Is there such a thing as a single bi female?

3 Mar 2005

My partner and I have come to wonder this. Have been contacted by 4 or 5 folk through our ad but had no success although we are still talking to one who hopefully will go through with the whole thing.
So I am wondering how many couples have actually been seeking single bi females and have had the fortune to find them.
In addition what other sort of places should we be looking.
My gf seems to have no problems attracting bi curious girls but as soon as they know i'm involved it's a no go. Would any of you guys be quite happy for your girl to meet them alone. I thought i was but now I'm not so sure. Help required please. confused

3 Mar 2005

There certainly are single bi females on this site - I'm one of them.
The thing is that single bi fems are what a lot of couples and single guys are looking for.
Keep trying, the best way to get to know people here is through the forums and the chat room, so join in and have fun.

3 Mar 2005

we have had the same problem! Had an ad up for ages and no joy!! confused

So just to reiterate if theres any bi females interesed our ad's down there!! Also be nice to hear some feedback from some Bi-Females maybe we haent done a good enough ad or said something off putting??

3 Mar 2005

We were just very VERY lucky I suppose...... One came into our lives 2 1/2 years ago by accident and has stayed ever since!!!!!! biggrin

:D :D :D

3 Mar 2005

there are quite a lot of single bi fems.. i know quite a few of this site...
just that the single non bi guys sort of over shadow them
Jiggle

6 Mar 2005

Nope - don't know of any dunno

6 Mar 2005

Single bi girls. Hmmm. Let me know if you find any. wink

6 Mar 2005

No, I've not seen any either biggrin

6 Mar 2005

I am, when I'm in girl-mode :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

6 Mar 2005

Bloody typical just like the no 10 bus. You wait around for ages for one then they all turn up together wink

(hmmmm now wouldn't that make a great party :P )

6 Mar 2005

Quote by honeyriderx
Bloody typical just like the no 10 bus. You wait around for ages for one then they all turn up together (hmmmm now wouldn't that make a great party :P )

You arranging one then??

6 Mar 2005

While you lot are all fighting over the single bi-females can you please send all the obviously unwanted straight ones over here?
Having said that can someone please explain to me why only single bi-fems will do? What's wrong with meeting another couple where the female partner is bi? Is it down to selfishness? Is the female partner driving it or is the male partner driving it?
OK, ok I know all situations are different etc but why so many people chasing the same thing? dunno

Steve

6 Mar 2005

Quote by HannahnAlex
steve we meet both singles and cpls so sorry we aint got any spare

A lot don't though. The question was more aimed along the lines of:
1. Is it the male thinking "I don't mind seeing my partner with another woman and I might get to shag her too but there's no way I'm letting another guy near my partner".
2. Is it the female thinking "I'd really like some fun with another woman and I don't mind my partner being involved but there's no way I want another guy touching me."
3. Something else.
Steve

6 Mar 2005

Quote by Sarah1448
Bloody typical just like the no 10 bus. You wait around for ages for one then they all turn up together (hmmmm now wouldn't that make a great party :P )

You arranging one then??
Sadly no, but I know a girl who might :wink: :twisted:

6 Mar 2005

Quote by steveg_nw
While you lot are all fighting over the single bi-females can you please send all the obviously unwanted straight ones over here?
Having said that can someone please explain to me why only single bi-fems will do? What's wrong with meeting another couple where the female partner is bi? Is it down to selfishness? Is the female partner driving it or is the male partner driving it?
OK, ok I know all situations are different etc but why so many people chasing the same thing?
Steve

I am a bi-fem half of a couple and I am happy to meet ladies alone for fun-this is very clear in my ad too. I have lost count of the number of mails i have had from the male half of couples along the lines of , " my g/f is bi-curious wanna join us for some fun?"
In short NO-I happily meet couples with my bf and this arrangement suits us both.
In my (albeit limited) experience it is the male half of the couple wishing to persue the mff fantasy-a lot of the fems I have spoken to are keener to meet fem to fem-especially where their experience is limited.
This is by no means a generalisation as steveg said, all situations are different and I am sure there are many couples where the female is the driving force-this is just my experience.
Minx xx

6 Mar 2005

Quote by steveg_nw
steve we meet both singles and cpls so sorry we aint got any spare

A lot don't though. The question was more aimed along the lines of:
1. Is it the male thinking "I don't mind seeing my partner with another woman and I might get to shag her too but there's no way I'm letting another guy near my partner".
2. Is it the female thinking "I'd really like some fun with another woman and I don't mind my partner being involved but there's no way I want another guy touching me."
3. Something else.
Steve
Surely, Steve, it comes down to a matter of "preference" sometimes.I know that a couple I have sex with (not on the forums) are not interested in having another male involved, by mutual consent. Their feeling is that it "just isn't their particular preference". And lets face it -a lot of us do have preferences. I was asked today in PM, for example, why I prefer married couples to "makeshift" ones. That's my preference and I have my own personal reasons for that. Some couples prefer single men. Some prefer couples. Some prefer groups. It all makes for one big melting pot of diversity I think.

6 Mar 2005

Quote by steveg_nw
1. Is it the male thinking "I don't mind seeing my partner with another woman and I might get to shag her too but there's no way I'm letting another guy near my partner".

This does happen. I had a couple of experiences with a couple who just wanted fems. The reason was the male half couldn't stand the thought of his partner being touched by another man. However, it was fine for him to fuck fems.... in fact he even got a bit jealous if the fem-fem contact went on for "too long" confused

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It ended up with him constantly ringing me to arrange 121s behind her back, even though every time I said no. I ended up ignoring his phone calls rolleyes

It all ended badly. I bumped into him in town a while ago and apparently they have now split up cos she was fucking another bloke behind his back.
Well, there you go :shock: :shock: :shock:
:? :? :? :? :? :?
OK, hijak over smile

6 Mar 2005

Quote by Rainbows
Surely, Steve, it comes down to a matter of "preference" sometimes.I know that a couple I have sex with (not on the forums) are not interested in having another male involved, by mutual consent. Their feeling is that it "just isn't their particular preference". And lets face it -a lot of us do have preferences. I was asked today in PM, for example, why I prefer married couples to "makeshift" ones. That's my preference and I have my own personal reasons for that. Some couples prefer single men. Some prefer couples. Some prefer groups. It all makes for one big melting pot of diversity I think.

Of course it all comes down to preference............I just asking why the preference of what seems to be the majority of couples is "We ONLY want to meet a single bi-fem"?
Steve

6 Mar 2005

come to think of it... no-one is ever looking for a single bi male :cry:
there is just no justice! :twisted:

6 Mar 2005

Quote by TRiNiTV
come to think of it... no-one is ever looking for a single bi male :cry:
there is just no justice! :twisted:

i like bi males ..how could i not they just have to be pretty fit

6 Mar 2005

hey we have had some good and have found a few to

6 Mar 2005

We never request single bi-fems. Nothing to do with the sex, its just that we prefer the experience to be more wholesome. We like the 4 way connection and for the lads as well as the girls to connect and hit it off......socially especially we just prefer the 2 couples scenario rather than the 1 couple and single guy/girl. Sadly it happens all to infrequently.

7 Mar 2005

What I don't like is when it's supposed to be fem on fem and then a few days before the hint of the boyfriend shagging you aswell is dropped in randomly.
Anyway, I'm not single! :P

7 Mar 2005

but do you still turn up gem hehhhee

7 Mar 2005

Rachel, if they can't be honest with me then why should I do something I'm not comfy with? dunno

Maybe I'm just really fussy....... :dunno: