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Recently spoke with an EX and found w outhile my size(8"+, quite thick) was advantegous for sex. Oral was a problem, this has also been stated by the EX before last. In short too big, mouth aches. Anyway to get around this or make the girls more comfortable?
Looking forward to your advice, thanks
There's plenty here with a big gob.........
Quote by duncanlondon
There's plenty here with a big gob.........

smackbottom:smackbottom:
I can understand what they are saying (having a small mouth myself) lol , but oral doesn't have to be "deep throat", having to put the lot in.
I spose it depends on what get's you off, and if it's feeling your cock all in, then you will have to find someone who can accommodate it.
Or as Duncan put it, someone with a big gob! blast
i have often wondered what the 'longer' fellas get from making the giver gag, or is it just a porno thing that guys think the giver get something from.
myself i dont like to gag so something smaller but wider is preferable
Can see a measuring thread of mouth sizes coming on, open to both male and females :twisted: :twisted:
I don't believe it's a size issue. Let me qualify that by saying I can only speak as the receiver of blow jobs ;-) but I know my missus gets the achy jaw sometimes. It's not that I'm over endowed, but more to do with the fact that she's having to hold her mouth open to avoid too much contact from the teeth. I suspect if she was toothless the issue would go away because she could relax and bear down rather than strain to stay open. :lol2:
looks for 'smack in the gob' emote for cubes...
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i have often wondered what the 'longer' fellas get from making the giver gag, or is it just a porno thing that guys think the giver get something from.

You don't have to be a 'longer fella' to do it Sara, surely? I mean, I'm not massive, but luckily for me I've yet to meet a woman ((( Or a man now I think on it. ))) who's tonsils were more than 5 or 6 inches away from their lips? confused They'd have an odd shaped head if they were? dunno :? Not that I deliberately go out to make Gemmie gag, cos that would be mean, obviously . . . just she sometimes does this thing when I've got a handful of her hair and . . . .
Actually, I should probably leave the whole issue of what Gemmie gets from it for Gemmie, cos I can't say, but for the record I do find the gagging vaguely arousing, and seems she does too, cos if she didn't she wouldn't do it off her own back? I suspect my response has summat to do with it? :twisted:
;)
N x x x ;)
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i have often wondered what the 'longer' fellas get from making the giver gag, or is it just a porno thing that guys think the giver get something from.

I have had a couple of girls who have been able to take it 'balls deep', it certainly doesnt feel any better than a good shallow one ;)
It does however look fantastic and can, in my experience, make a girl feel filthy and rightfully proud of their prowess!
I would never feel the need to push a partner into deep throat, but Im always happy to help kill an unwanted gag reflex :rascal:
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Can see a measuring thread of mouth sizes coming on, open to both male and females :twisted: :twisted:

:eek: <<< that's as far as mine will go lol
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I have had a couple of girls who have been able to take it 'balls deep', it certainly doesnt feel any better than a good shallow one ;)

No, it doesn't really now you mention it? It's lips and tongue that offer the proper kind of stimulation that gets me off. They're not doing a right lot when they're wrapped round the base of me cock.
It does however look fantastic and can, in my experience, make a girl feel filthy and rightfully proud of their prowess!

That's probably it. Gemmie revelling in her own skills, and me being properly appreciative of them. There is usually a bit of dirty talk going on from my end, and noises coming from her end, and the combination of 'em along with the tugging kind of makes it seem properly filthy. This is coming from someone who was brought up to be all sensitive and polite to women, and had to be trained how to make a noise when he came FFS, let alone how to call their significant other a dirty little slut and tell 'em how to fucking take it and how much they fucking love it. blast ((( Me mam would kill me if she heard me say such things! :scared: redface lol ))) It's not about sensation. It's mental.
N x x x ;)
if u got a big dick..... n some1 gags on u coz u got hold of theier hair n u drag em........... they aint going there again
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Recently spoke with an EX and found w outhile my size(8"+, quite thick) was advantegous for sex. Oral was a problem, this has also been stated by the EX before last. In short too big, mouth aches. Anyway to get around this or make the girls more comfortable?
Looking forward to your advice, thanks

if its ever a problem again.......offer her anal sex :eeek:...oral no longer a problem ....simples :thumbup:
I have been known to give 'the odd' bj and in my very limited experience, I find that its more girth that can be the problem rather than length. As said previously, you don't need all of the length in your mouth and if you do, then you need lessons! (My inbox is over there <<<<<<<< wink )
There is always the fear of causing discomfort with your teeth and you obviously do need to open your mouth a little wider to accommodate a fatter cock. It is a bit harder to get a good suction on a fatter one too. To be fair though, no matter how thick something is in ya mouth, if you're sucking something for a prolonged period, your jaw is going to ache from the muscles you're using.
As far as deepthroat goes, of course it's easier to do it to a guy who ain't long or overly girthy. Long ones need to go deeper down your throat and really fat ones just get stuck and wont go down! lol I obviously cant comment on what guys get out of it, I'm sure a lot of it is visual and in the mind. Either way, you do always seem to get a good reaction from it. Personally, I quite like doing it. I like the whole gagging thing, although not to the point where I'm gonna see my last meal again. :lol: It all just feels a bit dirty!
I hate it when the lady on the receiving end of my tongue has a massive pussy and I end up losing my head.
So frustrating! wink
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I hate it when the lady on the receiving end of my tongue has a massive pussy and I end up losing my head.
So frustrating! wink

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
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I hate it when the lady on the receiving end of my tongue has a massive pussy and I end up losing my head.
So frustrating! wink

Thats why I never wear my best watch when Im meeting a really naughty lady :lol2:
*note to self: check watches in future* wink
Hmmmm... not being blessed with tremendous oral prowess, I must confess to having utter deep throat ability envy. It does look great.
One of our recent meets had girth and lots of it! Whilst that made for great sex, it didn't make for such great oral (although he didn't seem to be complaining) It was fun but hard work lol. I don't think there's anything you can do to change this tho.
Oh and Nellie - would you have a word with *Him* please and teach him how to make a noise when he cum's? I LOVE it when the guy i'm with is vocal. He's fine calling me a dirty little slut tho...... lol
*Her*
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I have been known to give 'the odd' bj

If you practice enough and get to be able to give normal ones, give me a shout, I might let you have a go.
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*note to self: check watches in future* wink

or date only guys who wear expencive watches :twisted: :twisted:
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*note to self: check watches in future* wink

or date only guys who wear expencive watches :twisted: :twisted:
Now that brings a whole new twist to the phrase "gold digger"! rotflmao
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I must confess to having utter deep throat ability envy. It does look great.

My cock + those boobs + a little lube = :happy:
Im sure that would look as good as any deep throat shot ;)
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*note to self: check watches in future* wink

or date only guys who wear expencive watches :twisted: :twisted:
Now that brings a whole new twist to the phrase "gold digger"! rotflmao
:rotflmao: Actually made me laugh out loud!
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I must confess to having utter deep throat ability envy. It does look great.

My cock + those boobs + a little lube = :happy:
Im sure that would look as good as any deep throat shot ;)
:thumbup: Indeed I'm sure it would! wink
Quote by noladreams
I must confess to having utter deep throat ability envy. It does look great.

I'll teach you .... who shall we practice on?
Quote by Funlovers2009
I must confess to having utter deep throat ability envy. It does look great.

I'll teach you .... who shall we practice on?
wave
Hehe... probably best to start small and work your way up? ;-)
Quote by Funlovers2009
I must confess to having utter deep throat ability envy. It does look great.

I'll teach you .... who shall we practice on?
Pick me, pick me, pick me! :bounce:
Oh dear... look what you've started now Fun! :giggle:
Still, the auditions would be fun :rascal:
Quote by Big_Fraser
I must confess to having utter deep throat ability envy. It does look great.

I'll teach you .... who shall we practice on?
Pick me, pick me, pick me! :bounce:
Can I help too please? :twisted: