hi there, im relatively new here.....
from what i can tell my age (23) and my location (south east of scotland) will be a bit of a hinderance to me! would you agree???
I'd like to get some feedback on this subject if possible? what do you think?
and if there is anyone out there who is local, edinburgh, glasgow, north east etc then give me a shout.... hehe
cheers
Ewen
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Is my age a problem???? im 23
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Sex God
i was here at 23 and it never stopped me getting meets!
as for your location, it might put people in devon/cornwall off... but where ever you live you would have the same problem.
welcome
xxxxx
as for your location, it might put people in devon/cornwall off... but where ever you live you would have the same problem.
welcome
xxxxx
Sex God
Hi, there are many people around here from NE England - you'll soon find some. On the question of your age, there are plenty of people in their early twenties who swing, if that's what you're getting at. There's also a sociable crowd here including people of all ages (over 18).
"Pleased to meet you, hope you guess my name"
Mike.
"Pleased to meet you, hope you guess my name"
Mike.
and yep im 23 too but im female so it seems to be abit different....
Sex God
Quote by booshsutton
hi there, im relatively new here.....
from what i can tell my age (23) and my location (south east of scotland) will be a bit of a hinderance to me! would you agree???
Hi Ewen
You may find it a struggle to get cheap car insurance
the Laird
Sex God
i am 24 .... i think i have a bit of fun from time to time.....
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MikeC
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Quote by the_Laird
hi there, im relatively new here.....
from what i can tell my age (23) and my location (south east of scotland) will be a bit of a hinderance to me! would you agree???
Hi Ewen
You may find it a struggle to get cheap car insurance
the Laird
Giggle......can't think how we ended up thinking about the same gag just then!
:giggle:
Kitty xxx
Orgasminator
Quote by booshsutton
hi there, im relatively new here.....
from what i can tell my age (23) and my location (south east of scotland) will be a bit of a hinderance to me! would you agree???
I'd like to get some feedback on this subject if possible? what do you think?
and if there is anyone out there who is local, edinburgh, glasgow, north east etc then give me a shout.... hehe
cheers
Ewen
I don't think its your age or location that will be the biggest problem, there are numerous photo ads asking for young guys.. But being a single male might be.
Sex God
Quote by Kitty
hi there, im relatively new here.....
from what i can tell my age (23) and my location (south east of scotland) will be a bit of a hinderance to me! would you agree???
Hi Ewen
You may find it a struggle to get cheap car insurance
the Laird
Giggle......can't think how we ended up thinking about the same gag just then!
:giggle:
Kitty xxx
:dunno:
Although your age isn't gonna be a big issue, a lot of the swinging/sex club scene still (to me at least) seems to be predominantly 35+
it's improved a lot since I started (about 5 years ago) when there seemed to be virtually no under-30s only clubs/parties and very few where the average age was below 30. Prob the main reason I've always focused on private parties rather than "swinger" clubs. One of the first places I went to was regarded as quite a "young" club but I was over a decade younger than the next youngest person there (who was 29 if memory serves, with most in their early-mid 30s)!
Nowadays it's easy enough to find parties where the oldest person will be less than 10 years older than you
There are plenty of places where the average age is under 30, aswell as quite a few under-30-only parties. Even a decent, if not very well established yet, late teens/early 20s scene (in london at least).
it's improved a lot since I started (about 5 years ago) when there seemed to be virtually no under-30s only clubs/parties and very few where the average age was below 30. Prob the main reason I've always focused on private parties rather than "swinger" clubs. One of the first places I went to was regarded as quite a "young" club but I was over a decade younger than the next youngest person there (who was 29 if memory serves, with most in their early-mid 30s)!
Nowadays it's easy enough to find parties where the oldest person will be less than 10 years older than you
There are plenty of places where the average age is under 30, aswell as quite a few under-30-only parties. Even a decent, if not very well established yet, late teens/early 20s scene (in london at least). 
Sexlightened
make the most of it and enjoy.................cause it ain't long before your 10 years older than them........ oh and the policemen look like they are just out of nappies (they have their kinks as well)
Orgasminator
Quote by Emily
Even a decent, if not very well established yet, late teens/early 20s scene (in london at least).
Is that in any particular club?
Quote by veejay
Even a decent, if not very well established yet, late teens/early 20s scene (in london at least).
Is that in any particular club?
not specifically as far as I know, tho obviously to some extent the clubs at the younger end of the scene - champagne, fever, kk etc. more often tends to be private parties as most of the clubs won't allow 16/17 yo in, and it's 16-18 yo where this has pretty much come from.
Orgasminator
Quote by Emily
Even a decent, if not very well established yet, late teens/early 20s scene (in london at least).
Is that in any particular club?
not specifically as far as I know, tho obviously to some extent the clubs at the younger end of the scene - champagne, fever, kk etc. more often tends to be private parties as most of the clubs won't allow 16/17 yo in, and it's 16-18 yo where this has pretty much come from.
Interesting, I didn't realise they'd be into this at 16/18 years of age.
Quote by veejay
Interesting, I didn't realise they'd be into this at 16/18 years of age.
I started going to sex clubs/parties when I was 17, and had been peripherarily involved since about 16, I know/knew quite a few others who are/were 16-18 when they started.
the prob of course is that the "official" scene has no accommodation for u18s, in most regards it's tougher to get into a sex club if you're 17 than a normal one.
that said, it's still a minority, I'd guess most ppl first get into it at university rather than before, and outside London there's probably not the critical mass needed.
Orgasminator
Quote by Emily
I started going to sex clubs/parties when I was 17, and had been peripherarily involved since about 16, I know/knew quite a few others who are/were 16-18 when they started.
the prob of course is that the "official" scene has no accommodation for u18s, in most regards it's tougher to get into a sex club if you're 17 than a normal one.
that said, it's still a minority, I'd guess most ppl first get into it at university rather than before, and outside London there's probably not the critical mass needed.
I see what you mean. I suppose I probably started at about 17 too, but that was just messing about at parties in peoples houses. Alot of my friends swapped gfs etc. We never really thought of it as swinging (for some reason I always reckoned you had to be "old" to be considered a swinger). It was at uni that I got involved with my housemate and his girl. Then I met a pair of bisexual girls and things took off. I miss uni :twisted:
Quote by veejay
We never really thought of it as swinging (for some reason I always reckoned you had to be "old" to be considered a swinger).
def agree, I almost never think of it as "swinging" which for me gives the image of middle aged over weight suburban key swapping.
it's always gonna be tricky defining when you started to some extent as different things will represent starting to different people - I started having what I'd consider "recreational sex" at 14, was having "sex parties" with friends at 16, and was going to "organised" sex clubs at 17, so it's tricky to say when I started out.
Sexlightened
Quote by Emily
We never really thought of it as swinging (for some reason I always reckoned you had to be "old" to be considered a swinger).
def agree, I almost never think of it as "swinging" which for me gives the image of middle aged over weight suburban key swapping.
it's always gonna be tricky defining when you started to some extent as different things will represent starting to different people - I started having what I'd consider "recreational sex" at 14, was having "sex parties" with friends at 16, and was going to "organised" sex clubs at 17, so it's tricky to say when I started out.
It's just part of 'your sex life' It's a path that you weave as you go along, mistakes and the good times! just try and make the most of it and enjoy........
Casanova
Heloo dont worry about your age just enjoy whatever happens happens...I wish I was in my twenties again..(lucky sod)
Just come back from the local club where there was this gorgeous 20 something female singer, wished I was 20 years younger. Afterwards she came over and I kissed her on the cheek (would have loved to have done more, but gentlemanly nature took control.)
Age... only a problem when you think it is
Age... only a problem when you think it is
