Is anyone here for real

29 Apr 2009

Quote by westerross
saw through the flaws instantly .......... very few on here actually match what their profile says anyhow.

How do you know?
They spied me out recently and found I was a 6 foot, size zero model with long flowing "real" blonde hair and boobs keeping my nose warm :twisted:
My profile didn't say I looked like that :giggle: but the pampas grass, cream leather couch and ankle bracelet gave the swinging game away
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6 feet eh? Good job I'm not into toe sucking :twisted: .
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29 Apr 2009

Quote by duncanlondon
I am not sure where and how 'free sex' is applicable here.
If swingers are consenting, knowing people who have sex by mutual agreement, where there is no fee or payment involved.
Then how can there be free sex? Or indeed is anyone cheated in some way?

Indeed... perhaps worded wrong. I'd have said "quick shag" but again if that's what you're here for and that's what someone else is here for and you get together than all is good for everyone involved.
I'm just curious as to why it's a waste of time. dunno

Well I wish people wouldn't use such illogical expressions and construct redundant lines of argument from them.
Also if there are people who are not happy about people looking or appearing to look for a quick bonk, it's probably also considerable; that there are people who equally find it unsavoury that people are looking for .................. heaven forbid...............a swinging experience!
Just imagine that, the ultimate in hypocrisy.
It's not the people looking for quick, free, easy, no strings (whatever term you prefer) sex that I have a problem with. Not at all. I have been through long periods of time where that is the only thing I have looked for.
What I do have a problem with however are the people who call the site (and others like it) a waste of time - often they qualify this statement with "I have posted in the forums, chatted, replied to ads and still not joy" or the like. This, rightly or worngly says to me that they are here (in the forums) as a means to an end... just cos they think it will secure them more/easier/better (delete as appropriate) sex. It is similar to those who name drop to get sex (I have met X therefore will you shag me), or who go to a munch JUST to be seen to be involved and therefore think they will get more sex.
The difference between someone who is here looking for quick/easy/free/whatever sex AND who also happens to like to chat in the forums cos they like it, and someone here for quick/easy/free/whatever sex and who chats in the forums JUST cos they think it is a means to an end may be a subtle one, but it is a real on and something that I have considered negative (but inevitable) for a long long time!

29 Apr 2009

Quote by duncanlondon
I am not sure where and how 'free sex' is applicable here.
If swingers are consenting, knowing people who have sex by mutual agreement, where there is no fee or payment involved.
Then how can there be free sex? Or indeed is anyone cheated in some way?

Indeed... perhaps worded wrong. I'd have said "quick shag" but again if that's what you're here for and that's what someone else is here for and you get together than all is good for everyone involved.
I'm just curious as to why it's a waste of time. dunno

Well I wish people wouldn't use such illogical expressions and construct redundant lines of argument from them.
Also if there are people who are not happy about people looking or appearing to look for a quick bonk, it's probably also considerable; that there are people who equally find it unsavoury that people are looking for .................. heaven forbid...............a swinging experience!
Just imagine that, the ultimate in hypocrisy.
Apologies if you read my post in that way, that wasn't my intention. I think there's something here for everyone and it's not my place to judge them for it. I'm just confused why someone would stay somewhere which, in their own words, is an inordinate waste of time.

What's the point? If I thought something was a waste of time then I wouldn't have anything to do with it. I was just curious as to why others would, that's all.
Thank you for your response Ben... I assume you don't consider it a waste of time seeing if it develops then?

29 Apr 2009

I consider sites like this a waste of time.
I come here and waste a lot of my time when I should be doing something more constructive, but I choose to come here instead, it suits me, I have had a lot of enjoyment from the sites and all they offer.

29 Apr 2009

Quote by essex34m
I consider sites like this a waste of time.
I come here and waste a lot of my time when I should be doing something more constructive, but I choose to come here instead, it suits me, I have had a lot of enjoyment from the sites and all they offer.

Wasting time here and it being a waste of time are two different things in my head. I waste shedloads of time here but I don't consider it a waste of time! lol

29 Apr 2009

Quote by essex34m
I consider sites like this a waste of time.
I come here and waste a lot of my time when I should be doing something more constructive, but I choose to come here instead, it suits me, I have had a lot of enjoyment from the sites and all they offer.

Ha ha, well that's true enough. I could have been a professor by now had it not been for the time I have spent in 6 years on swingers websites!

29 Apr 2009

You know scientists work out that you spend a third of your life sleeping etc.
How much would they work out that we spent wasting time?
If you think about it you don't really waste any time. If you are not doing what you think you should be doing you usually worry about it. So you use that time to worry. Or you go into a nice dozy daydream and think about something else, which in most cases can be quite pleasant. Or you go into anger mode and imagine that you will kill the person who has let you down.
I can't imagine what someone is, if they don't do something else in place of what they thought they might be doing. Could anyone describe what such a person would be like?
A rock maybe? But there again they actually erode don't they, so even a rock does something whilst its having its time wasted, don't they?
actually some rocks get to see salmon shagging and then get covered in salmon spunk and eggs. then they get eroded into sand, after a few million years.
So rocks know how to keep busy.