Is that person a swinger?

28 Nov 2005

Since joining here and for the past while that i have been interested in this lifestyle I find myself looking at everyone I walk past or see on a bus, train etc and wondering which of them are in the swinging lifestyle - anybody else the same? Or has anybody worked out a way of identifying swingers when in public places??

28 Nov 2005

All the time, I am always getting told off by Ian for doing it redface

28 Nov 2005

Quote by TallFunLondon
Since joining here and for the past while that i have been interested in this lifestyle I find myself looking at everyone I walk past or see on a bus, train etc and wondering which of them are in the swinging lifestyle - anybody else the same? Or has anybody worked out a way of identifying swingers when in public places??

Just look for a little badge! lol

Mal

28 Nov 2005

TFL, literally as you typed I was standing in the Q at Sainsbury's wondering just that about the couple in front of us wink

28 Nov 2005

xxx

28 Nov 2005

Quote by SauciSpouse
TFL, literally as you typed I was standing in the Q at Sainsbury's wondering just that about the couple in front of us

and what was your conclusion??

28 Nov 2005

we do exactly the same its impossible to tell.I doubt very much that we look like have been looking for the new sh badge but have yet to see one.

28 Nov 2005

I think you'll find they are unmistakable lol

28 Nov 2005

We used to do that all the time, but not so much now.
Some of the peeps we saw, we were sure were swingers, but it was all in the minds of newbies.
Mind you we still cant tell 'em apart lol.
:shock: :shock: :shock:

28 Nov 2005

i find them very easy to spot...........
when i go to partners ive found (after tlaking to couples) that those wearing towels are almost always swingers... :shock:

28 Nov 2005

Quote by TallFunLondon
TFL, literally as you typed I was standing in the Q at Sainsbury's wondering just that about the couple in front of us

and what was your conclusion??
Well they might be and then again they might not . . .
that's the fun of imagining redface

28 Nov 2005

Remember that bootleg swingpin? I saw a couple wearing them on a train, so being a nosey bugger I struck up a conversation. Turns out they weren't swingers at all, just thought it was a nice badge as they are both Pisceans. rotflmao

And that, my friends, is precisely why ours isn't advertised. If you see it and recognise it, you must be one of us. biggrin

28 Nov 2005

Ive never found myself imagining if people are swingers as yet but if i see an attractive lady i usually imagine how she would be in bed what she likes, dislikes sexually mmmmm the imagination is a wonderfull thing. It can sometimes be a let down when its not lived upto though sad

If i see a lady wearing nylons i always think tights or stockings and have done that since as far back as i can remember lol

28 Nov 2005

Of course they are, some of them don't know it yet, that's all...

28 Nov 2005

Quote by Phire
Of course they are, some of them don't know it yet, that's all...

valid point - guess everyone is a 'swinger in the making!'

28 Nov 2005

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28 Nov 2005

There is no way of recognising anyone who is a swinger....not even in swinging clubs, as some only go to watch! :cry:

28 Nov 2005

We do this all the time and even more so after a munch or party.
It always makes us smile biggrin

xx
Del

28 Nov 2005

Hhhmmmmm glad I'm not alone playing this game then...... smile

M

29 Nov 2005

Yes i have to admit i do it too

29 Nov 2005

oh dear odd one out again I never look at peps and think "I wonder if they are swingers"
even at the bloody munch I went too :shock:

29 Nov 2005

I think it's great that they are not so obvious, it means that swingers come in all kinds of varieties and flavours :P
I do play the 'would you fuck him' game when standing in queues and looking through the line though :twisted:

29 Nov 2005

Quote by markz
oh dear odd one out again I never look at peps and think "I wonder if they are swingers"
even at the bloody munch I went too :shock:

LOL aww dear Markz.....you sound like it was all too much! :P

29 Nov 2005

Quote by berksbex
oh dear odd one out again I never look at peps and think "I wonder if they are swingers"
even at the bloody munch I went too :shock:

LOL aww dear Markz.....you sound like it was all too much! :P
He need small naps throughout the day, otherwise it to much for him wink

Its all that chatting he does lol.

29 Nov 2005

Quote by Ice Pie
Remember that bootleg swingpin? I saw a couple wearing them on a train, so being a nosey bugger I struck up a conversation. Turns out they weren't swingers at all, just thought it was a nice badge as they are both Pisceans.
And that, my friends, is precisely why ours isn't advertised. If you see it and recognise it, you must be one of us.

I wanna be one of you!
*cant wait till he gets his pin*
PLUM
Aka
Dlep (on chat)

29 Nov 2005

Fact is I can not tell. So if you like them that much or want to get to know then why not give them your card 'I swinging as ***** on swing heaven' or may not such a good idea.
comments?

29 Nov 2005

Quote by
Fact is I can not tell. So if you like them that much or want to get to know then why not give them your card 'I swinging as ***** on swing heaven' or may not such a good idea.
comments?

very discreet - NOT!

29 Nov 2005

Quote by berksbex
I think it's great that they are not so obvious, it means that swingers come in all kinds of varieties and flavours :P
I do play the 'would you fuck him' game when standing in queues and looking through the line though :twisted:

Bex - do you go with a simple yes/no or do you give marks out of ten??

29 Nov 2005

because I live and work very close to a swingers club it is inevitable that I meet people who I know from the club in 'civvy street'. What never ceases to astound me is just how different people look when they are dressed, been no end of times i have had people talking to me and i have poitely nodded and said yes and no at the right times whilst thinking "who the hell are you" only to find out that they know me/have seen me at the club.
On the occasion I have seen someone in the street, shop or whatever that I think I recognise fromt he club I still haven't worked out how to go up to them and say.... " was I sucking your breast in the jacuzzi last night"..... please pm any suggestions lol

30 Nov 2005

Three of my favourite "games" about spotting people are . . .
Usually when alone - Spot the Swinger (Usually more a case of wishful thinking)
If I'm out and about with a girl (hopefully a bi girl) The "Wouldya" game
and when driving to or from a munch - Spot the munchers. (Seriously thinking of putting the sign from my truck, in the car more often)