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Well, if you've just been using the Ad section I'm not surprised you've had no success................you are just one of thousands of single guys cruising the Ads. For any real chance of success you need to be here, in the Forums................where the REAL people are.
Join in with the posts, get yourself known, and you might find you do a lot better!
Join in with the posts, get yourself known, and you might find you do a lot better!
OK so you've been here a couple of weeks
made one post
Have 2 ads - each of one line looking for fems or couples to "teach you"
I thing there's a possibility you maybe on the wrong site
Try reading this for a bit of help
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/20451.html
A few of things you may want to consider:
1. It is a swinging site, which doesn't necessarily translate to "quick shag site"
2. The ratio of single men to couples/females puts you in the majority
3. Swinging is about mutual pleasure - you ad is stating that you want people to teach you, but it doesn't give any information about what you have to offer
4. Of the thousands of single male ad's you need to make your's stand out
Now bearing that in mind here's a few suggestions:
1. Why not join in on the forum so people get to know you
2. Read some of the advice topics - they're written by successful swingers
3. Re-write you "ads" - you may want to take a look at some of the others out there to get some ideas
Oh and last point - :welcome:
made one post
Have 2 ads - each of one line looking for fems or couples to "teach you"
I thing there's a possibility you maybe on the wrong site
Try reading this for a bit of help
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/20451.html
A few of things you may want to consider:
1. It is a swinging site, which doesn't necessarily translate to "quick shag site"
2. The ratio of single men to couples/females puts you in the majority
3. Swinging is about mutual pleasure - you ad is stating that you want people to teach you, but it doesn't give any information about what you have to offer
4. Of the thousands of single male ad's you need to make your's stand out
Now bearing that in mind here's a few suggestions:
1. Why not join in on the forum so people get to know you
2. Read some of the advice topics - they're written by successful swingers
3. Re-write you "ads" - you may want to take a look at some of the others out there to get some ideas
Oh and last point - :welcome:
Sex God
You also have to remember that you only get from this site what you are prepared to put in. Looking at the two posts you have made, the two 'one line' ads you have and lack of photos, does not look like you have put in any effort at all.
As said above, there are thousands and thousands of single males looking for females or couples. Why should they reply to you? What is so special about you? That is not a dig at you in any way, but a genuine question as your ads dont give them any reason to reply.
Put in some effort, tell people about yourself and show us why anyone would want to reply to you rather than the 1000's of others on here.
Good luck.
As said above, there are thousands and thousands of single males looking for females or couples. Why should they reply to you? What is so special about you? That is not a dig at you in any way, but a genuine question as your ads dont give them any reason to reply.
Put in some effort, tell people about yourself and show us why anyone would want to reply to you rather than the 1000's of others on here.
Good luck.
Sex God
Quote by Fred aka Medic 1
As said above, there are thousands and thousands of single males looking for females or couples.
Good luck.
There are only 1000 now cos I just took down all my ad's
phredd :love:
aww, now that should help the situation Phred, also if you are no longer pinching all the single femals and couples, he just might have a chance now! :wink:
I am in a simialr situation and only just joined the site, can't belive how sophisticated this site is, I thought was fun! Have posted as much detail as I can but I guess I too need to make use of the forums to get known, so hi everyone and if you are in sheffield looking for an eager male send me a message!
Quote by paul4stockings
I am in a simialr situation and only just joined the site, can't belive how sophisticated this site is, I thought was fun! Have posted as much detail as I can but I guess I too need to make use of the forums to get known, so hi everyone and if you are in sheffield looking for an eager male send me a message!
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