No, can honestly say swinging wasn't my idea. A now ex partner got me into it and we swung together for 11 months (not very successfully). The thought of swinging hadn't even crossed my mind but I did know then that I was bi and had already had a few girl on girl experiences.
I was honest and did tell him about my "girly thing" and a month later he suggested swinging much to my amusement and shock lol
For us it was a joint decision.
We just sort of 'came' across the idea after a few 3/4 somes and some car action, so I guess it was a joint decision. Although before the first party I had to promise that I wouldn't let him botttle it, I suppose there is a bit more pressure on the blokes to 'perfom' especially for the first party. Not a problem now mind... :thrilled:
Tool suggested it to me. I wasn't sure at first but I'll give most things a go once - if you don't like it you don't have to do it again after all. As soon as I got involved I loved it!
we were at a naturist place and just stumbled across a party, we stayed so i suppose it was a joint decision. great party !
:love: xxx
...oh lord... It was so very mutual... 6 years ago we woke up in bed one morning with my female roomate after an interesting night (we were at uni) and decided that yeah we both liked that a whole lot and the rest, as they say, was history...
ms. ocky
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