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Is it rude or do I expect too much?

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Quote by nostringsluton
If you're asking me...the (once) Mighty Leeds lol

Your very right they were.
I have never been into Leeds football but used to be an avid visitor of the Rhinos.
Rhinos are the ones that play with odd shaped balls! I'm not from Leeds...just a long suffering supporter
the egg chasers ?
The very ones. Good luck for the season........I'll look out for the result when you play Gateshead.
Quote by 2_of_a_kind
Nice chatting but time for my bed.
27 Sept Birmingham v Leeds it's been a while looking forward to it!

We'll have to have a wager on it! Nice chatting to you too.
Quote by 2_of_a_kind
Just wondering.... Do you find it a little rude if you give a detailed response to someone’s thread and they don't even bother to acknowledge it.
Maybe I am just expect too much from people?

I used to, I don't any more. I know I am possibly the worlds worst at not keeping up with threads including ones I have started. Soemtimes its simply because I am busy, other times I admit I get bored, and occasionally I want to avoid banging on like an eejit (very occasionally).
I have to say I think more folk read the forums than contribute to them and I have been surprised by the number of folk I have met at socials and such who I've rarely seen contribute who discuss the forum with me. Similarly I love bumping into the forum contributors and I still have a long list of "must meet one days".
I would say just keep banging away, dont take any disagreement or silences personally, and be as true to yourself as you possibly can.
Quote by Max777
They're all happy before the first game of the season........unfortunately some of them aren't afterwards.........and that included my lot :sad:

Max, I am quoting this post just so you know that I was commiserating with you even before I clicked into the clarification of who we're on about on page 2. Really was a quite pitiful result, even allowing for it being a long-way-away away match with the newly promoted.
On a more positive note, we done Bradford over in the League Cup. Yay! Thank fook for that! Really would have been pitiful if we'd gone out in the first round to Bradford of all people? We'd have never lived it down Max? I have to walk past these people when I go to the chuffin' IMAX to watch Harry Bleedin' Potter in 3D FFS!
Back on topic . . .
2_of_a_kind, it's always nice ((( usually? lol ))) to have your contribution acknowledged, if not thrown right back in yer face, but I would never consider it rude if I didn't get a response? I post on here for my own entertainment first and foremost. Doesn't mean someone, somewhere hasn't taken it on board, even if that someone isn't the person I actually set out to reply to? Course, I have no way of knowing if anyone has or not, and then of course they may decide to themselves that actually, that Neilinleeds is an up-his-own-arse insufferable prick, but so what? It's the nature of the beast I think? Loads of ways to get some sort of validation back from it though I think, even if you are ignored, least of them being just sitting down and putting your thoughts together in way that might occasionally seem novel even to you, even before anyone else reflects them back at you.
N x x x ;)
Quote by neilinleeds
They're all happy before the first game of the season........unfortunately some of them aren't afterwards.........and that included my lot :sad:

Max, I am quoting this post just so you know that I was commiserating with you even before I clicked into the clarification of who we're on about on page 2. Really was a quite pitiful result, even allowing for it being a long-way-away away match with the newly promoted.
On a more positive note, we done Bradford over in the League Cup. Yay! Thank fook for that! Really would have been pitiful if we'd gone out in the first round to Bradford of all people? We'd have never lived it down Max? I have to walk past these people when I go to the chuffin' IMAX to watch Harry Bleedin' Potter in 3D FFS!
N x x x ;)
Cheers Neil, we were well beaten at Southampton and even against Bradford had to come from behind twice. I can imagine how bad it would have been down there had we lost that one, at least I can keep my head down amongst the Geordies. I feel that Mr Bates' lack of investement during the summer means that there will be a long hard season ahead :sad:
Quote by Ben_Minx
I would say just keep banging away, dont take any disagreement or silences personally, and be as true to yourself as you possibly can.

:doh:
Quote by nostringsluton

I would say just keep banging away, dont take any disagreement or silences personally, and be as true to yourself as you possibly can.

:doh:
Where did you pop up from you handsome luton bastard?! ;)
I know you're straight... but that's just a starting point for negotiations as far as this place is concerned. Nola told me! :rascal:
2_of_a_kind - good to see you posting again. I think you're referring to the advice you gave in Let's Meet Up and didn't even receive a 'thank you'.
I thought it was rude also but I guess the Forum is just a representation of life and there's people there I find rude too sad
Perhaps we should shag mr luton handsome man as a distraction... you guys take the front and I'll take the back evil
Quote by bIoke

I would say just keep banging away, dont take any disagreement or silences personally, and be as true to yourself as you possibly can.

:doh:
Where did you pop up from you handsome luton bastard?! ;)
I know you're straight... but that's just a starting point for negotiations as far as this place is concerned. Nola told me! :rascal:
2_of_a_kind - good to see you posting again. I think you're referring to the advice you gave in Let's Meet Up and didn't even receive a 'thank you'.
I thought it was rude also but I guess the Forum is just a representation of life and there's people there I find rude too sad
Perhaps we should shag mr luton handsome man as a distraction... you guys take the front and I'll take the back evil
That is so funny and I can just see you saying that. I have to admit Mrs 2 did make comment with regards to him last night and I was going to say but didn't want to appear a creep!
Good to make contact with you we have been off the scene for a while.
Quote by 2_of_a_kind
That is so funny and I can just see you saying that. I have to admit Mrs 2 did make comment with regards to him last night and I was going to say but didn't want to appear a creep!

It's OK, I don't mind being creepy :rascal:
Luton - come to Northumberland and sample the local produce man! ;)
Glad you're both OK x
Quote by nostringsluton
bless ya wink

Thanks you big softie... now how about 'suck me?' Won't tell yer mates and will even give you a big old man kiss as a thank you. Straight blokes like the idea of kissing blokes right?! :rascal:
I think i have a allergic reaction to stubble sorry love I have to turn you down..
but good luck on your quest to turn someone to the "darkside" wink
Quote by nostringsluton
I think i have a allergic reaction to stubble sorry love I have to turn you down..
but good luck on your quest to turn someone to the "darkside" wink

I'll shave! dunno
LOL @ 'love' - good man, you're fun.
No doubt our paths will cross at some point mate ;)
Quote by bIoke
I think i have a allergic reaction to stubble sorry love I have to turn you down..
but good luck on your quest to turn someone to the "darkside" wink

I'll shave! dunno
LOL @ 'love' - good man, you're fun.
No doubt our paths will cross at some point mate ;)
quick run save yourself nostrins once bIoke got his sights set ya aint got a chance lol
Quote by sara2010
quick run save yourself nostrins once bIoke got his sights set ya aint got a chance lol

lol Sara don't worry tho, cos they will never get together cos both of them have the same stubble, ffs if they kissed, it would be like Velcro.
Their chins would be permanently attached wink
Quote by woohoo
quick run save yourself nostrins once bIoke got his sights set ya aint got a chance lol

lol Sara don't worry tho, cos they will never get together cos both of them have the same stubble, ffs if they kissed, it would be like Velcro.
Their chins would be permanently attached wink

i can see bIoke rubbing his hands with delight at that thought tho hehehe
Quote by sara2010
quick run save yourself nostrins once bIoke got his sights set ya aint got a chance lol

lol Sara don't worry tho, cos they will never get together cos both of them have the same stubble, ffs if they kissed, it would be like Velcro.
Their chins would be permanently attached wink

i can see bIoke rubbing his hands with delight at that thought tho hehehe
Not just bloke :rascal:
<<<< pulls up a seat... no, make that a rather large vibrating thing :twisted: I think Nola just found herself some new ladywank material!
:wink:
And damnit... how dense (and by default, rude) am I?!
passionkiss to the very sexy 2_of_a_kind.
:doh: I just figured it out.
wave
We (Mainly mr T to be fair, Mrs T is blonde) have often thought out what we want to write to help people in this and other forums only to find that we have been ignored.
Perhaps it is because people skim from the first post to the last, and I don't doubt some of it is clique, but on the whole most sensible threads here are answered sensibly, although they usually fall into a pile of mush after.
Quote by Trevaunance
We (Mainly mr T to be fair, Mrs T is blonde) have often thought out what we want to write to help people in this and other forums only to find that we have been ignored.
Perhaps it is because people skim from the first post to the last, and I don't doubt some of it is clique, but on the whole most sensible threads here are answered sensibly, although they usually fall into a pile of mush after.

You have a very valid point there Trev but when there is only one reply then that is definitely laziness.
Great photos by the way.