Hi there, everyone.
Just thought I'd introduce myself as I only joined a few days ago and have been plucking up the courage to 'jump in'.
Well....I'm male, 35, work in IT, 5'10", average build, tanned skin, dark piercing eyes.
Married with two children. Married for 10 years, but just recently starting to feel the 7-year itch (happening late for me....lol...)
Love my wife, and am generally happy with my marriage ....but....it's getting a little boring. Have tried all sorts of ways to make it more exciting, but have spent most of my marriage coming to terms with the fact that she has a low sex-drive :-( Until recently, I thought I could get by, but now I'm wondering what I'm missing out on....
Have only ever been with her, so have no experience of anything else. However, I love all forms of erotica and enjoy talking about, reading, listening and watching porn and erotica. With regards to sex, I adore foreplay and believe it is far too under-rated (mainly by men. I could probably go without intercourse so long as there was plenty of foreplay. I love cuddling, touching, stroking and kissing all over as I explore a woman's body. Of course, I pay particular attention to certain 'specific areas'...... Indeed I could happily spend many hours snuggled down between a lady's legs.... :-)
Outside the sexual arena, I have a very active life and have a huge number of interests. I play sport, play instruments, fly, parachute, race cars etc. etc. My aim in life is to try EVERYTHING at least once (more if I enjoy it!) So in general, my life is a full and happy one. I have a good job, which, although often boring, enables me to travel around the country and also to other countries - mainly America, France and Belgium.
So......what do I want here? I'm not sure yet! Firstly, and mainly, a forum to chat with like-minded people. After that, who knows? Would I be tempted to 'sample the goods'..? I don't know (especially as I'm very shy). I'm intrigued by the sound of some of the clubs (especially Chameleons), but I don't fancy going there and just end up being one of the 'single blokes' hanging around. Perhaps I may pluck up the courage one day.
Anyway....please reply and say hello! I look forward to hearing from the regulars on here. Hopefully I can become a regular myself in time, and get to know many of you as friends.
Bye for now.
Don
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Introducing Myself....
Don,
Welcome sir, reading your intro large parts of it sounded exactly like myself, so don’t feel lonely out there. I am a newbee here myself, but the people I have met so far are great, real, and excellent to chat to. There is no pressure here, just a great place to be yourself...
So pull up a chair and enjoy the conversation.
TnH
Welcome sir, reading your intro large parts of it sounded exactly like myself, so don’t feel lonely out there. I am a newbee here myself, but the people I have met so far are great, real, and excellent to chat to. There is no pressure here, just a great place to be yourself...
So pull up a chair and enjoy the conversation.
TnH
Hello Don - and welcome to SH!
Despite recent events which have provoked some reticence on the part of regulars here, you'll find us friendly and willing to accept a new and articulate member with open arms. I can only suggest that you allow us to get to know you as you get to know us, and you have certainly made a most excellent beginning in that direction.
Therefore, have fun in the forum!
Sappho xxx
Despite recent events which have provoked some reticence on the part of regulars here, you'll find us friendly and willing to accept a new and articulate member with open arms. I can only suggest that you allow us to get to know you as you get to know us, and you have certainly made a most excellent beginning in that direction.
Therefore, have fun in the forum!
Sappho xxx
Sex God
Hi Don... welcome 
BTW, you're not a journalist trying the "nice guy" tactic are you? Only kidding - we do that a lot here
:wink: :wink:
BTW, you're not a journalist trying the "nice guy" tactic are you? Only kidding - we do that a lot here
:wink: :wink: Hi there. Thanks for all the replies and welcoming words.
I appreciate being called a 'nice guy' but hope that doesn't make me sound boring.....
Am certainly not a journo (but then again, I guess that's what THEY say too!)
If any of the regulars ever fancies a chat, please feel free to contact me on Messenger or ICQ. Hopefully as we get to know each other better, you'll understand that I'm just a genuine, friendly, bored (but not boring!) guy, looking for some fun out of life.
(However, I do understand the current concern about journalists etc. posing).
I appreciate being called a 'nice guy' but hope that doesn't make me sound boring.....
Am certainly not a journo (but then again, I guess that's what THEY say too!)
If any of the regulars ever fancies a chat, please feel free to contact me on Messenger or ICQ. Hopefully as we get to know each other better, you'll understand that I'm just a genuine, friendly, bored (but not boring!) guy, looking for some fun out of life.
(However, I do understand the current concern about journalists etc. posing).
hey there, just wanted to say hi etc. gad to know there are some other genuine single males out there other than myself (ok, i know you're married, but for the purpose of this site you're sngle..right??) i've not been here long myself, but have already made some good friends and you'll find that everyone on here looks out for one another (that's what i've found anyway!!)
anyways, i'm sorry if i've rambled, but as i've explained in my other posts, i've had a few tonight!!
speal soon..
anyways, i'm sorry if i've rambled, but as i've explained in my other posts, i've had a few tonight!!
speal soon..
Sex God
Hi Don,
Not in the Mafia are you
(Don - geddit ??, well, I thought it was funny anyway ;) )
Welcome to the forum
- whereabouts are you ??
Jon
Not in the Mafia are you
(Don - geddit ??, well, I thought it was funny anyway ;) )Welcome to the forum
- whereabouts are you ??Jon
Great first post - I know how nervous I was when writing mine ! Took a few goes, I can tell you !
Hope that when you work out what you're after at SH that you find it here !
Just hope you realise you'll be spending a lot of time in the Cafe - you may not realise it yet but once this place snares you it's almost impossible to get free ! :twisted:
Have fun and enjoy your time here
Carpathian
Hope that when you work out what you're after at SH that you find it here !
Just hope you realise you'll be spending a lot of time in the Cafe - you may not realise it yet but once this place snares you it's almost impossible to get free ! :twisted:
Have fun and enjoy your time here
Carpathian
Sex God
.......and a very warm welcome from me too.
Have fun and I look forward to reading further posts from you in future.
Will
Have fun and I look forward to reading further posts from you in future.
Will
Hi Don
I was reading your post......and SO identified with all of it! Well the emotional bits as I don't play instruments or jump from planes etc.....but everything else.....so true my man, so true.
I'm sure you'll be welcomed by so many....as was I when I 'delurked' ....fab people.
I may not surf and join in as much as some but each time am made to feel welcome as I'm sure will you!
God I love this place.....and more importantly the people!
I was reading your post......and SO identified with all of it! Well the emotional bits as I don't play instruments or jump from planes etc.....but everything else.....so true my man, so true.
I'm sure you'll be welcomed by so many....as was I when I 'delurked' ....fab people.
I may not surf and join in as much as some but each time am made to feel welcome as I'm sure will you!
God I love this place.....and more importantly the people!
Wow. What a welcome.....
I 'almost' feel like one of the gang already. And I've even received my first (metaphorical) frisking already. Wey-hey... :-)
Well...I'm looking forward to some more chats soon.
I'm planning to be on-line this (Sunday) evening around 8 or 9 onwards. If anyone wants to drop by and given me a call, I'd love to hear from you. Am still treading carefully, so not sure how much or little to say. If any of you more seasoned forum posters would care to take me by the hand I'd appreciate some guidance.
I've also received some PMs already. Feels great to receive some personal replies and welcomes as well as the public ones on the forum. Thanks to them - you know who you are....
Speak soon :-)
Don
I 'almost' feel like one of the gang already. And I've even received my first (metaphorical) frisking already. Wey-hey... :-)
Well...I'm looking forward to some more chats soon.
I'm planning to be on-line this (Sunday) evening around 8 or 9 onwards. If anyone wants to drop by and given me a call, I'd love to hear from you. Am still treading carefully, so not sure how much or little to say. If any of you more seasoned forum posters would care to take me by the hand I'd appreciate some guidance.
I've also received some PMs already. Feels great to receive some personal replies and welcomes as well as the public ones on the forum. Thanks to them - you know who you are....
Speak soon :-)
Don
Orgasminator
Don,
I never made a 1st post so to speak because I didn't know what to say so i just answered some of the other posts.
It looks like we (or at least I) could do with some tuition from you.
I never made a 1st post so to speak because I didn't know what to say so i just answered some of the other posts.
It looks like we (or at least I) could do with some tuition from you.
Quote by don9999
Wow. What a welcome.....
I 'almost' feel like one of the gang already. And I've even received my first (metaphorical) frisking already. Wey-hey... :-)
Don - the frisk was from the Sarge so dont go getting too excited!
I wont be around this evening to chat (sob, sob) - but hope to chat soon!
Big Hugs,
Alex x x
Sex God
:shock:
Hmmm, that's a thought. I don't think I ever made an introductory post either, so here goes:
Hi all
I'm Blue, 32 year old female (allegedly), looking for horny bi guys, gals, couples or groups for kinky fun preferably outdoors in the NW or at clubs. I have a liking for smooth slim men in stockings and sussies, and...oh bollocks, it's hard this intro stuff.... I know why I didn't introduce myself now
Hmmm, that's a thought. I don't think I ever made an introductory post either, so here goes:
Hi all
I'm Blue, 32 year old female (allegedly), looking for horny bi guys, gals, couples or groups for kinky fun preferably outdoors in the NW or at clubs. I have a liking for smooth slim men in stockings and sussies, and...oh bollocks, it's hard this intro stuff.... I know why I didn't introduce myself now
Well I'm here. Er...what do I do now......er......
I'll take a stroll over to the chat room, but things move a little to fast for me in there. Am I getting old.......?
What's the saying, "you're only as young as the person you feel"? Well the only person I've been feeling (if you don't cound onesefl...ahem...) is wifey, and at least she's a few years younger than me. However, I'd love to feel 25 again......
Any offers....? Joke! Then again.....
Anyway, I'll lurk in the background in the chatroom, if you're there, please PM me with a hello. Just to make me feel less alone.....
Don
I'll take a stroll over to the chat room, but things move a little to fast for me in there. Am I getting old.......?
What's the saying, "you're only as young as the person you feel"? Well the only person I've been feeling (if you don't cound onesefl...ahem...) is wifey, and at least she's a few years younger than me. However, I'd love to feel 25 again......
Any offers....? Joke! Then again.....
Anyway, I'll lurk in the background in the chatroom, if you're there, please PM me with a hello. Just to make me feel less alone.....
Don
