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Is it unfair to ask for pics or phone chat before a meet??

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Quote by lilnfil

you been at the wine again PK lol
fil xx

me...........wine............never?????? where did u get that idea from??????????
:lol: :lol: :lol:
sheddys just opening another bottle.......lol
lil say's can she have a larger :grin:
fil xx
sorry hijack over
larger what? :giggle:
Quote by meat2pleaseu

you been at the wine again PK lol
fil xx

me...........wine............never?????? where did u get that idea from??????????
:lol: :lol: :lol:
sheddys just opening another bottle.......lol
lil say's can she have a larger :grin:
fil xx
sorry hijack over
larger what? :giggle:
rolleyes A larger glass to put her drink in wink
Quote by lilnfil
lil say's can she have a lager :grin:

nope tell her she can have more wine........if not we'll post the pics........... lol :lol:
Quote by poshkate

lil say's can she have a lager :grin:

nope tell her she can have more wine........if not we'll post the pics........... lol :lol:
i dare ya rotflmao and you know what you said about taking a dare wink :rotflmao:
fil xx
Quote by meat2pleaseu
larger what? :giggle:

shit.................thought i'd got to that before it was spotted lol
fil
nnoooooo...........i think these photos are best kept to ourselves.............just like those of a certain someone running around neked at a bbq!
lol :lol: :lol:
Quote by lilnfil

larger what? :giggle:

shit.................thought i'd got to that before it was spotted lol
fil
you must have, i changed it for comedy value rotflmao
Quote by meat2pleaseu

larger what? :giggle:

shit.................thought i'd got to that before it was spotted lol
fil
you must have, i changed it for comedy value rotflmao
now i'm confused so ..............i edited it before you saw it ...............you changed it for comedy value.............so if i hadn't of owned up ............nobody would have known that i'd spelt it wrong in the first place :doh:
fil :lol:
rotflmao you want a plaster for that bullet hole in your foot :giggle:
we would always want to chat first, make sure they are how you think they are xx
We insist on face pics by return and a phone chat (mainly to check that they don't sound like Julian Clary - I call it the 'fairy check'), very early on :P
Answers such as:
"I can't send you pics because of my job.... my wife doesn't know.... I don't have a pic (especially when you can see that there are 341 on their profile ;)).... I don't know how to send a pic..."
... don't wash with us at all confused
Quote by poshkate
nnoooooo...........i think these photos are best kept to ourselves.............just like those of a certain someone running around neked at a bbq!
lol :lol: :lol:

It weren't me :shock: though I hope no one was quick enough to spot the topless streak from pool to tent confused
Besides, he wasn't naked. He had a skirt on ! :shock:
Quote by Sassy-Seren
nnoooooo...........i think these photos are best kept to ourselves.............just like those of a certain someone running around neked at a bbq!
lol :lol: :lol:

It weren't me :shock: though I hope no one was quick enough to spot the topless streak from pool to tent confused
Besides, he wasn't naked. He had a skirt on ! :shock:
redface
may i point out that this was because someone who won't be mentioned (sassy -seren)said they hadn't seen my clothes when...................
i think it was you who moved them off the chair, to another, so you could put yours there smackbottom
if it wasn't you sorry kiss
fil xx :lol:
:shock: That weren't me either ffs ! I was still freezing my tits off in the pool when you decided to get in touch with your feminine side :giggle:
hi we think you must talk on ph0ne 1st and face pics do help to but some people dont mind what people look are all on SH for fun and friendship but there are people on here that spoil our fun we just have to weed them a phone chat is always needed i have sent pams number out a few times she dont like talking on the phone but she knows that is the only way to find the real fun people you dont ring her then you are not what you said you was and she onlt talks to a woman who rings then me and her man it as to be like that sad
Aw meaty, would you like me to rub yur back for you?
H.x
In general we agree with and follow what has been said above. We dont usually bother with single guys and only advertise for couples.
When we have found an interested couple we have a breif phone conversation just to prove both parties have a female present. We do this early on trust me when i say so many conversations stop there. We have heard all the excuses for them not to speak on the phone. We have a phone dedicated to this and we give out our number quite freely knowing that if we have problem a sim card costs a fiver to replace.
When we know a lady is present then we swap an innocent clean pic for them to look at so if they get in the wrong hands it is a purely innocent pic that has been pinched off the internet.
However, after all that we are still let down by couples not turning up and letting us down and one couple not even looking like the pic that they sent (thank god for viagra)!
Dee and Paul
Quote by Kiss
I wouldn't consider meeting anyone be it female/male/couple/group :shock: without speaking on the telephone and seeing a face picture. I'm not being shallow, I just take safety issues seriously and I'm very picky as to what floats my boat.

100% agree with you Kiss. I am being a lazy forumite here and not reading all pages on this thread ...lol Just wanted to say that I want pics and phone numbers before I will consider meeting and even then that doesnt guarentee a meet. Yeah, I know I'm such a picky slut !!! rolleyes
Quote by H-x
Aw meaty, would you like me to rub yur back for you?
H.x

No, but theres a bit at the front you could rub for me wink
Quote by daz76
hey there, just thought I'd ask your views on asking for pics or a chat with the female before going onto arrange a meet with a male/female couple... I have done in the past and I've made it my rule, but I've just had an experience where a couple were up4 a meet, but wouldnt swap pics or allow me to talk to the female... I believe they had sumthing to hide and didnt go through with it....
we would never meet any one if we had not a clue what they look like ,dont really swap pics but will show on cam ,as we once were chatting to a single fem,who wanted me to drop mrs n out side of the house and for me to wait out side ,lol as if that was gona happen ,any way we said no thx ,and a couple of weeks later only for the silly sod to ask in pm if mrs n would meet single males lol yup some peeps cant even remember there own lies .no mate instist to at least speak on the fone even if they ring you and withold there number .