Well, I haven’t really done a lot of ‘lurking’, because I don’t normally visit the Café, but it’s about time I did visit more often!
Let me intro myself. I’m in the ‘older group’ of members, and have enormous difficulties in my personal life (say no more about that). Bi- name, bi- nature! Joined this wonderful site last year, and have met some super people, and one very special lady indeed (xxx) In fact ‘tis she who has encouraged me to join the discussions. I seek permanent friendships with stable couples rather than ‘quick visits’ and particularly enjoy relations with both parties (I’m bi-, see?!!!). Despite the above I’m relatively inexperienced, so be gentle with me. In return, I’ll try not to be crass or insensitive (but I’m not sure about the ‘being stupid’!)
I’m often out of the country for long spells, so I won’t have just disappeared. Like MacArthur “I shall returnâ€.
Oh, by the way, this is the only site I belong to; the only site I’ve ever needed to belong to. As I said, it’s a wonderful site.
Hope to eventually get to know you all - you come across as a great bunch. xxx