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Is a cuddle ever better than sex ?

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Quote by flower411
Somebody just said to me that a cuddle can be better than sex.
Now .... lol
Really ???
I don`t think so !!
Cuddles can be great and I`m prepared to accept that there are good cuddles and bad sex but I`m pretty much of the opinion that I`d rather have bad sex than a good cuddle but I`d definately want a decent cuddle to make up for having had the bad sex. :lol:

Someone once said to me that ironing could be better than sex ..... I agreed!! :lol:
Flowers, it could be that they were just being diplomatic in turning you down!! :lol:
Yes, in certain circumstances cuddles certainly could be equal to sex or better. Having been recently widowed having someone to cuddle would be wonderful. The sex might come after.
Smooth1
Quote by flower411
Somebody just said to me that a cuddle can be better than sex.
Now .... lol
Really ???
I don`t think so !!
Cuddles can be great and I`m prepared to accept that there are good cuddles and bad sex but I`m pretty much of the opinion that I`d rather have bad sex than a good cuddle but I`d definately want a decent cuddle to make up for having had the bad sex. :lol:

Depends if your granny offers you a cuddle rotflmao
I love cuddles and I love sex :confused2: maybe i need to try both to get a better idea, and then meeko offers me a struggle snuggle too :giggle: i think he is just pushing his luck :lol2:
Cuddles can be better than sex
Normally stated by a male trying to get into a girls knickers and using the "I am a caring sensative but essentially lonely person" approach.
When I first became single after 26 years of marriage I did miss cuddles, 44 years old and believing that my life was over, then I started swinging, I loved the sex, experienced sex in ways I had only dreamt of and the cuddles, I bought a huge teddy bear to sleep with and realised life was going to go on regardless
Having been single for just over 3 yrs now cuddles are sorely missed (even more so than sex) ..
So yes.....A cuddle can be better than sex...
A cuddle with my partner or my kids are the best things in the world smile
if its ya nan the cuddle is definitely better :eeek:
as for the wife then sex it is :bounce:
A cuddle is always better than sex as it can happen anywhere, with just about anyone and I find is always on hand when needed. Whereas sex can't be x x
Quote by tinytimmy
A cuddle is always better than sex as it can happen anywhere, with just about anyone and I find is always on hand when needed. Whereas sex can't be x x

That just depends on how brave you are!! See the thread about risky places to have sex...!!!
Lilith xx
There are lots of things better than sex, but it's about feelings and emotions and that's summat else entirely.
Sex with feelings and emotions is, imo, always the best even when the sex isn't that great. The emotional will always over-ride the physical.
A cuddle with the right person can make you feel like nothing else matters. Maybe the sheer abandonment of good sex can feel the same, but for me ... I dunno ... I can get good sex like that anywhere but a good, proper cuddle with the right person just as you need it is something special.
Quote by flower411
Somebody just said to me that a cuddle can be better than sex.
Now .... lol
Really ???
I don`t think so !!
Cuddles can be great and I`m prepared to accept that there are good cuddles and bad sex but I`m pretty much of the opinion that I`d rather have bad sex than a good cuddle but I`d definately want a decent cuddle to make up for having had the bad sex. :lol:

Honestly? Who wants bad sex? whats that anyway? Both are intimate encounters and a good hug is normally for a good reason and well needed or deserved. Hands up Ive had some crap sex and probably given some at some time too :lol: Taking the worst example I faked a climax and then in the still dark room hid my condom before she could spot the evidence. So, good hug from Mrs Tweeky or fake a climax with the smelly footed bird again? I'll take the hug thanks.
Yeah, I'm goin' with the cuddle most times.
Apple's and pears in my eyes. They're two different reactions that suit two different emotional states, albeit not necessarily exclusively.