Hi there I recently became a full member on this site and I've noticed a lot of couples on here only seem to be looking for single fems or bi fems so I was wondering is this down to the men on here being insecure about their partner or are their partners just trying to please their men?
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Quote by r4jane
It's the male fantasy. In reality most of them wouldn't cope with two women. There minds are bigger than thier bellies...or some other word that rhymes with socks........lol
I think that is quite assumptive and insulting.
if you are using the word 'cope' to mean 'satisfy' then I personally know you are inaccurate. If you mean mentally/emotionally 'cope' then again I know that is inaccurate. Women are no more or less able to 'cope' with their partners having intimacy then men.
'Coping' is not a gender issue and to imply it is is neither amusing or accurate.
Quote by splendid_
It's the male fantasy. In reality most of them wouldn't cope with two women. There minds are bigger than thier bellies...or some other word that rhymes with socks........lol
I think that is quite assumptive and insulting.
if you are using the word 'cope' to mean 'satisfy' then I personally know you are inaccurate. If you mean mentally/emotionally 'cope' then again I know that is inaccurate. Women are no more or less able to 'cope' with their partners having intimacy then men.
'Coping' is not a gender issue and to imply it is is neither amusing or accurate.
I think what he was trying to say is that women in general will wear most men out before they are wornout.
If that is what he did mean then a bit harsh.
Quote by r4jane
It's the male fantasy. In reality most of them wouldn't cope with two women. There minds are bigger than thier bellies...or some other word that rhymes with socks........lol
There are quite a few males for whom the 'fantasy' is just the norm...
Whats more I am very glad & extremely proud that my mind is bigger than my belly!
It is after all my biggest & best sexual organ!
Quote by redpantherman
It's the male fantasy. In reality most of them wouldn't cope with two women. There minds are bigger than thier bellies...or some other word that rhymes with socks........lol
There are quite a few males for whom the 'fantasy' is just the norm...
Whats more I am very glad & extremely proud that my mind is bigger than my belly!
It is after all my biggest & best sexual organ!
and, is it as cute as that ass?
Quote by splendid_
It's the male fantasy. In reality most of them wouldn't cope with two women. There minds are bigger than thier bellies...or some other word that rhymes with socks........lol
There are quite a few males for whom the 'fantasy' is just the norm...
Whats more I am very glad & extremely proud that my mind is bigger than my belly!
It is after all my biggest & best sexual organ!
and, is it as cute as that ass?
When I take my head from out of it I will pm you!
:giggle:
I've been here a while and have met some nice people, I have also wasted my time on a number of fantasists and Walter Mitty types. Thing is Swinging Heaven has been around a long time and has a lot of members. If you take a chance on someone and nothing happens what have you lost? One thing is sure, if you don't take a chance on anyone nothing will happen. You have probably got a point when you mention the insecurity issue with a lot of the guys who are registered as part of couples, they could be afraid of being cuckolded. Another thing to bear in mind is that some are just single blokes pretending to have a female partner to get more invites.
I have yet to find a better swinger site than this, so my advice is just stick with it. And be lucky!
I have yet to find a better swinger site than this, so my advice is just stick with it. And be lucky!
Hi!
I can't say that I have noticed loads of couples ONLY looking for single ladies - I think that most of us are looking for other couples and also single ladies (not necessarily at the same time, although......)
We have had the pleasure of meeting a couple of single ladies and it was wonderful. Steve doesn't have a problem at all with another guy giving me fantastic pleasure - he is secure in the knowledge that he is a very good lover.
I would imagine that some men are insecure but his missus could always run off with/have an affair/ get better sex with another girl - doesn't have to be a bloke?
I can't say that I have noticed loads of couples ONLY looking for single ladies - I think that most of us are looking for other couples and also single ladies (not necessarily at the same time, although......)
We have had the pleasure of meeting a couple of single ladies and it was wonderful. Steve doesn't have a problem at all with another guy giving me fantastic pleasure - he is secure in the knowledge that he is a very good lover.
I would imagine that some men are insecure but his missus could always run off with/have an affair/ get better sex with another girl - doesn't have to be a bloke?
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perhaps looking for another fem is part of her fantasy just as much as it is of his
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Hi R4jane
I'm Bi and don't want sex with another man and Hubby isn't bi so sort of limit's our choice to the ladies really. We both have a good sense of humour and I can definitely confirm that his mind is not bigger than his sock
Aww alright he gets a little sleepy afterwards :yawn:
I'm Bi and don't want sex with another man and Hubby isn't bi so sort of limit's our choice to the ladies really. We both have a good sense of humour and I can definitely confirm that his mind is not bigger than his sock
Aww alright he gets a little sleepy afterwards :yawn:
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Quote by benrums0n
It is a broad church and you get all sorts.
Just the way I lik it!!!!!!
It's a church?????? I wondered about the guy who turned up to a meet in a dog-collar. :giggle:
There's a thought - fantasy meet - RPM in a cassock etc and a slow strip to Jerusalem.
:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D 
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Quote by redpantherman
There's a thought - fantasy meet - RPM in a cassock etc and a slow strip to Jerusalem.
Beware of what I pop into your mouth at Communion my child! :twisted:
whatever it is, it'll probably taste like sugar puffs :mrgreen:
Quote by r4jane
oops...stumbled into the sense of humour bypass room....lol.....get a life people.
what makes you say that - it was a legitimate question - why comment if you have nothing to contribute - and.............. we;ve been out having fun - you;ve been here making inane comments - nuff said?
Quote by meat2pleaseu
There's a thought - fantasy meet - RPM in a cassock etc and a slow strip to Jerusalem.
Beware of what I pop into your mouth at Communion my child! :twisted:
whatever it is, it'll probably taste like sugar puffs :mrgreen:
Oi you!!! :sparring:
It's a delicate combo of chocolate salty balls & sugar puffs that's taken years of perfecting to standards that even Yoda & the Jedi High Council wouldn't have the balls to undertake!
So hell yeah... the junk in ma trunk shud taste good!
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I think that in some circumstances that a Man/woman couple may just be seeking a single fem and that is possibly because the male of the couple maybe concerned that adding another male into play may leave him with the worry that he may end up or thinkhe may be the less skilled lover. Whereas having another fem involved is less intimidating Yes a fem might be more skilled but they dont come with an integral cock and that does make a diffence to the mind set And to be honest I also do think there are some who blokes push their fem partners into bi sex play.
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Hello Kenty :smoke:
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Quote by redpantherman
... the junk in ma trunk shud taste good!
has anyone ever told you you're a classy bloke? :lol:
Quote by Seventysix
Hi there I recently became a full member on this site and I've noticed a lot of couples on here only seem to be looking for single fems or bi fems so I was wondering is this down to the men on here being insecure about their partner or are their partners just trying to please their men?
Both myself and my partner have profiles on here a cpls and i have mine which i already had, my partner is not insecure at all we choose not to advertise for single males as there are plenty on here where as single fems are like gold dust.
Hi all thanks for the response, I don't really see single woman on here as gold dust as since I became a full member I've already met 3, single bifems maybe and wot I have noticed in the chatrooms is a lot of woman who have partners will talk to u more when their partners are not with them, I have even had an offer to meet a married woman off this site who's partner doesn't let her play by herself sop she has to do it on the sneak
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Quote by Jayz1980
Hi there I recently became a full member on this site and I've noticed a lot of couples on here only seem to be looking for single fems or bi fems so I was wondering is this down to the men on here being insecure about their partner or are their partners just trying to please their men?
Both myself and my partner have profiles on here a cpls and i have mine which i already had, my partner is not insecure at all we choose not to advertise for single males as there are plenty on here where as single fems are like gold dust.
Hi all thanks for the response, I don't really see single woman on here as gold dust as since I became a full member I've already met 3, single bifems maybe and wot I have noticed in the chatrooms is a lot of woman who have partners will talk to u more when their partners are not with them, I have even had an offer to meet a married woman off this site who's partner doesn't let her play by herself sop she has to do it on the sneak
Feeding straight into the minds of insecure male spouses
I've been on here nearly 5 years and haven't met ne'er a one . Jayz yer going to have to give me lessons mate.
My grasp of the psychological feint does not match your mastery.
Not only are you exploiting the insecure male but your f***ing with his head too.. I note that your profile says your also looking for single males ...now thats awesome as a straight guy yourself.
My grasp of the psychological feint does not match your mastery.
Not only are you exploiting the insecure male but your f***ing with his head too.. I note that your profile says your also looking for single males ...now thats awesome as a straight guy yourself.
Over analysis is a real turn off isnt it.
Hey its this simple.
In our case, I like to watch my other half with other women. Yeh the female is the one who likes to watch in the corner.......ok well not in the corner but you get the idea.
I have no desire to have another male sexually as I have everything I need in my relationship already.
Yes we have been successful on a number of occasions and no, not telling you the details, since we dont kiss and tell.
Mistress_39
Hey its this simple.
In our case, I like to watch my other half with other women. Yeh the female is the one who likes to watch in the corner.......ok well not in the corner but you get the idea.
I have no desire to have another male sexually as I have everything I need in my relationship already.
Yes we have been successful on a number of occasions and no, not telling you the details, since we dont kiss and tell.
Mistress_39
