I was at a rubbish family party last night, and my second cousin who I haven't seen since I was 15 (note he's now 41 & i'm 24) was really flirting with me, smacked my bum, kept grabbing me and asked me out for a drink.
So so wrong. :shock: We're related.
Does anyone actually think this would be ok?
Note: I have no intention of anything, it just staggers me he was like that.
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Is this very very wrong?
Sex God
Legally speaking, it's erh, legal for 2nd cousins to shag ... but as to your question, yes, it's definitely weird and personally, I think that is still far too closely related.
Sex God
Quote by J3diMast3r
Legally speaking, it's erh, legal for 2nd cousins to shag ... but as to your question, yes, it's definitely weird and personally, I think that is still far too closely related.
It's totally legal for first cousins to shag. I have an aunty and uncle who are cousins of each other and have been married for 30 years.
But regarding the situation... I wouldn't feel comfortable whether or not it was my cousin. I would tell them to bog off.
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Sex God
shhhh, is that banjoes I can hear? :shock:
on a more serious note, if it makes you feel uncomfortable, its not right.
easy peasy.
i guess what i'm saying is that you felt wrong about his advances, question answered :thumbup:
on a more serious note, if it makes you feel uncomfortable, its not right.
easy peasy.i guess what i'm saying is that you felt wrong about his advances, question answered :thumbup:
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Petal dearie, I think it was 'wrong' for you to say go to a 'rubbish' family party.
whys that wrong? if the party was rubbish it was rubbish :roll:
But back to the question i think i would have drop kicked him myself, i just couldn't have any kind of relationship with anyone in my family its just not right
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In the the formal settlements of Israel there are large creches. The members appear to treat each other as siblings. Research suggest that there is a natural 'non-attractiveness' between those raised together. Does this help to explain your cousin.
not really i'd say he was just a dirty old perv
Whether the relationship is legal or not is not the real issue here, if it feels wrong then it IS wrong and best not to take it any further.
Perhaps the age difference is another factor to be considered.
Just our opinion, obviously some cousins can and have had a good relationship without any hang-ups. It is down to the individuals own feelings at the end of the day.
Perhaps the age difference is another factor to be considered.
Just our opinion, obviously some cousins can and have had a good relationship without any hang-ups. It is down to the individuals own feelings at the end of the day.
Sexlightened
I personally wouldnt feel comfortable with it 
, unless ur not blood related
but people do marry there 1st cousins :confused:
I dont think its wrong but if u like that sort of thing then go 4 it
I have a lesbian friend who has been going out with ..................................................................................wait for it..........................................................................................her AUNTIE :crazy: on her dads side, fair enough she didnt no they where related when they actully got together but once they found out i think they should have stopped but they didnt, now i think thats wrong.
, unless ur not blood related but people do marry there 1st cousins :confused:
I dont think its wrong but if u like that sort of thing then go 4 it
I have a lesbian friend who has been going out with ..................................................................................wait for it..........................................................................................her AUNTIE :crazy: on her dads side, fair enough she didnt no they where related when they actully got together but once they found out i think they should have stopped but they didnt, now i think thats wrong.
Taken from a law firm website:
The prohibitions apply to illegitimate as well as legitimate relationships.
A woman may not marry her:
....Mother's sister (aunt) ... Mother's brother (uncle)...
Marriage of Cousins
Despite the long list of degrees of forbidden relationship, you can marry a cousin (courtesy of Henry VIII who changed the law to marry his cousin!). However, it would be sensible for you both to consult your GP to ensure that there are no factors in your family's health records that would make your decision to have children inadvisable on medical grounds.
On subject, in general,, if something feels wrong to you, it probably is wrong for you.
Not quite on subject, but the whole near relation thing is a potential minefield for the future due to some of the laws relating to confidentiality. The children conceived from Sperm and egg donors, or from legal adoptions may not even know who their real genetic relations are. Although the chances of having a relationship with a very close genetic relation may not be huge, it will happen from time to time and the people involved will be the ones left picking up the pieces.
Not quite on subject, but the whole near relation thing is a potential minefield for the future due to some of the laws relating to confidentiality. The children conceived from Sperm and egg donors, or from legal adoptions may not even know who their real genetic relations are. Although the chances of having a relationship with a very close genetic relation may not be huge, it will happen from time to time and the people involved will be the ones left picking up the pieces.
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I have a lesbian friend who has been going out with ..................................................................................wait for it..........................................................................................her AUNTIE :crazy: on her dads side.
now is that her dad's sister.....or.......her dad's brother's wife
sounds like an episode of soap
fil
Sexlightened
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I have a lesbian friend who has been going out with ..................................................................................wait for it..........................................................................................her AUNTIE :crazy: on her dads side.
now is that her dad's sister.....or.......her dad's brother's wife
sounds like an episode of soap
fil
its her dads sister :shock:
Quote by Young_Swingers
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I have a lesbian friend who has been going out with ..................................................................................wait for it..........................................................................................her AUNTIE :crazy: on her dads side.
now is that her dad's sister.....or.......her dad's brother's wife
sounds like an episode of soap
fil
its her dads sister :shock:
If this is true and they are full blood relatives, according to the law website I looked at, what they are doing is illegal.
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I have a lesbian friend who has been going out with ..................................................................................wait for it..........................................................................................her AUNTIE :crazy: on her dads side.
now is that her dad's sister.....or.......her dad's brother's wife
sounds like an episode of soap
fil
its her dads sister :shock:
If this is true and they are full blood relatives, according to the law website I looked at, what they are doing is illegal.
according to the section that you posted before... it cant be illegal as they arent married.......
are you saying that theres a law preventing relations of this type having "relations"???
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Oh god, I would never actually consider it! It just really creeped me out.
By the way, it wasn't the older than me thing, or the groper rather than seducer thing, its just we're related and I would never even think of him in that way!
And my mum was right there too!
so was he pissed then..... or are you as fit as you sound?
