Daz76, I think you did the right thing. I have also been in similar situations, and you learn to trust your first instincts and play it safe. Better luck next time.
Mike.
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Is this weird in the swinging scene?
Instict plays a large part in it. We've sometimes started to arrange a meet with someone and they make a comment that doesn't fit in with other things they've said. Suddenly, I've got alarm bells ringing.
I've found it best if you spend time talking to people online for a good while first and anything 'strange' has more time to show up.
I've found it best if you spend time talking to people online for a good while first and anything 'strange' has more time to show up.
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Mrs Flower won`t even chat in the room when she`s on cam let alone talk on the phone.
She will very occasionally look at the cam and raise her eyebrows in answer to something or if you really get her on a good day she`ll laugh or frown !!!
I know this makes people nervous and when i say to singles that they have to meet me first i can hear the alarm bells ringing !!!
But that`s just the way she is, she likes to fuck , not talk and who am i to argue ??
Hmmm......I suppose I would say that if the other party new that from the start, they wouldn't be able to complain if they decide to meet. I'd say it's more of an issue if a couple's ad portrays them as equally open and 'active', but the reality is different.
Warming the Bed
At the end of the day go off your gut feeling......
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Shireen handles all our phone conversations so we dont have to worry on that score...
She will talk to anyone ..................Even Dawnie :shock:
But probably not markz
She will talk to anyone ..................Even Dawnie :shock:
But probably not markz
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just to reverse the coin here, the ex mrs pete was well up for meeting single guys and single girls, but was just way too shy to chat on the phone to all but a few.
despite that we had a lot of fun with people we met who took the chance. be brave, go for it, and if it doesn’t work out, write it off to experience.
faint heart never won fair shag :lol2:
despite that we had a lot of fun with people we met who took the chance. be brave, go for it, and if it doesn’t work out, write it off to experience.
faint heart never won fair shag :lol2:
We have the reverse, I'll speak to anyone on the phone, talk their ear off them if I'm allowed to, but my other half hates the phone and he won't talk on it unless he absolutely has to.
We've had some people think we're strange because he won't chat on the phone! I think couples are generally more used to women not being there to talk as the excuse for getting away with not being a couple or as polo pointed out, it being part of a fantasy.
I'd have done the same daz and not gone through with things. Sometimes gut instinct can be so much better than anything someone can and will tell you.
G. x
We've had some people think we're strange because he won't chat on the phone! I think couples are generally more used to women not being there to talk as the excuse for getting away with not being a couple or as polo pointed out, it being part of a fantasy.
I'd have done the same daz and not gone through with things. Sometimes gut instinct can be so much better than anything someone can and will tell you.
G. x
