How do couples arrive at the swinging scene? I'm sure there are various situations that occur but when do these develop? I've met a few couples and always wondered how their interests combine to having sex with others, who brought up the subject first, how was it suggested??
I'm also interested as to how couples are able to watch their partner having sex with another person without any jealousy. This would suggest that the relationship is rather one of convenience, but most if not all of the couples I've met seem to have the most loving and trusting relationships of all. It would be intriguing to hear your experiences.
In the beginning!!!!
Go on I will answer you 
It came about because of a misheard comment.... Steve said something that I misheard and I replied with somethign that implied I would like to have another pair of hands
The rest is history as they say...
Easy answer is trust.... I trust Steve completely and he does me too..... I love to see/hear about him having sex with other women.... I know how much he pleasures me and find the thought of another woman recieving the same pleasure very exciting
I imagine he finds it the same way too....
HTH
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How do couples arrive at the swinging scene? I'm sure there are various situations that occur but when do these develop? I've meet a few couples and always wondered how their interests combine to having sex with others, who brought up the subject first, how was it suggested??
It came about because of a misheard comment.... Steve said something that I misheard and I replied with somethign that implied I would like to have another pair of hands
The rest is history as they say...I'm also interested as to how couples are able to watch their partner having sex with another person without any jealousy. This would suggest that the relationship is rather one of convenience, but most if not all of the couples I've met seem to have the most loving and trusting relationships of all. It would be intriguing to hear your experiences.
Easy answer is trust.... I trust Steve completely and he does me too..... I love to see/hear about him having sex with other women.... I know how much he pleasures me and find the thought of another woman recieving the same pleasure very exciting
I imagine he finds it the same way too....HTH
Quote by Scott_bolton
How do couples arrive at the swinging scene? I'm sure there are various situations that occur but when do these develop? I've met a few couples and always wondered how their interests combine to having sex with others, who brought up the subject first, how was it suggested??
I'm also interested as to how couples are able to watch their partner having sex with another person without any jealousy. This would suggest that the relationship is rather one of convenience, but most if not all of the couples I've met seem to have the most loving and trusting relationships of all. It would be intriguing to hear your experiences.
You tell us about how you got into it all first then we will tell you
Shaz x
Sex God
there's no jealousy involved because the experience is a shared one. it might look like you're letting someone have sex with your partner, but in your head, you're still having sex with eachother. the fact you're letting someone else getting involved doesn't change that? and . . . . you know afterwards you're going home with eachother and you're gonna shag eachother silly!
neil x x x ;)
neil x x x ;)
Me and my ex had got to a stale stage in our sex life and we agreed to make a list of all the things we'd wanted to try but hadn't got around to. On my list was to have sex with another woman, which turned him on a great deal. Needless to say, we never got around to putting it into practice so when we split last year, I decided to act out my fantasy......and I'm still here :twisted:
Sex God
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. . . . you know afterwards you're going home with eachother and you're gonna shag eachother silly!
neil x x x ;)
But how does that work with Gem, she's way past silly already :silly: :giggle:
Sex God
Quote by meat2pleaseu
. . . . you know afterwards you're going home with eachother and you're gonna shag eachother silly!
neil x x x ;)
But how does that work with Gem, she's way past silly already :silly: :giggle:
oh meaty you never learn do you? you're in sooooo much trouble!
*sorry shake of head*
*gets straight on phone and directs gem to this thread :P*
neil x x x ;)
Sex God
she's no problem, i'll just do my cheeky smile and give her a kiss
Quote by neilinleeds
. . . . you know afterwards you're going home with eachother and you're gonna shag eachother silly!
neil x x x ;)
But how does that work with Gem, she's way past silly already :silly: :giggle:
oh meaty you never learn do you? you're in sooooo much trouble!
*sorry shake of head*
*gets straight on phone and directs gem to this thread :P*
neil x x x ;)
bobody likes a grass.......
Sex God
He's still annoyed with me for the 'Elbow' incident :giggle:
Sex God
i'm more annoyed at our mutual friend meaty. she's a proper little grass she is! we went for tea on friday with a couple we ain't seen since the mids and even they'd bloody heard about the elbow incident! :shock: can't get away with nowt can i? 
anyways, stop hijacking this thread you! :P
neil x x x ;)
anyways, stop hijacking this thread you! :P
neil x x x ;)
Sex God
ELBOW!
hear what your saying.........we are deffo not a relationship of convienence.......our outlook is that life is short enough as it is.....we want to experience as much as we can together......i think......and please you lot correct me if im wrong.!.............if a couple swings then it either makes them stronger.....or destroys the relationship.....if thetrust isnt there then swinging will deffo highlight it lol
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How do couples arrive at the swinging scene? I'm sure there are various situations that occur but when do these develop? I've met a few couples and always wondered how their interests combine to having sex with others, who brought up the subject first, how was it suggested??
I'm also interested as to how couples are able to watch their partner having sex with another person without any jealousy. This would suggest that the relationship is rather one of convenience, but most if not all of the couples I've met seem to have the most loving and trusting relationships of all. It would be intriguing to hear your experiences.
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