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Impulse swing / play through SH... have you ?

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Just wondering how many people have actually chatted briefly online or seen an add, been feeling in the mood and thought sod it and invited a single or a couple around to there home without having actually met them in the flesh previously. You know, sort of on impulse and without planning. I imagine theres more couples done it on a night out. Just felt horny and took some lucky chap, lady or couple home. But I'm more thinking on an SH level.
It's not something we are actually planning but this question popped into my head as theres times when we all probably feel really in the mood for playing and think it would be nice to have someone else here right now or within the next hour but are obviously not in the environment for that to happen.
Also even if it was on impulse would a criteria other than the usual hygiene etc have been met. For example a regular well known poster on the forums or a well known member from the chat rooms.
I don't know if this has been asked before so appologies if it has but can't find anything on it.
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Yes.
Can't think of any specific examples, too long ago. But there are always criteria to be met, even acting on impulse. I always expect there to be a pulse, for example.
Yes.
Saw an advert in LMU late one Sunday evening, something intrigued me enough to check profile - liked what I read and saw of the photos - agreed to meet the following afternoon.
It was fun.
We did oonce though that was more opportunity i guess. We'd been talking to a couple quite often in chat, though never any hint towards playing when one afternoon they said "come round tonight" so we did and it was so cool to.
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Just wondering how many people have actually chatted briefly online or seen an add, been feeling in the mood and thought sod it and invited a single or a couple around to there home without having actually met them in the flesh previously.

Not often but I did have a spontaneous moment recently, I'm usually one for getting to know people but I was away for work and a hotel room stay that doesn't involve sex is such a waste lol It worked out really well!
Also even if it was on impulse would a criteria other than the usual hygiene etc have been met. For example a regular well known poster on the forums or a well known member from the chat rooms.

Yes, there was still a criteria, I needed to feel enough attraction to the profile to contact them in the first place when they popped up on my search! I'd seen a few posts from the person concerned in an area of the forum I use and I knew that they were known to someone I know well, so I was comfortable setting something up although we'd not really talked much before I pmd him biggrin
When we were into outdoor meet ups we were sat on the chatroom and got a mail through from a guy local(ish) asking if we knew any good dogging location etc.
We replied and he sent a mail back very politely thanking us and wishing us all the best etc and thanks for our time, so we checked out his profile and he seemed quite a level headed sounding type so we contacted him again, arranged to meet that evening and had a really good, short but exciting little outdoors roleplay based encounter!!
Think the excitement of it being arranged very quickly was a bit of a turn on!
i do it all the time and only once has it ever backfired on me and he has been a bit of a nutter
it tends to be the way i play these days, am so busy, i happen to be in chat room and think fuck it i am horny and someone gets invited
Just thinking about this, and actually I don't generally meet people beforehand anyway. We might chat a fair bit but I very rarely organise a 'get to know you' meet first.