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is it true
No scientific evidence whatsoever for this one, attraction is all about two people (scientifically) with a proportionate amount of similar and differing genes finding themselves drawn to another person who they instinctively feel will pass on the best genes to their offspring (in the female aspect), and the best chance of producing healthy offspring through the full term of pregnancy (in the male aspect).
These days though as we evolve into more complex and less shallow and instinct driven homo sapiens, attraction is much more than this, there was a recent article about this in one of the broadsheets that claimed we were now developing a part of the brain that measured the attractiveness of a potential partner by how wealthy they were and how plausible it was that they would be able to realistically provide us with a good stable quality of life, how shallow
I myself believe attraction in this day and age to be a myriad of different things combined to facilitate the person looking for their Mr/Mrs right to find the person that makes them most HAPPY (call me an old romantic
). I have seen some very odd couples that completely go against the consensus of the "scientific communities evidence" that we look for people within our own social class and of similar level looks etc.
I think the fact your a 6ft 2 16st rugby type is pretty irrelevant to your partner/potential partner unless your looking for a pretty shallow lady friend? For relationships to work i think you need a little more than a "i go for this type" to make a decent go of it, i think if you look at it a little more carefully i think u might agree that your partner/potential partner must see more in you than the fact she feels safe cos your a "big guy"???
These days though as we evolve into more complex and less shallow and instinct driven homo sapiens, attraction is much more than this, there was a recent article about this in one of the broadsheets that claimed we were now developing a part of the brain that measured the attractiveness of a potential partner by how wealthy they were and how plausible it was that they would be able to realistically provide us with a good stable quality of life, how shallow
I myself believe attraction in this day and age to be a myriad of different things combined to facilitate the person looking for their Mr/Mrs right to find the person that makes them most HAPPY (call me an old romantic
). I have seen some very odd couples that completely go against the consensus of the "scientific communities evidence" that we look for people within our own social class and of similar level looks etc. I think the fact your a 6ft 2 16st rugby type is pretty irrelevant to your partner/potential partner unless your looking for a pretty shallow lady friend? For relationships to work i think you need a little more than a "i go for this type" to make a decent go of it, i think if you look at it a little more carefully i think u might agree that your partner/potential partner must see more in you than the fact she feels safe cos your a "big guy"???
Orgasminator
Hmm, I like a tall man, brings out the inner child in me. :P
It seems odd you bring this up..
We have been having this conversation between us the last week or so.. Mrs mdr and I that is. We seem to get most mail from couples with small to tiny females.. Its not a preference as such on our part as we find all sizes sexy assuming they have the attitude to go with it lol...
Strange how mrs mdr thought it was becoming 'my thing' to mail them till she saw and read the mail herself and now realises its them mailing us first as such..
Maybe its true... Smaller women are attracted to err bigger guys.. but my theory is is just diversity lol.. i.e Guys with tiny partners fancy a change and visa versa.. Veriety! Mmm works so far anyway lol...
Mike x
We have been having this conversation between us the last week or so.. Mrs mdr and I that is. We seem to get most mail from couples with small to tiny females.. Its not a preference as such on our part as we find all sizes sexy assuming they have the attitude to go with it lol...
Strange how mrs mdr thought it was becoming 'my thing' to mail them till she saw and read the mail herself and now realises its them mailing us first as such..
Maybe its true... Smaller women are attracted to err bigger guys.. but my theory is is just diversity lol.. i.e Guys with tiny partners fancy a change and visa versa.. Veriety! Mmm works so far anyway lol...
Mike x
Evryone says i look smaller in real life than on cam when i see them at socials.
having CD and being a smoker ive allways been small in frame and ranged from 7.5 stone when first diagnosed to 14 when i had a spell not smoking. Webcam and wide camera lenses have that effect on anyone its science
Dont do my ego any good tho
having CD and being a smoker ive allways been small in frame and ranged from 7.5 stone when first diagnosed to 14 when i had a spell not smoking. Webcam and wide camera lenses have that effect on anyone its science
Dont do my ego any good tho
Sex God
Quote by freimation
small girls go for big guys well thats whats i see when im out all my partners were 5.5 or under bear in mind im 6/2 16st 5lb rugby player build girls say they feel safe with me what do you guys think.
At 6'2", you're not really going to meet many women who are bigger than you, are you? I wouln't feel any safer with a guy just because he was taller than me.
Casanova
Im 5ft, Rich is 5ft 10". I need a tall guy to get things off the top shelf of Tescos
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Sex God
I only go for guys who are taller than me, but then again, Im only five foot, and have not yet met a guy who isn't taller than me
Orgasminator
I'm only 5ft and 7 stone but I've never really been attracted to really tall guys. Would get a crick in my neck trying to snog em!
Sex God
I'm 5ft 1 and Stormy is 6 ft. I must admint that I do seem to have a penchant for the larger male (& female actually lol) when everyone was drooling over Robert carlisle in The Full Monty there was me having the hots for his best mate played by Mark Addy :twisted: I quite like Robbie Coltrane in Cracker too and if I had to have one of the mitchell brothers in Eastenders it would definitely have been Phil....so yes I think my type must be the larger man and I also do think that it's something to do with the protection thing.
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Quote by goose35
Evryone says i look smaller in real life than on cam when i see them at socials.
having CD and being a smoker ive allways been small in frame and ranged from 7.5 stone when first diagnosed to 14 when i had a spell not smoking. Webcam and wide camera lenses have that effect on anyone its science
Dont do my ego any good tho
But you are also younger in real life than you look on cam! :thumbup:
Quote by Cherrytree
But you are also younger in real life than you look on cam! :thumbup:
Ta hunnie
It's just that my ego bruises easily
at the end of the day these things are more perseptions in peoples minds we probably see smaller ladies with big blokes and think its more common than it really is.
Maybe the media publishing pics if tiny thin ladies and hunky blokes has an effect on what we think too
I take it no one saw the recent programmes on TV call F*** off i'm .......
It was all about how we as humans are attracted to each other, what they found out was that
Height,
Hair colour
Build
was a major factor in attraction the discovery was that majority of females perfured males who was
Between 5'8" and 6"+
Hair Any colour other then ginger
Build Fit(what ever fit could be defined as)
which means i'm fubar'd because i'm
5'5"
have ginger hair
and is fat
It was all about how we as humans are attracted to each other, what they found out was that
Height,
Hair colour
Build
was a major factor in attraction the discovery was that majority of females perfured males who was
Between 5'8" and 6"+
Hair Any colour other then ginger
Build Fit(what ever fit could be defined as)
which means i'm fubar'd because i'm
5'5"
have ginger hair
and is fat
I prefer men to be taller than me or otherwise I just feel like a big fat knacker as opposed to feminine sexy little thing.
I never went for the body builder type until i got into swinging. before that, I always went for lanky streaks of piss. Now I'm scared in case I break them. :twisted:
A short while ago, I met a lovely young fella who was very slim and as lovely and fabulous as he was, I missed having something big to grip onto - and I don't mean his willy!
For me, it's not so much about feeling safe but I think its more about having this huge bulk of weight and potentially - power - that I can dom it over and that lends me power which i find quite erotic.
Smaller men are just kind of ... (sorry!) ... weedy and weak.
I am most definitely very shallow but then, I'm only looking for sex, i don't want to marry 'em!
I never went for the body builder type until i got into swinging. before that, I always went for lanky streaks of piss. Now I'm scared in case I break them. :twisted:
A short while ago, I met a lovely young fella who was very slim and as lovely and fabulous as he was, I missed having something big to grip onto - and I don't mean his willy!
For me, it's not so much about feeling safe but I think its more about having this huge bulk of weight and potentially - power - that I can dom it over and that lends me power which i find quite erotic.
Smaller men are just kind of ... (sorry!) ... weedy and weak.
I am most definitely very shallow but then, I'm only looking for sex, i don't want to marry 'em!
