Been around many forums, but this one is very different. I kind of am not one of these 'hello, Im a newbie' types...so sorry if I seem in ya face!
I read earlier about the colly types who pop up on here, and the reporter types I would just like to say...not me, but time will show.
As an idividual, and not a clone I am not single, not a swinger, and not chasing. I am pleased to find adult, open chat, where it is ok to swear, use grown up chat, flirt like shit, be a bit mysique and at home in comfort and warm. Those days long gone now, and I just wanted to say a bit. Not really open enough for some, but that is me. I did contemplate NOT doing the intro bit, but thought their were enough adults about to appreciate that whilst the majority are here for adult sexual fun, it was not a rule that had to be obeyed in the order of having to screw about with those on here because you were on the site...? I dont pander to anyone, and will always try to be me, but accept that I am very pleased to find that little bit of sexy, funny, serious, and yet dead warm life within this cold, plastic uncaring world. If it seems to offend that a none swinging person comes on for a chat, then unless I receive loads of bad mail, uncooth comments and generally made to feel at ill with my presence, I will TRY to make myself at home...
I hope that helps the few who read some of my initail posts and offers a bit of an insight to me, and that it says a bit more than the thoughts of here is another possible...?
Hi and :welcome: albeit belatedly
There is absolutely no need to swing, you'll find lots of us on here are here for the same reasons you quoted, it's an adult board and so we act like adults do .. .and I personally find it refreshing to be on a board that is so open and accepting.
:waves:
Calista xx
Welcome, sound like you will fit right in. Look forward to some good chats...
:welcome:
Hey music, swinging is not a must on here, your contribution makes SH what a wide and varied place it is.
Enjoy and have loadsa fun
Matt
MWMFL - Great post!
I said hi in your music thread a couple of days ago.
You are so right about this forum.
I too am not a swinger - but I love my friends on here and I love to flirt too.
The topics are so varied from deeply serious and heartsearching to complete lunacy!
As you have said there is a true warmth to many of the members. You will also see that people are very willing to rally round when they see comeone is sad or hurting.
It is a true community where no one judges you. (unless you prove yourselfto be a complete moron- which, by the way, I am 100% certain in your case that you are the complete opposite).
So slip off your shoes and make yourself comfortable - you may find this place extremely difficuly to leave.
Hugs, Alex x x
Hiya and welcome from another non swinger xanaisx
And from me musicwasmyfirstlove.I am a nun swinger,which means,yes,I SWING WITH NUNS :shock:
But I have yet to meet a Swinging Nun though there used to be a Nun called the Singing Nun who had a big hit in the 1960s with a song called "Dominique".
Have fun xxxx
Mrs RSAB2 xxx :angel:
Alex - was on nothing stronger than coffee!
So if you're ever down my way theres always a cup for you in my Midlandia designer coffee maker*
Midlandia Designer Coffee Maker:*
1 Pacific Electric Kettle(Asda)
1 jar of Fair Trade Rich Roast(Co-op)
Fresh Midlandia tap water.
Goats milk from one of Lil-Bunny's escaped Goats that came in my local the other night and came to stay with me and ate all my carpets.
The laughable thing Alex is that people think I live in a fantasy world.
Anyway bettter go and see what Nicole Kidman and Naomi Watts want for breakfast - we had the wildest threesome ever last night!
Hi musicwasmyfirstlove, glad to have you here, the only normal thing about this forums members is the total diversity of them. So you'll fit right in :P
Al looked for all the diverse members and found they are long, short, thin, fat, some bend to the left, some to the right and some dont bend at all
Hi MWMFL... I have a feeling of deja vu here cos you remind so much of someone else. Have fun here with all us lovely people!
x xx
Musicwasmyfirstlove,
I can relate to a lot of what you say, both in this thread and your music thread. I like the adult, broad minded conversations that go on here. I am also not a swinger, although I may decide to take the plunge at some future stage.