Is this fantasy normal?

7 Sep 2010

When I am watching Sharon having fun with a guy (especially if he is well hung) I often get a fantasy in my head of the condom splitting, the guy knows (Shaz don't) but caries on anyway until he cums.
Is that normal or is it just me redface

Now just to note before you answer..
We don't do bareback simply because for us, the risks are to high.
Tony :-)

7 Sep 2010

I don't think there is any such thing as 'normal' when it comes to fantasies
Is it a fantasy you would like to see happen or happy just to think about it and get turned on by it and never actually see it happen?
If the latter I wouldn't worry about it and carry on as you are, the first option obviously carries it's own risks

7 Sep 2010

nothing wrong with that at all
we have cream pie fantasies but would never ever fullfill them as like you feel the risk is too high so they just stay a fantasy

7 Sep 2010

I fantasise over messy sex often! It's normal in my world! :mrgreen:

7 Sep 2010

If I'm honest then even the thought of someone other than myself having bareback sex with J puts me off totally but if the fantasy of bareback gets you going then that's good enough and requires no over analysis although it would be interesting to know if its the pregnancy risk or the thought of another guy leaving his 'mark' in your woman only you can get to know the limits of your fantasy and as long as the real life play doesn't have bare-backing in it then thata cool

7 Sep 2010

For once I agree that the fantasy should stay a fantasy. Like all have said if its just the thought that keeps you going then no problem.

7 Sep 2010

Quote by Shaz_and_Tony
When I am watching Sharon having fun with a guy (especially if he is well hung) I often get a fantasy in my head of the condom splitting, the guy knows (Shaz don't) but caries on anyway until he cums.
Is that normal or is it just me
Now just to note before you answer..
We don't do bareback simply because for us, the risks are to high.
Tony :-)

7 Sep 2010

Thanks for all your replies!
Yes it is just a fantasy and if was to happen I would be worried to death about possible STD's ... Still don't stop me thinking about it though lol

And no, no "pregnancy risk" fantasy, ffs I have enough of the one we have :lol:
Least I know i'm normal and not sick :lol:
Tony ;-)

7 Sep 2010

It's not sick.
.but it is never going to happen in life. One of my longtime fantasies is a commune and no condoms at all.
All very safe, med checks, and lots of cum all over the place. I even have a list of who is in the commune, but that keeps growing.
If anyone want to know if they are on the list you can PM me, but I am not going to tell the world.

7 Sep 2010

Hi,
Please don't take this personnally.........But I keep coming across comments like 'is this normal' in these forums........and it puzzles me a all.....aren't we ON this site in the first place because we're looking for something that some people would class as not normal?????
And what the hell is 'normal' anyway?????.........I know I've come across ( Should I rephrase that? :twisted: ) a considerable number of apparently respectable citizens who......when we get down to it.....are a LONG way from 'normal'! ( bless 'em!! lol

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Added to that.....I'M certainly not brave enough to try to dictate to someone else what's normal......are you??
As with most things......especially in fantasy.....who does it hurt???.....if the answer is 'no one!'......then stop worrying!!!
Chris

7 Sep 2010

Quote by old_arse
Hi,
Please don't take this personnally.........But I keep coming across comments like 'is this normal' in these forums........and it puzzles me a all.....aren't we ON this site in the first place because we're looking for something that some people would class as not normal?????
And what the hell is 'normal' anyway?????.........I know I've come across ( Should I rephrase that? :twisted: ) a considerable number of apparently respectable citizens who......when we get down to it.....are a LONG way from 'normal'! ( bless 'em!! )
Added to that.....I'M certainly not brave enough to try to dictate to someone else what's normal......are you??
As with most things......especially in fantasy.....who does it hurt???.....if the answer is 'no one!'......then stop worrying!!!
Chris

Far from worried and not taken it personally at all!
I am asking if it's something that others think about, normal as in not out of the ordinary.
There is no such thing as normal as what one finds normal another don't but it's nice to ask a question such as this to see if in fact this was a rare thought or not while swinging.
It's the way we learn is to ask others, we have learned lots by asking questions in the short 8 years we have been swinging and we will continue to ask and to continue to learn.
Tony ;-)

7 Sep 2010

Of coarse its normal :thumbup:
Just a shame we can not indulge in such activity's :twisted:

8 Sep 2010

well of course if the fantasy involved kids and animals then i'm sure there would be some who do think it not normal. which immediately contradicts the theory that any fantasy is harmless.