not to meet/play with her. I'm also absolutely sure that she will get meets, probably more than the average male cheater.
However, the ones who get shot down quickest are the ones who come on here all defensive, asking why nobody will meet them because they are cheating and offering some reason to justify why they cheat.
Quote by Sexysteph
Believe me, sharron, saying you are a woman who loves sex and is looking for no strings fun is not going to upset many single men! Even couples have trouble finding the "elusive single bi-fem"......
Maybe so but many will still encourage her to be honest with her partner and maybe put herself in his place and think how he will feel when he finds out she is playing behind his back. Surely she should be looking at that relationship if she feels she needs to play away - it's still cheating when push comes to shove
Please think carefully before Playing Sharron is a rumble in the sack really worth risking your relationship with your partner?
Sorry to be so negative honey but I would be a hypocrite if I said anything else. Cheating is cheating no matter which sex does it and I reckon personally that one needs honesty in a relationship or there is no real relationship.
Best of luck whatever you decide
Steph
Spot on Steph, and
Sharon please take heed of this sound it out openly with him first, or it could be,( as 'Judy tv' has said before) pain all the way.Might even be a
for you. upfor_txt
Quote by freckledbird
Pointless doing that Bi fem, the subject has really been done to death - any more and the members may come to blows
Yeah sorry hun but this one really makes my blood boil having been on the sticky end myself and also knowing other friends of mine who have had this done to them.And for those of you who have not witnessed this, trust me, its NOT nice.
Sex God
Quote by BiFemHants
Pointless doing that Bi fem, the subject has really been done to death - any more and the members may come to blows
Yeah sorry hun but this one really makes my blood boil having been on the sticky end myself and also knowing other friends of mine who have had this done to them.And for those of you who have not witnessed this, trust me, its NOT nice.
Not been there myself but seen it happen many times.
Sex God
Quote by littlemee
I just don't think people should be judging others from a 4 or 5 line intro.
i would agree but how are we suppose to learn anything about anyone.....
so i have brought back the first into......
Quote by anothersharron
hi all im sharron (34) im bi and love sex i do have a partner but hes not in to sex so im here alone without his concent i hope i dont upset anyone on here as im going behind my partners back. im looking for single males or couples for no string fun im from north nottinghamshire area
as a first impression, which i do think is important, what does this tell you about a potential playing partner ???
i am not making a judgerment.... but i put in bold what may stand out for other people just so that a lot of people may have a better understanding.....
Sharon... welcome to the site by the way... i am not here to condem you but can i ask two questions and play devils advocate a little....
1) what would happen if hubby finds outs????
2) if the situation was reversed how would you feel at this point in time...
i am just asking the question... i am not going to cast a judgement but i do think the answer would be interesting......
hope you find what you are looking for....i know that life is full of risks.. and i hope for hubbys sake (the innocent party) that he doesn't find out..... i just hope that his pain is worth your pleasure.......
sean xxxxxxxxxxx
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Quote by anothersharron
hes not my hubby we dont live together hes my boyfriend. and he has as much sex as he wants from me 24/7 but he dont want he wont swing or he wont watch he just dont like sex and thats that
okay then... just swop the words "hubby" for" partner" and i will ask to two questions again....
sean xxxxxxxxxxx
Sex God
Quote by da69ve
Hello Sharon and welcome.....by the way just wanted to ask but do you have knickers on in your avatar its just that i got my magnifying glass out and it looks like your genitals are showing?
It does Dave.
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welcome sharron and no you wouldn't upset me either. I'm quite new to this too
Quote by anothersharron
im sick of all your rude coments about me i dont think i asked for this you people are horible and if you think its funny taking the piss out of me then carry on im not going to answer any more you are just pissing me off
IF YOU DONT LIKE WHAT YOU SEE DONT REPLY TO MY ADS
I'm not taking the piss.....genital shots in avatars are not allowed just didn't want you get in trouble!
But i'm glad to see you have now changed it!
Sex God
Quote by anothersharron
im sick of all your rude coments about me i dont think i asked for this you people are horible and if you think its funny taking the piss out of me then carry on im not going to answer any more you are just pissing me off
IF YOU DONT LIKE WHAT YOU SEE DONT REPLY TO MY ADS
The reason Dave asked about your avatar is probably to give you a chance to move it if is your genitals. If it is, the mods will delete it anayway because it's against the AUP.
Who's taking the piss?
If people don't like what they see, they won't reply to your ads anyway. What some people are saying is that not everyone will meet/play with cheats. Other people are being supportive of you. Why don't you shout your thanks to them also?
Quote by anothersharron
hes not my hubby we dont live together hes my boyfriend. and he has as much sex as he wants from me 24/7 but he dont want he wont swing or he wont watch he just dont like sex and thats that
Dont listen to them, they havnt been there!!
I dont remember you asking for anyones opinon or for their permission, so dont seek it.
Ask yourself if, h/b had decided thata he was on a diet and was onlygoing to eat grapefruit and oranges would you be expected to do so too? I doubt it
you only have one life and you a right to enjoy it!!
I WOULD LIKE TO THANK THE PEOPLE WHO HAVE NOT JUDGED ME
AND FOR THE PEOPLE WHO HAVENT GIVEN ME A CHANCE THEN THATS YOUR LOSS
I NEVER ASKED FOR THIS
I WONT REPLY TO THIS TOPIC ANY MORE ITS BORING ME
MAYBE WE WILL MEET MAYBE WE WONT
IN ANY CASE I HOPE YOU ALL HAVE FUN TAKE CARE AND ENJOY LIFE
:cheers:
Sex God
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