just a thought and wondering if other 50 plus guys girls or couples are having lots of meets with my age group etc seems that most adverts rquesting couples single girls are for the under 45 group when i reply to advert usually have no response are we being laid out to rest to soon lol ??? just a thought
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is 50+ to old to swing ???
Nope...as long as u feel comfortable in yourself, there isnt an age barrier to swinging......yes some people will have strict age limits, but others dont...it comes down to personnality and how you come over as a person ( a big willy helps too)
simply replying to adverts isnt a view of how people perceive older people..if you were in your 30's you would prob still get a poor response form adverts as there are soooo many single guys on here chasing too few couples and singles (has nothing to do with age)
Best way is to get yourself known on here...chat in the chatrooms, contribute to the forums, go to a few socials, go to a few munches, try a club..and you will soon see that age is not the determinng factor...if you are prepared to put the effort into swinging, you will get a very pleasant surprise, but dont expect it to be an automatic instant overnight success.
50 is the new 40 alledgedly so be positive and enjoy yourself...
RWL
simply replying to adverts isnt a view of how people perceive older people..if you were in your 30's you would prob still get a poor response form adverts as there are soooo many single guys on here chasing too few couples and singles (has nothing to do with age)
Best way is to get yourself known on here...chat in the chatrooms, contribute to the forums, go to a few socials, go to a few munches, try a club..and you will soon see that age is not the determinng factor...if you are prepared to put the effort into swinging, you will get a very pleasant surprise, but dont expect it to be an automatic instant overnight success.
50 is the new 40 alledgedly so be positive and enjoy yourself...
RWL
Quote by redwine_lover
personally i don't think any age is to old to swing, its how you feel inside that counts, if your enjoying it carry on
i know a few 50+ swingers and they seem to be having a good time
ffs me and NN actualy agree on somethin...............AGAIN!!!!!!
:happy:
RWL
i know shocking innit lol
was just wondering when you was going to put your real age on your profile :wink:
Nooooooo! I would say that some people reach their prime after 50, no kids at home and time to explore! It's all a state of mind anyway, I'm not embarrassed to say that there are people in my life or on TV who must be 50+ who I find very attractive.
Age descrimination comes in all forms... I saw an advert I really liked the other day and messaged the lady who's ad it was. She PM'd me back to say she wasn't interested in me because of our age difference!! I am 27 and she is 38!! This wouldn't be so annoying apart from the fact that that is the age of my gf!! I comfort myself with knowing that it's definitely her loss!
Age descrimination comes in all forms... I saw an advert I really liked the other day and messaged the lady who's ad it was. She PM'd me back to say she wasn't interested in me because of our age difference!! I am 27 and she is 38!! This wouldn't be so annoying apart from the fact that that is the age of my gf!! I comfort myself with knowing that it's definitely her loss!
Quote by naughtynymphos1
personally i don't think any age is to old to swing, its how you feel inside that counts, if your enjoying it carry on
i know a few 50+ swingers and they seem to be having a good time
ffs me and NN actualy agree on somethin...............AGAIN!!!!!!
:happy:
RWL
i know shocking innit lol
was just wondering when you was going to put your real age on your profile :wink:
I will put my real age up when u stop agreeing with me ...its getting a habit now and i have street cred to consider!!! i will also do it when you finally admit to being a brummie babe !!!!!!!
RWL
xx
Quote by redwine_lover
personally i don't think any age is to old to swing, its how you feel inside that counts, if your enjoying it carry on
i know a few 50+ swingers and they seem to be having a good time
ffs me and NN actualy agree on somethin...............AGAIN!!!!!!
:happy:
RWL
i know shocking innit lol
was just wondering when you was going to put your real age on your profile :wink:
I will put my real age up when u stop agreeing with me ...its getting a habit now and i have street cred to consider!!! i will also do it when you finally admit to being a brummie babe !!!!!!!
RWL
xx
Quote by naughtynymphos1
personally i don't think any age is to old to swing, its how you feel inside that counts, if your enjoying it carry on
i know a few 50+ swingers and they seem to be having a good time
ffs me and NN actualy agree on somethin...............AGAIN!!!!!!
:happy:
RWL
i know shocking innit lol
was just wondering when you was going to put your real age on your profile :wink:
I will put my real age up when u stop agreeing with me ...its getting a habit now and i have street cred to consider!!! i will also do it when you finally admit to being a brummie babe !!!!!!!
RWL
xx
not like u to be lost for words hahahhahah
:2fingers:
RWL
Well im 59 and my lady is 45 and we have a terrific sex life. We have 5 swinging couples who are also long term friends and their ages vary as well and they are also members of SH.
I must admit though that we have had a lot of discussion about age and we colletively think that it is the younger generation who have the problem with it as their first thought is "Oh no its like doing it with my father/mother".
We say try us and see then make your decision about the differences in age after that and of course always remember not only were you young once but the young will become old as well.
With age comes maturity, stamina and experience that ensures a good night for all.
I must admit though that we have had a lot of discussion about age and we colletively think that it is the younger generation who have the problem with it as their first thought is "Oh no its like doing it with my father/mother".
We say try us and see then make your decision about the differences in age after that and of course always remember not only were you young once but the young will become old as well.
With age comes maturity, stamina and experience that ensures a good night for all.
Warming the Bed
Red says that being 50 and swinging isn't a problem. Me, I'll find out next Tuesday...... 
Can't say we've had any problem finding playmates. In fact the majority have been younger than us and by a fair bit in some cases.
Kiss_me is right - getting to the point where the kids have all left home makes life rather interesting again
CB
Can't say we've had any problem finding playmates. In fact the majority have been younger than us and by a fair bit in some cases.
Kiss_me is right - getting to the point where the kids have all left home makes life rather interesting again
CB
Quote by playbyte
Well im 59 and my lady is 45 and we have a terrific sex life. We have 5 swinging couples who are also long term friends and their ages vary as well and they are also members of SH.
I must admit though that we have had a lot of discussion about age and we colletively think that it is the younger generation who have the problem with it as their first thought is "Oh no its like doing it with my father/mother".
We say try us and see then make your decision about the differences in age after that and of course always remember not only were you young once but the young will become old as well.
With age comes maturity, stamina and experience that ensures a good night for all.
excellent post..couldnt agree more!!!!
i remember chatting to a fem on here once who wouldnt meet any single guy who was over 37....she actually said that 36 was ok but not 38....strange eh...
RWL
Hi
Hi well I am a 53yo male and reckon age is not an issue unless it is underage of course. I have found that a lot of younger woman prefer mature gents and have no quams about the age difference. Unfortunately, we cannot please everyone and of course everybody is entitled to their own opion and beliefs. I have met females and couples some younger than me some even older and as we are all adults we enjoy ourselves to the full. As for a big willie, well I dont have a big one and it has not stopped me and have had no complaints either.
Hi well I am a 53yo male and reckon age is not an issue unless it is underage of course. I have found that a lot of younger woman prefer mature gents and have no quams about the age difference. Unfortunately, we cannot please everyone and of course everybody is entitled to their own opion and beliefs. I have met females and couples some younger than me some even older and as we are all adults we enjoy ourselves to the full. As for a big willie, well I dont have a big one and it has not stopped me and have had no complaints either.
Quote by Fifemale
Hi
Hi well I am a 53yo male and reckon age is not an issue unless it is underage of course. I have found that a lot of younger woman prefer mature gents and have no quams about the age difference. Unfortunately, we cannot please everyone and of course everybody is entitled to their own opion and beliefs. I have met females and couples some younger than me some even older and as we are all adults we enjoy ourselves to the full. As for a big willie, well I dont have a big one and it has not stopped me and have had no complaints either.
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Quote by stevestoo
just a thought and wondering if other 50 plus guys girls or couples are having lots of meets with my age group etc seems that most adverts rquesting couples single girls are for the under 45 group when i reply to advert usually have no response are we being laid out to rest to soon lol ??? just a thought
fuggin hope not, gosh what would do with ourselves if that was the case?
Quote by playbyte
Well im 59 and my lady is 45 and we have a terrific sex life. We have 5 swinging couples who are also long term friends and their ages vary as well and they are also members of SH.
I must admit though that we have had a lot of discussion about age and we colletively think that it is the younger generation who have the problem with it as their first thought is "Oh no its like doing it with my father/mother".
We say try us and see then make your decision about the differences in age after that and of course always remember not only were you young once but the young will become old as well.
With age comes maturity, stamina and experience that ensures a good night for all.
:thumbup:
They say that women reach their peak in their 40s and I have to admit that since reaching that landmark age, my sex drive has gone through the roof and has shown no signs of coming back down as yet ! Men, they say, reach their peak in their early 30s but I do think they get a new lease of life when they reach their late 40s. I have regular pms from guys in their 20s who are more turned on by the older woman than girls of their own age.
I've been called a MILF on more than one ocassion and instead of feeling insulted, I was actually quite flattered :rose:
Sexpert
well im in search of the more mature lady 60 plus but there does seem to be more
50s couples now than there was it is available to all ages oldies one on here ive seen is 73 so....you never to old but i think there is a barrier and you know when you crossed it
but everyone is different so may the mature swingers live long and prosper toshay
50s couples now than there was it is available to all ages oldies one on here ive seen is 73 so....you never to old but i think there is a barrier and you know when you crossed it
but everyone is different so may the mature swingers live long and prosper toshay
Quote by Kiss_Me
Age descrimination comes in all forms... I saw an advert I really liked the other day and messaged the lady who's ad it was. She PM'd me back to say she wasn't interested in me because of our age difference!! I am 27 and she is 38!! This wouldn't be so annoying apart from the fact that that is the age of my gf!! I comfort myself with knowing that it's definitely her loss!
ooooo now THAT sounds familiar
(dont mind me, private joke) Age does seem to be an issue for some........
Personally, i think that its the person that matters.... not their age.... if you're comfortable with them... then what the hell does a few birthdays more or less than you matter?????
Age is just a number.... you are the person you are...
equi-princess xxx
Personally, i think that its the person that matters.... not their age.... if you're comfortable with them... then what the hell does a few birthdays more or less than you matter?????
Age is just a number.... you are the person you are...
equi-princess xxx
Quote by Darkfire
Age descrimination comes in all forms... I saw an advert I really liked the other day and messaged the lady who's ad it was. She PM'd me back to say she wasn't interested in me because of our age difference!! I am 27 and she is 38!! This wouldn't be so annoying apart from the fact that that is the age of my gf!! I comfort myself with knowing that it's definitely her loss!
ooooo now THAT sounds familiar
(dont mind me, private joke)Oh Darkfire I won't mind you as long as you save some of that 'poking' for me!!
:twisted:
Sex God
No such thing as 'too old to swing' - you're as old/young as the person you're feeling :twisted:
Warming the Bed
Quote by Freckledbird
No such thing as 'too old to swing' - you're as old/young as the person you're feeling :twisted:
Now that makes us both feel a lotbetter!
CB
Orgasminator
I quite fancy older guys and have had a long term relationship with someone 19 years my senior and a fling with someone 24 years my senior. Older men never let me down, they give me exactly what I enjoy in life - attention, good manners, interesting conversation and so on plus they know which buttons to push to turn me into a quivering bowl of jelly.
I have a minimum age limit in my profile of 32 and that is because anyone younger is not mature enough for my liking but if I met someone younger at a munch and we built a rapport, then I would not let his age stop me from getting to know him more intimately (however, it might pose a problem for something more longer term.)
I have a minimum age limit in my profile of 32 and that is because anyone younger is not mature enough for my liking but if I met someone younger at a munch and we built a rapport, then I would not let his age stop me from getting to know him more intimately (however, it might pose a problem for something more longer term.)
