Been around many forums, but this one is very different. I kind of am not one of these 'hello, Im a newbie' types...so sorry if I seem in ya face!
I read earlier about the colly types who pop up on here, and the reporter types I would just like to say...not me, but time will show.
As an idividual, and not a clone I am not single, not a swinger, and not chasing. I am pleased to find adult, open chat, where it is ok to swear, use grown up chat, flirt like shit, be a bit mysique and at home in comfort and warm. Those days long gone now, and I just wanted to say a bit. Not really open enough for some, but that is me. I did contemplate NOT doing the intro bit, but thought their were enough adults about to appreciate that whilst the majority are here for adult sexual fun, it was not a rule that had to be obeyed in the order of having to screw about with those on here because you were on the site...? I dont pander to anyone, and will always try to be me, but accept that I am very pleased to find that little bit of sexy, funny, serious, and yet dead warm life within this cold, plastic uncaring world. If it seems to offend that a none swinging person comes on for a chat, then unless I receive loads of bad mail, uncooth comments and generally made to feel at ill with my presence, I will TRY to make myself at home...
I hope that helps the few who read some of my initail posts and offers a bit of an insight to me, and that it says a bit more than the thoughts of here is another possible...?
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Hi and :welcome: albeit belatedly
There is absolutely no need to swing, you'll find lots of us on here are here for the same reasons you quoted, it's an adult board and so we act like adults do .. .and I personally find it refreshing to be on a board that is so open and accepting.
:waves:
Calista xx
There is absolutely no need to swing, you'll find lots of us on here are here for the same reasons you quoted, it's an adult board and so we act like adults do .. .and I personally find it refreshing to be on a board that is so open and accepting.
:waves:
Calista xx
Thans...
It is just, well different from the norm, but thought I would say a bit to break the ice so to speak. breezing in is somethime seen as a bit too bold, but I cant just sit back and be all proper...never been that bad since childhood.
It is also nice to be able to talk openly abou things you sort of dont get the chance to air most days, and often really would like to discuss!
It is just, well different from the norm, but thought I would say a bit to break the ice so to speak. breezing in is somethime seen as a bit too bold, but I cant just sit back and be all proper...never been that bad since childhood.
It is also nice to be able to talk openly abou things you sort of dont get the chance to air most days, and often really would like to discuss!
I dont think you have to swing to enjoy The Cafe musicwasmyfirstlove, all you need is a sense of humour 
Welcome and have fun
Shireen
xxx
Welcome and have fun
Shireen
xxx
Orgasminator
Hey music, swinging is not a must on here, your contribution makes SH what a wide and varied place it is.
Enjoy and have loadsa fun
Matt
Enjoy and have loadsa fun
Matt
MWMFL - Great post!
I said hi in your music thread a couple of days ago.
You are so right about this forum.
I too am not a swinger - but I love my friends on here and I love to flirt too.
The topics are so varied from deeply serious and heartsearching to complete lunacy!
As you have said there is a true warmth to many of the members. You will also see that people are very willing to rally round when they see comeone is sad or hurting.
It is a true community where no one judges you. (unless you prove yourselfto be a complete moron- which, by the way, I am 100% certain in your case that you are the complete opposite).
So slip off your shoes and make yourself comfortable - you may find this place extremely difficuly to leave.
Hugs, Alex x x
I said hi in your music thread a couple of days ago.
You are so right about this forum.
I too am not a swinger - but I love my friends on here and I love to flirt too.
The topics are so varied from deeply serious and heartsearching to complete lunacy!
As you have said there is a true warmth to many of the members. You will also see that people are very willing to rally round when they see comeone is sad or hurting.
It is a true community where no one judges you. (unless you prove yourselfto be a complete moron- which, by the way, I am 100% certain in your case that you are the complete opposite).
So slip off your shoes and make yourself comfortable - you may find this place extremely difficuly to leave.
Hugs, Alex x x
Music was my first love and it will be my last
Music of the future and music of the past
Indeed John Miles...
i dont have the song, but it is symbolic of my real forst love. Despite all the ones I feel I have had, music has/will always be their for me when i feel at a loss.
Thanks for the welcomes, and glad it sort of opens the door, better than having it kicked right back in your face. I know it aint perfect on ANY forum...and god forbid it ever is. Because that would be too perfect for me because I have never been sane,serious for too long, never yet NOT felt unwanted in any of my other places of interest, and yet sometimes we all just want to be, as Alexandra says
The topics are so varied from deeply serious and heartsearching to complete lunacy!
As you have said there is a true warmth to many of the members. You will also see that people are very willing to rally round when they see comeone is sad or hurting
I cant always guarantee to be interesting, but I will at least try....? I am told I am very trying... :!:
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And from me musicwasmyfirstlove.I am a nun swinger,which means,yes,I SWING WITH NUNS :shock:
But I have yet to meet a Swinging Nun though there used to be a Nun called the Singing Nun who had a big hit in the 1960s with a song called "Dominique".
Keith - can I have some of whatever you were drinking please?
Alex - was on nothing stronger than coffee!
So if you're ever down my way theres always a cup for you in my Midlandia designer coffee maker*
Midlandia Designer Coffee Maker:*
1 Pacific Electric Kettle(Asda)
1 jar of Fair Trade Rich Roast(Co-op)
Fresh Midlandia tap water.
Goats milk from one of Lil-Bunny's escaped Goats that came in my local the other night and came to stay with me and ate all my carpets.
The laughable thing Alex is that people think I live in a fantasy world.
Anyway bettter go and see what Nicole Kidman and Naomi Watts want for breakfast - we had the wildest threesome ever last night!
So if you're ever down my way theres always a cup for you in my Midlandia designer coffee maker*
Midlandia Designer Coffee Maker:*
1 Pacific Electric Kettle(Asda)
1 jar of Fair Trade Rich Roast(Co-op)
Fresh Midlandia tap water.
Goats milk from one of Lil-Bunny's escaped Goats that came in my local the other night and came to stay with me and ate all my carpets.
The laughable thing Alex is that people think I live in a fantasy world.
Anyway bettter go and see what Nicole Kidman and Naomi Watts want for breakfast - we had the wildest threesome ever last night!
Hi musicwasmyfirstlove, glad to have you here, the only normal thing about this forums members is the total diversity of them. So you'll fit right in :P
Al looked for all the diverse members and found they are long, short, thin, fat, some bend to the left, some to the right and some dont bend at all
Al looked for all the diverse members and found they are long, short, thin, fat, some bend to the left, some to the right and some dont bend at all
Sex God
WOW, love the avatar. Such a sexy man.
Anyway, just like to say welcome to you too. We are swingers and everything else you hear
Seriously though, you will mett many wonderful people on here. They are a great bunch and very friendly most of the time.
Keep em comin hunni
Gill & Del x
Anyway, just like to say welcome to you too. We are swingers and everything else you hear
Seriously though, you will mett many wonderful people on here. They are a great bunch and very friendly most of the time.
Keep em comin hunni
Gill & Del x
